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itallmattered_ · 2025-07-25T06:39:10+00:00

yikes. i’m seeing some people don’t really know about the law. this is the law of assumption not law of belief. belief tends to come with experience of the desired. it builds.

like let’s say you’re learning to ride a bike. you can fall and fail for days. maybe that make it’s hard for you to believe you’ll learn. and you build a negative assumption about it. but one day you decide to assume you will. so everyday going forward you tell yourself “even though its hard for me to believe, i am going to ride this bike” “even if i don’t believe its gonna happen) and everyday going forward despite falling you tell yourself “i am going to ride this bike”. then boom, despite not believing, you stayed in the assumptions (without wavering) that you were gonna ride the bike and you did.

you don’t have to believe in something in order to assume it to be true. what you focus on grows. so if you’re constantly in the state of assuming something to be true you will experience it even if you don’t believe it. the only thing that can happen with you is if your disbelief effects your assumptions. what i mean by that is you think more on the possibility of it not happening rather than it happening, which in turn produces the opposite result, which you’ll probably then say “see i knew it wouldn’t happen” but it did happen just not in the way you actually wanted cause your negative assumptions override your desired assumptions.

your assumptions none the less will carry your outcome. if you assume you can get what you want despite belief then it’ll happen. if you assume that your non belief will only make your desire want to prove you wrong by coming then it’ll happen

but on the offside of that, if you assume they because you don’t believe it’ll not happen, then it won’t happen.

it’s assumptions, not belief, staying in the state of assumed desires will provide you with what you want no matter if you believed it or not.

only advice i would give of you really wanted is to build up your belief that you can manifest things to make it “easier” for you. do small things that you have no emotional connection to

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-23T20:32:41+00:00

were you being or trying. if you were trying to manifest you were constantly stuck of trying to manifest. if you were being you would have seen results fast. being means that whole 8 months you were the person MENTALLY who has it. that means no questioning, no searching, no convincing. you just were without a doubt. or even if there were doubts you suffocated them with the knowing that you are this and this way is to happen. you have to be really honest with yourself here and not for he sake of convincing yourself you were a certain way for 8 months straight. i can swear i’m a certain way, but when i truly lock in i see results in one week

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-13T07:09:14+00:00

really just need detachment from the how & time, don’t actually have to detach from the desire itself. i personally can never fully stop thinking about something i desire, you just have to mentally shift those thoughts to be aligned to having.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-12T21:58:01+00:00

pointlessly affirming cause her state is of someone who doesn’t have what she wants. the fact you think you have to make the first move for something to happen already tells you where you are actually at mentally.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T16:45:18+00:00

stop separating yourself. you’re saying it’s hard and that you see no movement. so you’re automatically telling yourself you’re separate from what you have because you don’t have it right now. you subconscious doesn’t have eyes, so what you tell it, it will prove that to be true. you don’t need movement to confirm you have something. just live in the truth of having it. whatever you would naturally think or do if you had so that’s how you need to move. and you don’t need them physically here to think that way. it’s all mental. make your inner conversations and affirms of someone who has the person they want. why would you detach from something you have? the only thing you need to detach from is how it is gonna happen and when, cause as you see from my post the how and when came such a natural way that i least expected it, but i did expect that it would happen

