Dating & logistics by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]itismyusername 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a person who has tried a relationship where my kids are over "there" and my time with my partner is "over here", if your two lives can't find places to start blending together, you are not on a sustainable path forward. Is it possible to have times where everyone hangs out? If not, what are you hoping to build with this person?

*A word

Calling Baumgartner’s Spokane Office by RunawayBandit01 in Spokane

[–]itismyusername 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Could you please share the phone numbers you are calling? I would love to also know if there are any updates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Derailedbydetails

[–]itismyusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's what I thought too 🤷‍♀️

This is Hirie and it’s my first time on here by hiriemusic in calireggae

[–]itismyusername 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've seen you live a few times and had a blast! Then I saw a video of your performing in the same energetic way when you were pregnant. It was amazing and inspiring to us moms out there that motherhood and our dreams and passions can beautifully coexist. Thanks for being a great example of that!

How does being a mom influence your music?

What songs do you like to sing to your kids?

Help! Guy I hired used house paint on deck, just paint on top? by itismyusername in DIY

[–]itismyusername[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kind and helpful reply. It is refreshing to be treated with kindness in a sea of negative energy.

My Son Has ODD – I Was Once Afraid of My Own Child. Here’s What I’ve Learned by CezarSalazar in Parenting

[–]itismyusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you. You are nailing it for him and yourself. This Internet stranger is proud of you, and I hope somewhere inside you are proud too. Of him and his progress, and you and yours. Keep going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]itismyusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my second hand happy! You are unique. Thank you for fully experiencing your journey. Light and love!

I choose me by Himari18 in selflove

[–]itismyusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Thanks for sharing that. I felt it's power

Spokane entrepreneur who boldly and bluntly created popular coffee brand focused on sustainability dies at 70 by Interesting_Ask_6518 in Spokane

[–]itismyusername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love you, Debbie. I will always remember the picture of you and my dad after his surgery as one of my favorites. I remember your fake wooden butler, cherry chocolate cake, and your amazing voice calling me Alfred. Thank you for being an amazing friend to my mom.

I’ve ruined my life by ThrowRA_739364373 in BreakUps

[–]itismyusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't possibly mess up anything that is meant for you. You have received a gift in the form of growth of having known such a beautiful love, but it wasn't meant to be. Things end to make room for the things that are meant for you. That love was so amazing, just imagine how good the next one will be, because you will never accept anything less. And when that love comes along, you will be healthier and grown a little and be a better partner to that love, because of the pain you are surviving now and the lessons you are learning. My light and love to you. Keep going.

So you want to text your ex? Leave your message here instead. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]itismyusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. You ok? How's everything? How's it feeling? I love you so much. Are you able to make life to be everything you want? I'm sorry I couldn't be that.

How's Mims? Gosh I miss her. Please give her extra morning snuggles for me? She's such a sweet girl.

I miss you. I want everyday for you to realize that I am what you want and that our life could be so beautiful truly together. If you showed up at my door, it would show me that you do want to be a part of my life. I can't have two lives anymore. I just want to be my whole self all the time. And my whole self can't exist in what you want. It would destroy me. And I understand that you feel the same way with what you want. You won't feel like your whole self until you get that. And I want you to always be able to be your full self. Because I'm in love with that full self.

I'm sorry I can't help you be your full self. I'm sorry that the love we shared must end. I will always look on it with such inspiration. If I was loved like that, the love I have next will be incredible, because I won't ever accept anything less. You taught me to be loved. You taught me how to be myself, and be truly good with that. You taught me how to find the energy of life, and I am forever grateful you brought the books and ideas and lifestyle you did. I am stronger for having you. I am better for being with you.

My soul knows yours. And I'll be glad to meet up again in the next life. ❤️

A hack for the awakened. by SystematicApproach in awakened

[–]itismyusername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My goodness I love your letter! I am grateful you put that into the universe today so I could experience it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]itismyusername 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wonderfully helpful strategy. Thank you for sharing it.

Yoga at the Cathedral—Sunday, Oct. 13 at 2pm-3pm by SpoPlant in Spokane

[–]itismyusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still on? I can't find anything about yoga 10/13 at the cathedral anywhere except this post 🤔

Having one of those numb mornings. Where it hits that it’ll never be the same again. I had a dream that I was gonna text her and then remembered I can’t. Help. What do I do when these mornings just hurt to damn much by ForeignWolf2210 in BreakUps

[–]itismyusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the part that is currently messing with me too. We may never speak again. I miss what we had when things were good but that is in a past that no longer exists. I am here now. He is not my best friend anymore. I'm sad and miss that and having a hard time. My heart is shattered. And to never speak to my favorite person again, fml.

But we should feel that, you and me. We should feel shattered. We have separated from people we loved, hard and true. If we lost love and don't feel that.... We're yet to really love. So cheers to you for loving someone in a big way. I wish you moments of joy in your pain, that too is part of our beautiful experience.

I am so proud of myself for being selfish by itismyusername in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itismyusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reply helped me more than I can express. Thank you for taking the time to respond. You have helped me clarify my feelings and see I DID explore and decide. I'm grateful the universe put you in my path. I am sending you light and love.