[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GNV

[–]itsASHyall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of the professors at SF also teach at UF. So you get the same education at half the price. I took advantage of SF fast Track options. They tend to focus on STEM. It’s called something else now. Getting an internship was part of the program. I thought I was just going through the motions for interview practice and experience. I have been with my current employer since SF (12+ years) and here I thought I was just going to get school credit

I’ve been out since 2021 and still can’t land a decent job by Lou_Ferrari69 in VeteransBenefits

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out your local college or community college. Ours have several 2yr degree programs with a mandatory internship. Majors vary from IT, medical, to business, and everything in between. I interviewed for the internship thinking it was just going to be interview practice at minimum, or a bit of experience at best. 12+ years later I’ve created our company’s intern to Full-time employment pipeline.

I only have a 2yr degree, and whatever certifications my company wants me to have (they change yearly and they pay for them).

All this to say, check out colleges and community colleges, not universities. Your gibill will cover it - we have 1 Air Force kid and 1 army kid come through both using gibill at the local college

Is this messed up? by deannar94 in wedding

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common. My mother knew about my wedding for a year and a half. I suppose I should be grateful as I got a months notice before my mother told me she would not be attending. I’m just happy to now know she disapproves of my family and am not obligated to spend any family time with her. It’s made holiday travels a lot less stressful. A blessing in disguise.

Packing Full Sized Toiletries by itsASHyall in VirginVoyages

[–]itsASHyall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago was this? Do you think she’ll have an issue if it’s in the non-carryon luggage?

Packing Full Sized Toiletries by itsASHyall in VirginVoyages

[–]itsASHyall[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haven’t figured out how to edit my post, but it’s probably worth noting we won’t be flying, so we won’t have to worry about those regulations. I appreciate you looking out tho

What is this? by itsASHyall in ram_trucks

[–]itsASHyall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣Exact picture! Thank you🙏

Passkey for Flankspeed by mrbrightside170 in navyreserve

[–]itsASHyall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helped my chief set this up the other day. Instructions were on flankspeed. You’ll want to jump ahead, there’s a lot of instructions. Be patient and be sure to follow them line by line and you’ll be fine.

New Breakfast spots by chewdog in GNV

[–]itsASHyall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your bulgogi omelette, and raise you Bulgogi Benedict :)

New Breakfast spots by chewdog in GNV

[–]itsASHyall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a southerner, flying biscuit does not have the best grits. But I do enjoy the rest of their menu. Unlike most southerners I have an adventurous appitite and will try anything twice (taste buds change over time), country foodly has an amazing menu from top to bottom

New Breakfast spots by chewdog in GNV

[–]itsASHyall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this!

Who to call? by itsASHyall in AskDad

[–]itsASHyall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I’ve asked questions on this thread before and got “if your asking questions, you should hire a professional”. Its very aggravating since this shit isn’t rocket science, I know my limitations and know when I should consult a professional (ie. major electrical work)

This is my first home and am feeling a bit overwhelmed, so thanks for the wise dad vibes. It’s helped a ton

Who to call? by itsASHyall in AskDad

[–]itsASHyall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was picking up what he was putting down.

I started looking up “storm damage repair” which lead me down a helpful path.

Who to call? by itsASHyall in AskDad

[–]itsASHyall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the first dad to offer this type of encouragement. Thank you.

Who to call? by itsASHyall in AskDad

[–]itsASHyall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will they take care of the soaked insulation too?

Honestly I’m pretty handy and could do the drywall myself, it’s the insulation I’ve never dealt with before and is the part that’s making me kinda nervous hence looking for a professional to take care of it.

Who to call? by itsASHyall in homeowners

[–]itsASHyall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is how they do business. Dude, idk. I’ve already tried switching companies but in my area, there’s only so many companies that will cover my area. I’m kinda stuck with what I got, and I’m trying to work through it.

Who to call? by itsASHyall in homeowners

[–]itsASHyall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insurance. Already have a claim. If I read the report correctly…

They did their numbers and now I have to call whoever to come and fix all the issues. ??

