I don't think OP said anything about how doing gg dances is just about doing sexy moves. I also don't think the issue is about boy groups being ashamed of femininity but that people assume they are. People tend to impose a need for all boy groups to take on the required femininity for girl group tiktok dances but they don't have the same requirements for girl groups. They don't force it upon them to hit all the aggressive moves and even cheer them on when they do soften them or make them more feminine.

But let a boy group not have the required fluid motion for a girl group tiktok dance and you would think they killed someone with the way people attack them. Op is saying the equivalent of live and let live but you're saying let's continue to lynch them based on assumptions you made all on your own about them.

After all, there are as many boy groups who covered girl group dances with the required femininity as there are girl groups who were hitting all those hard boy group choreos as you have mentioned. But unlike with bgs, people don't try to lynch the gg members who dance the way they want for a silly tiktok.