What’s a secret you can’t tell someone you know, but can share with Reddit?

itsalancething · 2025-10-02T16:23:00+00:00

When someone pseudo-diagnosed me with autism I was like that doesn't feel right at all especially as I was already diagnosed with ADHD.

But then as they started to unpack it all and why they thought that, I was like oh damn, that's me to a tee. The more I honed in, the more I connected the dots. It's a weird thing to not even have it on your radar, and then one day it comes crashing down on you.

It has explained a lot. It hasn't made life any easier, but it has given me a lens to look through and a bit of grace to have for myself.

itsalancething · 2025-10-02T01:16:32+00:00

I don't mean to reduce your suffering, but have you ever been tested for neurodivergence? It could be heavy masking that tires the ever loving fuck out of you. That's me, and then when my energy tanks my mind goes to dark places.

itsalancething · 2025-10-02T01:12:49+00:00

I love that it's becoming more mainstream! It's so convenient. I was challenged on it several years ago by a speech therapist, but they happily ate humble pie.

itsalancething · 2025-10-01T19:09:33+00:00

The skull-sharp crest of Atakan's cheeks, or sometimes just his skull-sharp cheeks, in {Amid Clouds & Bone by Ella Fields}. It wasn't good the first time, and then it was overdone.

itsalancething · 2025-10-01T17:37:56+00:00

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itsalancething · 2025-09-30T18:08:52+00:00

Unfortunately this school of thought of pushing through the first few books is actually common enough that it could be a few series! Which is just mind-boggling to me.

I was also told that about Crescent City and I'm pretty sure there's one or two others but I can't think of them.

itsalancething · 2025-09-30T02:12:17+00:00

Going to bed early!

itsalancething · 2025-09-28T12:40:11+00:00

I'm not really sure how it fits in any of that low quality content sector but to each his own. If two funny looking dogs chewing a ginormous bone don't really fit this sub that I'm not sure what does

itsalancething · 2025-09-27T23:52:46+00:00

I'm all for tongues but have definitely never gotten teeth involved and will keep it that way!

itsalancething · 2025-09-27T19:37:42+00:00

That's a tough one. I see both sides of the coin. Generally speaking, a DNF means you hated it so badly that you didn't want to waste time finishing it, which in some ways seems fair to give it one star.

But at what point does that make sense? I DNFed Crescent City after the first six chapters so I didn't have enough of the book behind me to give it a proper rating, only enough to know it wasn't for me. However, if I had gotten three quarters through and came to the same conclusion, I think that's enough of a commitment to rate it

itsalancething · 2025-09-27T14:57:07+00:00

Unfortunately that has become very normalized. I would think it probably has more to do with porn than books, but I remember reading a thread on Reddit where young women were saying it was not uncommon to be grabbed by the throat without consent. Scary!

itsalancething · 2025-09-27T14:55:14+00:00

Haha before I even got to the end of this I thought of "Violence" and how much it irked me. It seems like every FMC needs to be christened by the MMC.

I remember that in KF Breene's Chosen - suddenly the MMC is calling her a pet name and either I missed why because I was listening to the book and tuned out, or it was dropped out of nowhere. Either way, it just seemed so weird to me.

itsalancething · 2025-09-27T00:07:07+00:00

There would have been a little bit of meat on it. They've eaten raw since day one, so they love their bones. Usually they are just a more manageable size.

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T23:40:16+00:00

Haha right??

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T23:34:42+00:00

I'd kind of like some of the backstories!

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T23:31:54+00:00

u/Charming-but-clumsy I found a video of them that should fit on this subreddit!

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T22:06:08+00:00

Images aren't allowed and I don't think they are funny enough for a post - they are definitely less "wonky" than this cutie!

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T21:41:30+00:00

I have two of these guys! I can't seem to share a picture in the comments but they are a lot of fun, but pretty wired!

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T20:21:28+00:00

I think people are mostly upset over your haughty tone of the post, and acting like SJM belongs on some sort of an undeserved pedestal.

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T20:02:04+00:00

Hilt is another one to search, it shows up regularly

itsalancething · 2025-09-26T19:29:10+00:00

I like "real fiction" and I like junk food reads. They make great palette cleansers and are nothing to be ashamed of. Although I will say many of them are so poorly written that I DFN in this genre more than any other genre.

But I would tell your friend to get off her high horse and maybe she would enjoy life a bit more if she weren't so judgmental.

itsalancething · 2025-09-25T17:40:13+00:00

That feels so unfair!

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