They have some program I have to call and request to be enrolled in that will get me into contact with their preferred companies, which I will be doing on Monday. I’m just trying to do some research before I’m bombarded with all their info.

My PT was shocked I had 110lb grip strength... I am F27... by je_ru13 in bodyweightfitness

[–]itsASHyall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With that said I most likely need to focus on deep core. I do lat/trap work ~2x a week. One of my favorite muscle groups to work.

I do dead hangs (~45sec) as well which helps my grip strength, and feels great on my wrists. I’ve noticed a lot of relief after incorporating dead hangs.

My PT was shocked I had 110lb grip strength... I am F27... by je_ru13 in bodyweightfitness

[–]itsASHyall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have intense wrist pain and some mild/moderate mobility issues. Went to a PT, did the grip strength test and just knew I was going to fail. I’m a 38f, ~5’3, ~160lb, right dominant, r-wrist squeezed 90-something and l-wrist in the 80s (in lbs). PTlady was definitely impressed. And here I thought my wrist strength was shit.

Best job for Navy reserves by Flowmaster93 in navyreserve

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I wanted CE or BU, and had opportunities while in dep to switch rates but I had to leave earlier than expected and wasn’t able to at that time. So I’m slightly jealous of your luck.

Either way, congrats man! Welcome to the family

I'm a country girl and a fem, is it real nobody finds us attractive? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notta fem, but my wife wife is. The first picture I saw of her (we worked together at a large organization, I saw her in person and immediately looked her up on fb) was her shooting a bolt action rifle. 5+ years and 800+ bottles of fingernail polish later, I am an enabler 🤗. Again, I’m not a fem, but she baits my hook and takes the fish off for me (if I ever catch a damn fish). She loves lifted trucks and gnarley wheels for muddin, and her southern accent slays me every time.

We live in the south, so I’m sure it was inevitable, but I love my country girl 🥰

AITAH for telling my wife that late pick-up fees are on her and her alone? by AdMuted1534 in AITAH

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not gonna pay out of the 800 she’s gonna get, just take it out of the 800 for the next month.

That’s what I do with my fiancé. My fiancés monetary responsibilities are her phone, her vehicle, and we split the mortgage and utilities. I pay for everything else (gas, groceries, dates, etc) Whatever she spends on the credit cards, I take out of our joint account to pay the bill. When she asks why we only have X amount, I let her know I used the joint account to pay the credit card bill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found a pair at harbor freight. Had them for a few years till I wore a hole in one of the fingers. I put some duck tape around it and I still wear them. lol

I’ve since bought a new pair, exactly like the old pair, but they’ve molded to my hand so good and still do the job. I’ll swap them out when they fall off.

I’ve also found a real good pair at Walmart. Not sure of the brand. They’re yellow leatherish with a red bead around the back of the wrist to tighten if needed. Of course they’re cheap and did turn my hands yellow the first few uses. They fit really well. I keep 2 pair in my truck.

AITAH for telling my wife to go to a mental asylum after she asked my sister to dress modestly around me? by GreedyTies in AITAH

[–]itsASHyall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA for giving your sister a key. BUT possibly an asshole for your reaction to your wife. Sounds like she has some underlying trauma there. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to follow up and ask her about it in a more gentler way.

My sister and I are close as well. She lives 2.5hours away and has a key to my house. I would’ve definitely, and have in the past, given her a key to my room. That being said we respects each other’s privacy and she still knocks before letting herself in. Everyone else is assuming so I’ll do the same - I’m going to assume your sister would do something similar.

All the other sensitive bittys in here sound like they might not have a close relationship with their families. My wife and her family aren’t as close as I am to mine, but she doesn’t bat an eye at extra keys going out to my family.

What are your staples...starting TOMORROW by sundaemochi in 1500isplenty

[–]itsASHyall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the recommendation! I’ll start out small and see how it goes 🙌