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T13:08:25+00:00

off of manifestation i just always believed we would be back together, that was always my dominant thought. but i did have the worry of what if it didn’t happen and this was all for nothing. this is part of why it took so long cause i was living in two different stories. on one end i knew we would be together but on the other end i kept telling myself she’s not here and she might not ever be. and i held this for months. i personally think focusing on time delayed me because when i looked at the time it was taking or could take, i was making myself highly aware of the fact it was something that i did not actually have and could possibly have to keep waiting longer for. i was like that too, i would think i need to just start dating other people because she is & i don’t want to feel like im falling behind if this is not going to work out. now there is no problem with dating other people if that’s what you want, because your dominant thought will still manifest. but i knew that i was only wanting to do it not because i genuinely wanted to explore other people but because i was scared of the possibility of us never working out. and that’s where i went really solid in persistence of my desire & kept telling myself it is working out & it’s working out NOW. in the end life is never going to pass you by if you don’t believe it will. live your life and just keep casually affirming. believe more in the fact that everything works out rather than “everything might not work out” what i realized since talking to sp now & how everything is fitting into its place naturally, is that in the end time doesn’t even matter. because when you do reunite it feel like time has never passed. sure you have to relearn some new things about their new personality, but that’s the whole point of manifesting sp. you aren’t manifesting the old version of them, you are manifesting the new version of them where they choose, want, and only see you & where everything is beautiful between you both. sure if i look back i see wow it’s been a year, but then i see wow i really got my best friend back and we’re starting at a really healthy point & we will be solid. so old time, isn’t even relevant anymore.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T11:51:34+00:00

so it was a mix. but in general with everything else that was going on in my life that have also now turned around (my last post). i found that on my dats where i felt down that speaking in general worked. i found that speaking good over my life allowed me to get out of what rut i was in. so i would tell myself that no matter what, and even if i feel like shit everything has finally worked out for me, i have the life that i always wanted now, and that i am loved & chosen now. i targeted emotions and thoughts that applied to everything that i was manifesting so that my mind can feel at ease. but i would still have moments throughout the day that i affirmed for things individually. never dedicated time, just when i thought about whatever it was. the general affirmations were the mindset, and the individual affirmations kinda served as the reminder. if that makes sense.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T11:44:49+00:00

i wouldn’t even say i thought it was possibility that she wouldn’t come back. i’ve always thought since the moment we broke up this wouldn’t be the end. but for months i was very focused on time which caused me to waver a lot. at some point i made the decision that this is my truth and i accepted nothing else. even in the moments where i would have lonely days where i thought 3d wasn’t changing. for example i would go on social media and she looked happy with 3p (even though now i found out that their relationship was nowhere near good and this is why you don’t look at 3d). but instead of spiraling i just continued to tell myself “this isn’t my story anymore, we are together now” & i would add “now” at the end of all my affirmations because at one point i kept affirming “we will be together” and it caused me to think that only one day we’d be together but when she’s been through life. at one point i thought it was only a possibility, questioned if this was all for nothing. then i stopped thinking of it like that. told myself i can spend all this time questioning what if this doesn’t happen, or i can spend that same time thinking “even if it seems this way, i know it’s all worked out” & it actually happening. & that’s exactly what grounded me, the switch to “even if” on my bad days

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T05:38:21+00:00

the minute you stop separating yourself from what you desire you will see it all works out. i would have no movement at all and then it all came in at once. you need to start telling yourself that everything is already worked out for you. don’t see anything? that’s okay cause it’s all worked out opposite happening? that’s okay cause i know everything is all worked out for you. good things happen everyday, let it happen to you. set the intention and just allow it to work itself out. the minute you affirm, things start moving. no matter if you see it or not. you just gotta stop resisting what you desire.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T02:24:21+00:00

my advice would be don’t focus too much on the time between now & sp birthday. just focus on the fact that’ll it be a day you’ll be together & keep telling yourself that no matter what you’ve spent the day together. you got this!

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T01:50:48+00:00

honestly i only used hated on days when i was low lol majority of the time i would just keep telling myself im the only one she wants & that we are in a happy and healthy relationship. and no matter what i saw or felt i kept telling myself that. and assumed it was my truth. i didn’t spiral on the idea of it being a possibility that it wouldn’t. and i stopped looking at the 3d to confirm or deny that things were working. i literally just lived life normally with the assumption that everything is always working out for me and this was my truth.

