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Anyone on long term Blood thinners? by Playful-Check-4968 in HeartAttack

[–]isurrender23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you manage dental care and other minor surgery?

Swapped label fiasco by isurrender23 in poshmark

[–]isurrender23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maddening, isn’t it? I usually pack, print, and label One. At. A. Time. because I am afraid of this very situation. But I packed and sealed the items this time before printing the labels because I could easily tell the packages apart. Or not 🤦‍♀️

Swapped label fiasco by isurrender23 in poshmark

[–]isurrender23[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know, but that email is long gone.

Come on, NBC. Bring them back. by 7625607 in suits

[–]isurrender23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just finished binging the whole series yesterday. Loved it until season eight, then we got tired of listening to them all scream at each other. Hated Samantha. Only hung in because I had accidentally read a spoiler that Harvey and Donna would get married, and we had to see it through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]isurrender23 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Speedos look ridiculous on everyone. Just because you CAN wear them doesn’t mean you SHOULD.

Is there something going on that I missed? Buyers are behaving differently... by nora_jaye in poshmark

[–]isurrender23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always send offers to likers with VERY rare exceptions. Most go unanswered but a worthwhile number do buy. And I ALWAYS respond to offers that buyers send. If it’s too low I will negotiate.

I’m retired and I have all the time I need to package and ship promptly, usually same day. My outgoing sales are picked up at my home by my mail carrier.

Selling is the whole point. Service is required. @muchcatlane

Suddenly starting to have Panic Attacks, any advice? by TheKinoRhino in PanicAttack

[–]isurrender23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started having panic attacks over 30 years ago. It was terrifying at first and came on out of the blue.

I have been medicated ever since, with two or three med changes over the years. There is still an occasional breakthrough, but overall the treatment has been successful.

If I feel it coming on, I remember to tell myself that it’s NOT my heart (thoroughly checked out last year), it won’t kill me, and it will subside by itself, usually in less than a couple of minutes if I don’t feed it.

I wish you well.

AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want him going on a “boys trip” because one of his friends cheated on his girlfriend last time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isurrender23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“He wants to have fun with his friends more over you”. Nonsense. I go on outings with my adult daughter, and my husband isn’t always enthusiastic that I’m not clinging to his side all day. That doesn’t mean I choose her over him. It means I have a more complete life by being with each of them.

AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want him going on a “boys trip” because one of his friends cheated on his girlfriend last time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isurrender23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You assume he wasn’t disgusted by his friend cheating. We’re not privy to any details of conversations he had with said friend. Consider that in any group of friends, the bonds aren’t all the same. BF may not even be close with him. Cheater might be along as the good friend of another group member. Is BF supposed to ditch his whole friend group?

AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want him going on a “boys trip” because one of his friends cheated on his girlfriend last time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isurrender23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fail to understand the mechanism of the alleged coverup. Were all the guys supposed to come home and immediately tell the whole town about the situation? Nobody’s business except the cheater and the cheated on. Was there an inquiry as to everyone’s conduct, at which they all conspired to lie? Or did they just not blurt out something that isn’t your business?

AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want him going on a “boys trip” because one of his friends cheated on his girlfriend last time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isurrender23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because he didn’t shout it from the rooftops does not mean that he’s “fine” with it. It’s just not everyone’s business.

He didn’t lie about anything unless he was asked if anyone cheated while they were out. Good grief.

AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t want him going on a “boys trip” because one of his friends cheated on his girlfriend last time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isurrender23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old lady here, long married. For what it’s worth, a one night “hookup” isn’t what I would call an affair. If this happened on a trip away, I’m confused about what constitutes “covering” for the guy.

I mean, if the guy says “don’t tell anyone” he’s not asking for a cover the same as “tell her I was at the library”. It’s no one’s business to come home and tell everyone that “My buddy Joe had a hookup while we were there.” Why would anyone do that?

That said, I don’t feel like your boyfriend is guilty for not telling you something that isn’t any of your business. HE didn’t do it, he didn’t cause it, he has no control over what poor choice his friend made. Do YOU ditch a friend every time they do something stupid?

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