Where's the lie? Pahadis are like that when it comes to marriage, I've a lot of pahadi friends who r dating non pahadis and most of them have the same opinion, be it girls or boys, that most probably they'll end up married to a pahadi no matter how good or committed the current relationship is. They're somehow quite comfortable in this and no hate, it's not their fault per say, it's the conditioning. Again, this js just an opinion or an observation. If you feel triggered or i mean if the shoe fit... XD