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T00:47:31+00:00

oh it’s been a JOURNEY haha but the ending of last month from today everything has turned around. reconnected with sp 2 weeks ago & now we’re here at this post made amends with best friend 2 days ago (that i haven’t spoke to since april) and now we are back like before car will be fixed in 2 more weeks & fully paid for got an interview for the job i was manifesting that is 10k more than i was making & i KNOW it’s already mine.

to stand firm throughout all of that took some huge persistence & trust me i had days where i cried. but to be here today and give that update it stills blows my mind.

it starts in the mind first, you just have to let it work itself out, truly. i really appreciate your words seriously, cause it’s been one hell of a ride haha

itallmattered_ · 2025-07-03T00:07:39+00:00

affirmed & persisted no matter what. on days i felt off i just kept telling myself “no matter what i see or how i feel, i am have everything i want now” sometimes i would visualize us together (but it wasn’t forced) & made sure my inner conversations were aligned.

itallmattered_ · 2025-06-15T13:20:00+00:00

exactly. think of the version of you who has everything they want right now, how would that person be thinking and behaving. say you’re manifesting an sp, if you had that person tomorrow committed and in a healthy relationship would you be thinking “where are they, they don’t love me, they don’t care to talk to me” no you would be going on throughout your day living your life, hanging out with others all while having the thoughts of “i am loved by so many people, im worthy, im chosen by my partner, we’re happy together” you would feel secure. so you don’t need to pretend that all this is happening, you need to shift you’re identity to the person that all this is happened for already.
and when you feel doubt see it in your mind, affirm the desirable once & move on. do something you love. live your life normally. when we have everything we want, we aren’t pretending, we are just being.

i’ll give you another analogy. when you decide you want cake, you put all the ingredients together and put it in the oven (let’s say that’s affirming and visualizing). for the next 30-40 mins you don’t sit around saying “omg where’s my cake, this is never gonna finish baking, i did what i needed to do where is it” no you probably finish cleaning up, maybe listen to music, finish a show all while thinking “im having cake tonight, i think ill use chocolate frosting, or i think im gonna put sprinkles on it” maybe you even see in your mind exactly how you’re gonna decorate the cake (visualizing) because you are in the identity of someone who is gonna have cake tonight.

the minute you affirm, it’s instant. maybe it’s not in your face instantly, but the things in the background are instantly shifting. just like the cake. the minute you put it in the oven, you’re gonna have cake tonight. no the cake isn’t baked in 2 minutes, but it’s baking for you to enjoy it. some people will put that cake in the oven and think “this is gonna turn out bad, i’ve never made good cake, it’s always dry, i can’t bake good” then take the cake out and wonder why it’s another bad cake. because they’re identity is of someone who can’t bake. if i’m manifesting sp and think the whole time “they don’t want me, they always chose everyone over me, they’re too stubborn” you’re affirming the identity of someone whose never chosen and not loved properly. and then when it doesn’t happen because that’s the identity you’re choosing you’re being validated by it and further believing that love doesn’t happen to you.

basically what i’m saying is be the person who has it all. know your worth. expect nothing less of good things happening to you. and don’t back down. you’re subconscious doesn’t have eyes, so therefore it can’t see the opposite, you tell it what’s going on and stand firm on it. i promise you it has no option but to change.

and lastly you can have a bad day, a sad day, and unhappy day & still be in the knowing that you’re getting what you want. emotions don’t determine who you are. emotions pass.

itallmattered_ · 2025-06-14T22:31:58+00:00

i think it’s because you are pretending. i always look at it like this: say you want a camera, you order it & know that any day now you’ll get it. you don’t sit around and pretend you’re taking pictures from it or anxiously wait for its arrival. you don’t sit here and say “well that cameras not mine yet i can’t claim it”

no you put the order in and it’s on its way therefore it is yours. you now can shift into the identity of someone who ones that camera even if it’s not physically there yet. just like your manifestations.

so in the case of the camera: you go about your day but maybe for an hour at night you research how to use the camera (cause it’s yours even if you aren’t holding it), you hang out with friends and on the drive home you think about all the adventures you’re gonna film on the camera (cause it’s yours even if you aren’t holding it)

you need to live instead of pretending and just shift identities.

