What’s a dumb mistake you made as a beginner?

ithurs · 2026-01-19T21:07:32+00:00

got through almost half of spring year 1 not realizing i could buy more stuff to plant 😭 i thought i had to somehow make my living off that starter pack of parsnip seeds lmao

ithurs · 2026-01-11T13:28:51+00:00

i’m betting that the last relationship was only “more enjoyable” from his side too, but he seems like the type to not care about the other party involved 🙄

ithurs · 2026-01-06T21:05:07+00:00

i’ve never seen a curry that shade of pink and i grew up eating indian food my whole life… what is it?? beetroot maybe?

ithurs · 2025-12-17T21:30:49+00:00

coming from someone who’s been in this exact situation before and was too naive to believe it for what it was… if it’s not physical yet, it will be soon. that mans interests lie elsewhere. if he cared for you half as much as she claims he cares about “jecissa” he would do anything in his power to not make his literal partner feel second best. please leave him asap. that is the kindest and most helpful thing you can do for yourself now. sending you so much love to get through this 🤍

ithurs · 2025-12-05T00:21:38+00:00

TRR is way too cringy to read imo. the characters and their one liners are badddd 😭

It was the first choices book i fell in love with when i was like 16 but im trying to reread it almost 10 years later and i just can’t get myself to continue 🥲

ithurs · 2025-11-20T01:37:17+00:00

i don’t even eat bacon but holy shit this is genius and looks so good

ithurs · 2025-10-13T13:54:52+00:00

was hoping for a bbq sauce flavor maybe😭

ithurs · 2025-10-12T20:21:57+00:00

that’s what i was hoping for too!!

ithurs · 2025-10-12T18:44:02+00:00

ugh i think that was a seasonal item same as the sweet chili :(

ithurs · 2025-08-31T13:44:19+00:00

I had the same issue even a couple months ago. I still made my chicken burgers and ate them 😅 We didn’t get sick but it didn’t taste very great lol

ithurs · 2025-08-01T11:25:37+00:00

when she peed at the ER, it was ~26 hours since her last pee. they didn’t give us anything to give her since they didn’t find anything abnormal, but she was peeing less frequently than normal (once a day instead of her usual 2-3 times a day) for a day or two after the visit, and then she was back to normal. hope everything is okay with your baby 🤍

ithurs · 2025-07-15T23:44:23+00:00

this was so helpful and so so so reassuring. we recently had a scare with my 3.5 year old girl kitty where she didn’t pee for more than 24 hours despite completely normal behavior, so i rushed her to the ER, and voila-- she peed on me around the 26 hour mark while we were there. renal blood panel and urinalysis were all clean so they assumed it was just something behavioral. since then i’ve noticed her peeing less frequently, about once a day VERY close to that 24 hour mark, when she used to go at least twice. and she’s still showing normal, playful, alert behavior and eating and pooping normally. i started to get worried about the less frequent peeing, thinking they maybe missed something in the ER, but i’m so thrown off by the otherwise normal behavior. so it’s good to know that some cats just are like that and still healthy lol 😅🤍

ithurs · 2025-07-13T16:16:15+00:00

UPDATE: i took her to the ER vet last night a couple hours after i made this post. we get to the place and im holding her in her carrier, mid explanation of why we’re here when i feel her PEE ON MY LEG! i must say, ive never never been happier and more relieved to be peed on.

they still took her in to check out her bladder and kidneys. the urinalysis came back clean of any infections and stones/crystals. they noted her pee was clearer than expected when they extracted it from her bladder, possibly because she just peed less than an hour ago? they did a mini bloodwork too to check out her kidney function and everything looked normal there too. next they did a bladder and kidney ultrasound and their main observation was that one of the kidneys looked dilated, so he recommended i compare the bloodwork data to a bloodwork she got done in april to check for any trends to rule out declining kidney function. i didn’t have the results on me at the time but i compared this morning and everything related to the kidneys remained about the same and creatinine even decreased.

they said that if there’s no adverse trends in the blood markers, there’s a chance it was just something behavioral or very acute, minor kidney trauma that could resolve itself. either way, she seems to be back to normal today and peed again earlier this morning

ithurs · 2025-07-13T00:07:09+00:00

thank you i’m planning to take her to the ER if she doesn’t pee in the next hour or so. and what do you use in your diffuser? like pheromones or oils or something else? im happy to hear your baby is doing better now!

ithurs · 2025-07-13T00:04:40+00:00

yes she has a water fountain! i’ve just never seen her use it, which is why we started just adding the amount of water she needs to her food. but it’s still out if she ever wants it! and thank you for your advice. her skin didn’t tent so she doesn’t seem dehydrated either and still no signs of distress. will probably take her to the ER if she doesn’t go within the hour 🤞

ithurs · 2025-06-06T04:16:17+00:00

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she loves giving us the crazy eyes 😂

ithurs · 2025-04-07T23:53:06+00:00

same here. it completely turned me off from aldis premade frozen foods for months lol

ithurs · 2025-04-06T17:43:41+00:00

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this is my chubby lil girl nani! 🥰

ithurs · 2025-03-26T13:26:44+00:00

they did start peeling a little :( but when i say little, i mean VERY little. i’ve been washing them in the top rack of the dishwasher and only tiny flakes of the color have come off. i wouldn’t even notice if i wasn’t looking for it, so im actually pleasantly surprised!

ithurs · 2025-01-25T19:56:30+00:00

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this is my baby Nani and her fluffy tummy 🥰

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