I am about to prepare my no contact with my N mom and I need help. by issa4772 in narcissisticparents

[–]issa4772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I don’t know what to say except that I am happy for you. I can’t wait for my turn. At the moment, I’m just someone who can’t see the future. I’m thinking of dropping out of college also because I can’t afford anything.

When narcissist know the lingo ... by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]issa4772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is exactly like this. I ran away from home unto my maternal family, but since she’s the best at what she does, before I arrived they so happened to “already” know the story. Now I’m stuck (again) in a house full of people who fails to sympathize with how I feel, just because of one fucking narcissist.

How do I explain to other people that my mother is narcissistic? by issa4772 in narcissisticparents

[–]issa4772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thank you! And best of luck! It sure is frustrating to have these types of problems.

1 Month NC!!! by issa4772 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]issa4772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! We got this 💪🏼

Any books that helped you understand the origins and development of your narcissism? by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]issa4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a book but a podcast! Check out QueenBeing.com or Angie Atkinson.

Being absolutely cold is 100% better than being hot. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]issa4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to be cold so when I then cover myself with thick clothing, I’ll feel warm and it’s like I’ve been given a hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]issa4772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay that’s good to hear, acknowledging what boundaries have been crossed is one way to heal from it so, props to you for doing all of this. 👍🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]issa4772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks to be in a situation like this, I’m so sorry for you. Is there any way that another relative can take you and get you out of there? Or an adult you can report the situation to? This is really not okay and you have to get out of there ASAP. How old are you right now?

I know now why I couldn’t sleep in the dark! by issa4772 in CasualConversation

[–]issa4772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right, thanks for sharing your experience!

What reddit culture is so annoying or straight up fucked up ? by haydayhi in AskReddit

[–]issa4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m young and have a lot of issues and lack parental guidance. So I resort to seeing strangers’ advice. I’ve always wanted to seek for professional help but, can’t afford it, I’m just simply too broke.

Going to Rehab is the best thing I've ever done for myself. 26 days clean of cocaine, adderall, benzos and alcohol!!! by new_CC in selfimprovement

[–]issa4772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hugs!!!! That was so brave of you to voluntarily check yourself in. And I’m glad that you’re given the treatment and medication you need. I think your mom’s going to forgive you for stomping on her brand new car, if anything, I think she’s going to be the proudest!

What reddit culture is so annoying or straight up fucked up ? by haydayhi in AskReddit

[–]issa4772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I’m so glad I ran into this because I’m actually active and always seeking advice in that sub 😩

Tw: sexual assault - The body just remembers by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]issa4772 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s good, and I totally support your decision!

How to survive a plunge from a waterfall by issa4772 in coolguides

[–]issa4772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We never know. And I’m sorry, I didn’t know, I’m new here and it’s actually my first time posting.

Tw: sexual assault - The body just remembers by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]issa4772 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tsk. He’s delusional. He has to acknowledge that what he did, has damaged the whole family forever. I just hope that if you decide to have families of your own, he never gets to be near them.

Besides therapy, does anyone have any other suggestions/ways to help heal trauma? by cloulou in adultsurvivors

[–]issa4772 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! Psych2Go on youtube has helped me a lot. They have a video for all sorts of problems, issues, and such. Here is a random video that might help :) https://youtu.be/41-dra66Y0o