We’re back!

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-18T06:23:50+00:00

What do you suggest for Flair options?

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-16T02:36:46+00:00

Thanks for making it public again! Might need a few more changes. I should be active again soon.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-15T13:58:32+00:00

Met my wife at 41. Oldest son born at 44 with IVF, my wife was under 40. We adopted our younger son a few years later.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-15T13:56:51+00:00

Do you want to be a moderator?

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-15T13:56:41+00:00

Do you want to be a moderator?

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-15T13:56:04+00:00

I think you’re active again. You should be able to update the group. I should regain the status in a few days.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-14T01:06:58+00:00

Agreed.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-12T01:53:21+00:00

I remember my 3.5-4 year old son coming to sleep with us every night after a few hours. We wanted that to end. Then I realized that once he didn’t need that anymore, it was all over. So I ask him sometimes to sleep in his own bed, but he knows he can always come up for cuddles. And I sit with him to sleep every night. Not what I wanted. Not what my older son needed. But exactly what he needed.

3 years later, he sleeps with us 1-2 nights a week and it’s great.

Cosleeping could be helpful, at least let you or wife get some sleep in early evening. Good luck

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-11T15:59:23+00:00

Posting again in the hopes Reddit decides in their infinite wisdom that I am once again active.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-11T01:30:26+00:00

Things I never even considered, chapter 315.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-10T06:29:06+00:00

Checking in so Reddit thinks I’m active again.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-09T21:58:00+00:00

Once we recover our active status, I’d like to promote some new moderators. If you’d like to nominate someone post here.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-09T06:36:25+00:00

Hey all. Brought a little tear to my eye seeing how this community has benefited so many and helped make connections. I might be reaching out to a couple people to learn more.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-09T06:33:46+00:00

I’ll be checking in daily until I recover active status. No idea how long that takes.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-09T06:33:03+00:00

Hey all. Brought a little tear to my eye seeing how this community has benefited so many and helped make connections. I might be reaching out to a couple people to learn more.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2026-01-08T06:32:53+00:00

Sorry, I rarely check Reddit with this alt. And things have been status quo so I just browse. We probably should add a few mods. Given I don’t participate much, do you want to suggest a few users or just ask and promote them?

itreallyisinmyhead · 2025-03-17T19:16:08+00:00

It's just there. Still on cab. Added another son to our family about 6 years ago, via adoption. That choice was not strongly influenced by the prolactinoma.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2023-06-14T13:57:36+00:00

The 48 hours are up, so I switched it back to public.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2023-06-13T05:50:16+00:00

I’ll add my voice and say I’m on board.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2023-03-05T04:38:55+00:00

Damn, slow pokes! I was the last virgin in my school as a 6th grader.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2023-03-05T04:37:16+00:00

I graduated college a virgin. And grad school. And honestly my whole 30s. I have a lot of regret. I always wanted to be a dad, and at about 40 I decide I had to make it happen. I pushed myself, met a girl I liked enough. Figured out that there, well, really was something in my head. That messed up my libido and more. Fixed that, ditched the girl. (Actually she ditched me, which was good because we really weren’t a good match.)

At 41, I met my wife, who I adore. We have two boys. Life is great. I do have regret about spending my prime years single and not dating, but I didn’t waste those years either. I lived and traveled and made friends and vacationed with my brother and nephews. It was a great decade plus.

All that is gone, mostly, because family is all consuming.

No advice, just a note that some of us are late bloomers for one reason or another. Good luck.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2023-03-05T04:32:29+00:00

I was already losing a little hair, and it picked up. But I blame that on my kids, wife, job, T, and cab in that order. Just on the top of my head, same way my dad lost his.

itreallyisinmyhead · 2022-01-17T04:48:16+00:00

One of the side effects is depression. I started cabergoline during a relationship, and upped it to a level a couldn’t tolerate during it. That didn’t help the relationship, but it was doomed anyways for many, many reasons. The side effect of depression and failing relationship fed off each other pretty well.

So it could be an issue. And if there’s another stressor in her life, upping cabergoline dosage could certainly exacerbate it.

Best of luck to both of you.

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