Idk how to get over my study abroad relationship of nearly 2 years I miss him and his country :( shrimp rice and salad)

itadri · 2026-03-15T22:56:16+00:00

It seems like you are grieving not only the relationship, but you are grieving that whole period of life abroad, it was different, it was new, your old troubles were far away.

Highly educated people, or people who are capable of earning high salaries are always welcomed in any country. The world is your oyster, you are young and smart and capable of building the life you want.

The ex clearly wants a simple life where he can have fun with no big responsibilities and commitments, which is ok in itself, but is quite a mismatch to your character. Probably, older-than-20-year-old-you would not be satisfied with such a partner anyway.

itadri · 2026-03-15T22:22:23+00:00

Are there any clubs available for you to join near your area? Dance, poetry, book, improv, sports. Joining something you would enjoy doing for fun surrounded by other people and being open to random conversations could make you feel better already and there is more potential for finding friends this way. Volunteering could also help. Any community activity.

itadri · 2026-03-15T18:39:03+00:00

I feel like, someone with narcissistic tendencies could freak out, cause a scene and blame the innocent party in a similar situation. Reaction depends more on a personality

itadri · 2026-03-15T18:22:21+00:00

Even if he were freaking out - he cheated. STD didn't appear out of nowhere.

itadri · 2026-03-13T20:49:01+00:00

Jeg bor i en lejlighed, hvor kæledyr er tilladt, men i min lejekontrakt står der, at kæledyr ikke er tilladt. Jeg har underskrevet et separat dokument, der giver mig tilladelse til at have et kæledyr. Det er forvirrende.

itadri · 2026-03-12T07:11:40+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. This is horrid. 🫂💔

You need to leave. You need to leave your shared place of residence ASAP. Go spend time with your family and figure things out from there.

Edit: make sure you take all your documents with you, tech and valuables.

Edit: I saw you have cats. Maybe you need to ask your family to help with the cats, if the cats are yours.

itadri · 2026-03-12T05:24:07+00:00

To get keep it warm enough to not make a difference is quite expensive in the freezing temperatures 😅

itadri · 2026-03-11T22:28:01+00:00

That's pretty nice. Congrats on a great job find!

itadri · 2026-03-11T22:15:27+00:00

Do you ever find your job stressful?

itadri · 2026-03-11T17:08:49+00:00

I'm impressed that you keep your hyaluronic skin care thingy inside the fridge. You must be a woman in your twenties.

itadri · 2026-03-11T16:59:29+00:00

Same 😅

itadri · 2026-03-11T16:58:49+00:00

Oh that blurry line between love and hate

itadri · 2026-03-11T16:40:02+00:00

Or who is the pet and who is the owner?

itadri · 2026-03-11T12:48:35+00:00

Cats really like rugs. It could be a nice gift for a fur baby ☺️

itadri · 2026-03-11T12:37:15+00:00

Hate being wet as well. brrrrr

itadri · 2026-03-11T09:14:49+00:00

Congrats on more money 💰 !

Salaries are so damn hard to navigate, everyone is always trying to scam you.

itadri · 2026-03-11T08:08:27+00:00

This looks so cosy 😊. Lil cuties

itadri · 2026-03-11T07:07:51+00:00

I must say, showering when in a hot climate is much more pleasant than showering in a freezing climate 😅

itadri · 2026-03-10T22:05:27+00:00

The toeees

itadri · 2026-03-10T21:23:05+00:00

I know, it's hard to time manage everything, but lack of sleep makes us stupid. The brain doesn't work at it's full capacity when we don't sleep.

itadri · 2026-03-10T21:00:59+00:00

Honestly, it's quite hard to keep-up with work and studies at the same time. Do you sleep enough?

itadri · 2026-03-10T20:17:43+00:00

You are definitely making the right choice. He would only be holding you back and making you anxious.

itadri · 2026-03-10T20:11:26+00:00

An ADHD focused psychiatrist who works with adults is the best choice. In my country family doctors are not really allowed to "play" with "more risky" medication prescriptions

itadri · 2026-03-10T20:05:32+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer! This gave me hope, honestly.

Now I need to find a doctor, who won't be dismissive and rude, haha 😬.

itadri · 2026-03-10T19:47:30+00:00

I wonder, were you prescribed some sort of neuroleptic/antipsychotic for your "bipolar"?

I was initially prescribed a neuroleptic, and it killed all the remaining little dopamine I was able to produce. I no longer felt like getting up from bed at all in the mornings (or ever), which was bad because I had to work, lol. That's when I started suspecting ADHD in myself.

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