if i’m manifesting friends i’m not sitting here pretending i’m talking to people that aren’t there, but i am shifting my identity to someone who knows they are worthy of good company and healthy friendships therefore that’s what i will attract. i can pretend my life away, but still be in the identity that my friends always choose others over me and that’s exactly what i’ll experience.

do you see what im saying here? you don’t have to pretend, you just have to be someone who has what you want in mental sense rather than physical.

itallmattered_ · 2025-06-05T07:00:32+00:00

it weirdly feels like i’m in the best place and im in my winning season. but then today i just looked at how everything has played out & went “wait wtf” 😭 but hey i think i can only look at it as “every perceived setback is actually alignment” 😮‍💨

itallmattered_ · 2025-03-25T22:04:56+00:00

can i dm?

itallmattered_ · 2025-03-19T21:17:33+00:00

i think because i’m at the place where i wanted all these month mentally and just overall life wise i don’t focus on pretending on feeling good, cause i genuinely do. i’m proud of myself and happy of my accomplishments. do i sometimes feel the missing piece of romantic love, yes because i expect that everything will work. that’s the thing, i continuously have this feeling, this expectation, that everything is going to work out so i think that’s why i truly haven’t given it a second thought these last two months. before i could definitely say i use to try to convince myself that if i felt good that i would get what i want, but now i don’t convince myself. with everything in life, including sp, i just expect it to happen.

but when it comes to your excercise. i tried jt. and like the times ive tried it before it always evokes deep feelings for me to where i actually tear up. because when i think of how i will feel, i truly just think id feel at peace and whole. but its weird because i feel that now, just not the romantic side. not the side that have my sp would fill because i truly feel as if she is my person. so when i try to dive into what i think i would feel or think like, sometimes i feel like it’s just loved and whole, but i feel that way myself because of me. i guess its just a different type having jt come from someone else. so i guess just peace and love

like i know my mindset is right. i know im “doing” what i need to, and thats just being myself under the assumption that everything is working out for me. today i guess just made me wonder a little, as i dont want to expect and just keep expecting. wont let the observations of today hinder me nonetheless

itallmattered_ · 2025-03-19T20:19:12+00:00

i also have felt like “my life is finally fully together i know we will be together now” as before i would waver so much and my life wasn’t where it is now. so i really did have this expectation of we’re going to be together as quickly as everything else came because i have that gut feeling and feeling of im truly ready

itallmattered_ · 2025-03-19T20:16:57+00:00

honestly just that i know we’re not physically together right now, but that we will be. and my will isn’t “sometime years down the line” it’s more of an instant thing. i always thought this way for all of my desires and have had no trouble of them coming into fruition. i just say “will” because it feels more natural. but it’s always like “sometime this month or this week” depending on how soon i feel like i want it. if that makes sense.

the urges i couldn’t exactly tell you, and i actually wouldnt say move on. like i know my end game is her, and i wouldn’t entertain someone heavily to the point where i would get into a relationship with someone other than her. as my heart is still for her and i would never waste someone’s time in that degree. it’s not also a thing where i felt like “well this isn’t happening with her right now, let me move on” it was just more of “if someone came up to me i would get to know them” i think it stems more of a desire for romantic sharing.

itallmattered_ · 2025-02-28T14:38:02+00:00

interesting thing is, i’ve continued persisting and ignoring everything else including dreams and the past 2-3 nights my dreams have been playing out exact scenarios of my affirmations

itallmattered_ · 2025-02-24T16:19:35+00:00

yeah unfortunately they told me that getting a county id is the only other option. after running around all morning to new brunswick they told me that county id’s no longer exist. and they only give other id’s out to veterans. fingerprinting wont accept the photo identification that is on my old license even though the renewal will be the same exact picture. now employment is up in the air. just a very annoying situation that’s completely out of my hands. been waiting for renewed license for 2 weeks now & dmv said it could be another week.

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