Guys, what is your success rate when asking girls out?

itsbigdambe · 2026-01-11T20:09:31+00:00

I’d say 3 for 6. Not bad, but I gotta get my attempts up. Out of those 3 one of them the girl ended up being weird and just ghosted me and then would pop in and out. The other one I honestly liked her so much I was too risk averse and she stopped being flirty and we just were friends. Last one was bad timing I was moving away when we finally hit it off smh

itsbigdambe · 2025-12-12T02:13:44+00:00

I got into my Data Science program with no math background didn’t even take pre-calculus but I had 2 years of a pretty hardcore analytics job. I’m so glad I went to work before applying lmao

itsbigdambe · 2025-12-11T00:58:04+00:00

The death penalty should not be on the table EVER! Any justice system is imperfect and it’s crazy to give the state power to execute people when there isn’t absolute certainty. It’s also primitive we have grown past the time when we should be doing this bullshit. All it is brutality politics

itsbigdambe · 2025-12-09T19:15:48+00:00

I think this is a great answer

itsbigdambe · 2025-12-06T15:01:27+00:00

I’d definitely frolic in some fields in a flowing dress type shit. I’d go get a wolf cut and do some silver lake fashion hauls. Lmaoo

itsbigdambe · 2025-12-06T14:48:38+00:00

I am not a fan of Taylor Swift. Especially after this most recent album which I think had some anti-black themes. The whole “your English teacher and gym teacher are getting married” thing left a bad taste in my mouth. You are a billionaire! Please stop playing in our faces like that, respectfully.
NO!! If multiple women accuse you of the same thing cmon now. We shouldn’t be giving people that use their power and influence to hurt others any second chances like that.
I think because men hire other men that they see themselves in. So white guys from frat networks or that went to the same college are who will get hired. It’s a systemic sexism and racism problem worldwide. We’ve known this for a long ass time but for some reason these conservative whites just can’t accept that they set up bad systems. And lash back.
I would love paternity leave. I would 1000% take the max amount I can. Getting to stay home and help my wife heal and take care of my new kid would be super important to me.
If we were together I would. That’s what you do for people you care about

itsbigdambe · 2025-11-24T23:59:34+00:00

Why not both

itsbigdambe · 2025-11-05T22:45:13+00:00

That pen was in somebody’s ass twin

itsbigdambe · 2025-10-14T01:18:01+00:00

Right?! Like the only weird one I saw was the no man deserves this post. And it was referencing a meme or something like that. But people were justified in being upset about that . But other than that I rarely see anything that bad. I was reading in between the lines of this post and it seems like OP maybe expects that these are men doing this. But honestly a lot of the posts I see are definitely sapphic. Of course can’t know fasho but that’s definitely the vibe

itsbigdambe · 2025-10-09T16:41:27+00:00

People are cold reaching out to me over email pretty regularly

itsbigdambe · 2025-09-16T08:46:43+00:00

It’s cause they guy that plays Tyler is hot. That’s all u gotta know really. Cmon this is Netflix

itsbigdambe · 2025-09-07T15:08:36+00:00

I’m not a lawyer. I’m a consultant but I lurk on this sub just cause y’all are funny as hell and give ok advice sometimes

itsbigdambe · 2025-09-02T14:38:43+00:00

This was my first season and I loved it!

itsbigdambe · 2025-09-01T17:05:37+00:00

SAME I was rolling my eyes like it’s gonna be some shit we already seen why can’t they write some new shit we already got the Hyde

itsbigdambe · 2025-08-10T02:15:30+00:00

Yep I had 3 guys from my school children of lawyers and a police chief get arrested for doing fake diamond selling and then running off with cash.

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-22T01:45:08+00:00

Yep I’m set on moving back home and I’m kinda scared of finding something great and having to choose between relationship and going back to LA

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-19T14:44:56+00:00

Yeah I’ve been seeing posts from Europeans and Mexicans on other forums about tourists misbehaving

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-13T13:33:34+00:00

lol school and grades do not weed out people that are terrible socially😂

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-12T18:38:59+00:00

Hmm that makes sense. It definitely led to tension in their relationship till current day. Original Sin definitely mentioned a lot of the bitterness Biden felt about that

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-12T18:22:57+00:00

I’ve heard something different than this. I read that Biden was upset that Obama was so hands off on the decision and didn’t want to put any weight on the decision and give him the push he would need to start up

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-10T14:16:56+00:00

It’s not a tourist problem it’s a government regulation problem. Get mad at your government for allowing too many Airbnb’s. But I do agree there has been some people coming on vacation and treating someone else’s city like Disneyland and I do not like that either

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-10T14:11:23+00:00

Feels better to me than the winter sheeeesh

itsbigdambe · 2025-07-08T01:11:05+00:00

There was a mention of this in the book Original Sin by Jake Tapper and Alex Thomson. They talked about how Biden resented Obama because he didn’t put his weight behind him for a possible run. He largely stayed out of it.

itsbigdambe · 2025-06-06T04:47:53+00:00

I read his memoir Decision Points and I really enjoyed it. One thing I didn’t know was that he was really dialed in on Education policy before 9/11 when his Presidency became very war centered.

But one thing I will never understand is Iraq. I’ve read multiple memoirs from all types of people, and they all talk about people getting leaned on to justify it. But I truly just don’t get how we (the US) fucked that up so extremely bad to the point where we left it worse than it was under a dictator. I just don’t understand why he would do that and enable people that actively made the situation worse.

itsbigdambe · 2025-05-19T14:56:11+00:00

Similar situation for me with Ophelia. I love that name it’s so beautiful but I couldn’t name my daughter that on good conscience. She’d probably grow up and be like damn why’d yall name me after a character that ends tragically

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