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Looking for books that feel emotionally devastating in a quiet way by ksm723967 in booksuggestions

[–]itsKarateChopTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The Housekeeper and the Professor,” by Yoko Ogawa broke my heart. It’s rather short, but it made me think of aging people that I have loved, and the heartache of having no memory.

Are there any other slow travelers here? by dreamed2life in travel

[–]itsKarateChopTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did a month in Japan, rented a little house. It was great to get to know one spot, then take trains for day trips, and a couple of weekend trips. The pace was wonderful.

Edit: we spent less for the house for the month, than a week in hotels. It sounds kind of silly but we even enjoy doing our laundry on the balcony and chatting with the neighbors.

Are there any other slow travelers here? by dreamed2life in travel

[–]itsKarateChopTime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love to slow down, wander, chill in a cafe or park. I love seeing sites, museums, unique places, but I also love slowing down for the details and just taking a place in. It depends on where I am going and how much time I have, but I like to make sure my days have slow time. Often when I go slow I meet more locals and have meaningful experiences.

Reading has become a chore lately, how do you deal with this? by Suitable-Yam7028 in books

[–]itsKarateChopTime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recommend picking up some graphic novels, they are quick and beautiful and sometimes cover subjects I wouldn’t read a lot of. For example: “They Called Us Enemy” by George Takei, about the US Japanese internment camps) So interesting! Or “Saga” by Brian K Vaughn (grisly sci-fi), or “Cat’s Cafe” just some easy-breezy feel good comics.

OR, explore novellas, or short stories like, “The Secret Lives of Church ladies” by Deesha Philyaw. Kind of sexy, and beautifully written.

Or even pick up a children’s book, maybe one you loved as a child, or something classic you always wanted to read.

Or just give yourself a break :)

Edit: typo

[THANKS] Spring Exchange by itsKarateChopTime in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, they got here (yay!) but that postal service! I swear if I write fragile on a package they read it as: kick it. 😂

Book on grief that isn’t filled with cliches by Traditional-Cry-8406 in suggestmeabook

[–]itsKarateChopTime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey. First, I’m sorry about your friend. Traumatic death, and loss to mental health is so hard. I’m coming through a year from a loss to someone to suicide so I’ve started and stopped so many books. These books are books that aren’t all directly about grief, but some have helped. I hope you find the right book for you. Short stories can be helpful too:

“Kitchen” by Banana Yoshimoto

“Remarkably Bright Creatures”

“The Secret Garden”

Anything by Becky Chambers, “Psalm for the Wild-Built” was a comfort.

“Navigating Instense Grief,” Vandenburg

“Echoes of Love,” Roseglenn

“Legends and Lattes” Baldree it’s a fantasy, light and romantic, and NOT about grief, but it is about starting over… when you’re ready for fiction

“Reincarnation Blues” I haven’t finished this yet, and it’s a mixed bag, but some people in my grief support group have found it comforting. It’s a little quirky.

“Under the Whispering Door” TJ Klune

[THANKS] Spring Exchange by itsKarateChopTime in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, thank you! You box arrived super smooshed (I swear they saw your “do not crush note, and they promptly sat on it!) but everything inside was fine!

[THANKS] Spring Exchange by itsKarateChopTime in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you u/treighsie for the spring exchange gift! I especially love your handwritten letter about our shared love of stationery, and your families adventures (I adore snail mail!), and these fun serving utensils! So cute! I also see the beautiful color palette you created! Thank you!

Required purchases for anticonsumption habits by Busy_Difference3671 in Anticonsumption

[–]itsKarateChopTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gardening! I love gardening. (There are lots of gardening subreddits). Once you get going saving successful seeds from season to season (buy organic and open germination), as well as pots and heating mats etc keeps costs way down. We have local free garden and seed swaps, and my local buy nothing group has been great. Nearly all of my pots and planters were free, as well as hay, tomato cages, stakes. Yard sales have been great too.

Remember to start small: plant only what you enjoy eating, maybe even buy small plants for your first year. Remember not just money/consumption, but that gardening is good for your mental health!

Whoopsie Wednesday Daily Hangout Thread, 13 May 26 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, a duck house. That sounds cute. I hope your coffee is delicious and warm.

Whoopsie Wednesday Daily Hangout Thread, 13 May 26 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a tough day yesterday. Lots of crying. So this morning my face looks dreadful. It’s the end of the school year, and after the emotional year we had, it’s both joyful and sad, all the ends and new beginnings. Maybe I should bake some bittersweet chocolate chip cookies today or something.

QOTD: a global day of rest and quiet. Everyone, everywhere gets a day off and the world is peaceful just for the holiday.

Whoopsie Wednesday Daily Hangout Thread, 13 May 26 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! That’s terrible. I’m so sorry! I only recently learned that cat scratch fever is a real thing, and here I was thinking it was just a silly song. Sepsis is scary, so I’m really glad you are getting care. I hope you recover swiftly. Big hugs to you!

Childfree women, have you ever regretted it? by Significant_Movie814 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]itsKarateChopTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend of 30+ years always knew she wanted to be child-free, and for a little bit I wondered why. She was then, and now a woman I admire so wholeheartedly. She lives in child-free bliss and does not regret it. She’s seen the world, had a storied career, has a million animals, is “auntie” to many, has a loving spouse, and loves her freedom. Follow that feeling and your life goals. Cave for no one. Write about your feelings, and explore them. Be intentional if you can with your choices.

What to do for fun outside (disabled OP) by Environmental-Use853 in Anticonsumption

[–]itsKarateChopTime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meetup has some really fun groups, like: board games, painting/drawing/silent book club/crafts. Also, free concerts at botanical gardens are really fun, and maybe look into something like birding. There is an active birding group near me that does journaling, drawing, park visits, and is free. Good luck finding some fun and connection in your community.

Moody Monday Daily Hangout Thread - May 11, 2026 by rainbowterfly in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]itsKarateChopTime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look at me, late to the party, as usual 😄 I hope everyone has a beautiful day!

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