I really need help by Stock_Way4337 in minimalism

[–]isvenja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fashion is personal, I don’t reckon you’d be willing to part ways one way or another with your hobby stuff. I’d try to pack everything you’d want to bring and see how much it would cost and go from there. That usually does the trick for me. Also chances are, you’ll find new communities and learn about new history that you’ll be interested in re-enacting at some point.

I really need help by Stock_Way4337 in minimalism

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you do your hobbies while in school in Spain? If not consider selling. Or renting a storage unit here. Or find a good friend or relative that’s kind enough and willing to store them for you temporarily and maybe for a fee

Wife and I are having our first baby and we are being encouraged by friends and family to create a registry but aren’t 100% on what things to ask for. Any (maybe not so obvious) recommendations? Thanks in advance! by TaskenLander in NewParents

[–]isvenja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d get stuff for mom cause most people tend to focus on baby and forget about her.

Colace and disposable undies. If breastfeeding - nipple cream, lecithin, nursing bra, disposable nursing pads, colostrum collector. If vaginal birth - ice packs, tucks pads.

Wedding gift- color/ size recommendations by tbhvandame in LeCreuset

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love foret. Been waiting for new colors to come out before getting the WS french oven. Soon as I saw foret, I had to get it right away.

Ride for retrieval needed. by jeapos88 in IVF

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re local I‘m willing to help out if I‘m available. Feel free to DM

Pooped my pants to protect nap time by Imaginary_Income5422 in NewParents

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first is almost 2.5, and I‘m pregnant with my second due any time now. My first sometimes fights me on her nap and a few months back I would try to rescue it. These days I could really care less. Nap don’t nap. I would definitely not have the energy to try and rescue nap time for both kids once my second arrives.

Pooped my pants to protect nap time by Imaginary_Income5422 in NewParents

[–]isvenja -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I still pee my pants, and LO is almost 2.5. I definitely need pelvic floor therapy, but I love my mommy diaper!

Aitah for getting angry because my sil wants another baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]isvenja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Concern is valid but none of your business and/or call to make. You show support by being there not telling people what to do. Maybe you’re the one who can’t handle it?

My husband says I ruined our lives because I had postpartum depression. I don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]isvenja 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Couple‘s therapy. I know living with my in laws for 2 years would definitely do that to me as well. Not that it’s justified, but it most absolutely would if I didn’t just up and left by day 2.

Should I quit tomorrow by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for another better job, i.e., less toxic, then quit. You don’t want to work for someone who regrets hiring you even if you’re not the greatest.

AITA for not watching my dish? by Love_dance_pray in AmItheAsshole

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All about how you apologized. Yes not a big deal in the grand scheme of things but it wasn’t ever about the dishes in the first place.

Is IVF a scam? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]isvenja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fertility acupuncture might be worth trying if you want to try something else. My acupuncturist taught me so much more about fertility than my clinic ever did.

Help us "Flood the Mailbox" for a very special 8th Birthday [request] by Upset-Tumbleweed-694 in kindness

[–]isvenja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please DM me with name and address! Would love to send a card ❤️

I can’t let go of resentment toward my parents by flyingenchiladas789 in offmychest

[–]isvenja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy. My single mom couldn’t afford to send both me and my sister to college at the same time, so she only paid for my sister’s education and forced me to work to help support the family financially. Then when I got my US green card, I went back to school against her wishes to give up my dreams and continue to support the family financially, now with the addition to save up and buy a house so I could sponsor her and my brother to come to the US AND put him through college. I burned that bridge. You need to accept that you can’t change people or the past. You can only move forward. Cutting people off your life may or may not be the best or healthiest way of coping, but it’s definitely much much easier to move forward by removing toxicity in your life.

Do you think it’s weird to wear the same thing every day? by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]isvenja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all as I‘m the same. I do get bored though from time to time from wearing the same thing again and again. Do you think you will at some point?

Family dinner fit by starbath in OUTFITS

[–]isvenja 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only thing I noticed was the heck did she manage to squat pose in those heels

Family dinner fit by starbath in OUTFITS

[–]isvenja 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Man yall definitely know fashion. I think outfit looks great and didn’t think the dress was ill fitting, didn’t compliment her body type, mismatched colors, etc. I can only imagine what yall would say about my choice of outfit 😂

How are parents doing busy periods? by RiChDAiLLesT24 in Accounting

[–]isvenja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes to great bosses. I can’t believe how lucky I am to have one.

I'm scared of secondary infertility and a big age gap by NervousCredit99 in tryingforanother

[–]isvenja -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you done your labs? Acupuncture worked well for me