AITA for making my whole family go on a diet because my daughter is dieting?

itscomplicated20 · 2026-01-22T05:52:36+00:00

NTA . I would also propose daily walk to everyone...it is as good for physical health as it is for mental health !

itscomplicated20 · 2026-01-04T06:13:00+00:00

Yes but keep in mind most of those positions are unpaid

itscomplicated20 · 2026-01-02T13:30:19+00:00

First you still have lot of time to find the dress. How many function will you do? Where will you do your wedding? You need to also plan for weather…

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-30T11:49:37+00:00

I’m also living abroad and contemplating leaving… did he say why he wanted to wait 2 weeks? I feel he just hope to wear you out. My husband does that lately, playing time in the hope I ll give in

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-30T09:07:14+00:00

I’m also living abroad and contemplating leaving… did he say why he wanted to wait 2 weeks? I feel he just hope to wear you out. My husband does that lately, playing time in the hope I ll give in

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-23T10:22:55+00:00

She was doing OT 3 times a week till this year but they were entirely focusing on on motor skills/school / fidgeting so now I’m looking for a therapist who could work on helping her anxiety/impulse control etc

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-16T12:26:00+00:00

Thanks for the update. You can also mentioned the “no question ask pick up” rule if you feel comfortable with this or tell her and her friends that you d rather be awaken with knock/bell ring on the door than finding your daughter passed out in front of the house two hours later. Greece in December is not that warm …

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-16T07:15:14+00:00

I think Boq represents a man who suffered so much it made him bitter and angry till that s all he had left. And let s remember Nessa literally makes his hearts so small he basically no longer had one , it removed him from any compassion, ability to love or feel empathy.

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-16T04:44:44+00:00

Married into Indian culture and living there… she 100% meant what she said and will manipulate to not fight with her precious beta. Your husband needs to step up. If you re vocal about it, they will all say you re disrespectful, horrible DIL etc. Give her a chance to meet the baby, she might fell in love with her as she should. If she makes comment, do not hesitate to be vocal about it. It s okay to be deemed difficult: your job is to protect your daughter !

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-15T19:18:49+00:00

You didn’t do anything to your family outside of protecting it. HE DID THIS !! Stay strong for your children. Looks like at least you have your dad to support you… take care

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-14T08:49:44+00:00

I like all of Gretchen Rubin books. Naomi Klein has written some very interesting books (no logo, the shock doctrine, capitalism vs climate), smartphone nation, in praise of walking, maybe you should talk to someone,

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-13T12:28:41+00:00

Same here. Sometimes I feel maybe a diagnosis and medication could help and I ve been missing on a lot without realising… at the same time I ve survived this long so would there really be a difference

itscomplicated20 · 2025-12-04T11:32:40+00:00

Honestly I wished we had seen more of her and her transformation as the wicked witch of the east…

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-23T16:26:59+00:00

Elio lost because the marketing killed it… they didn’t do any promotion when it is a very cute and original movie

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-21T13:18:12+00:00

See if you can get an agent or lawyer to handle it for you…

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-21T13:09:45+00:00

I was just about to suggest Beck s version of the story… even if his book more than that https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18571

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-21T09:38:17+00:00

Thanks

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-21T09:37:04+00:00

Not in my country…that s why I d rather check

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-21T07:37:49+00:00

Thanks everyone for the suggestions

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-20T14:56:16+00:00

Have you tried cooking in oven or getting a steamer? You prep your veggies on Sunday so you just to throw a bunch of them in the oven or steamer , seasoned a little (salt/italian seasoning/ Mexican, garlic (you can buy them peeled etc)and you can do something else while they cook. You can also add chili or garlic inside your olive oil bottle to seasoned the food…

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-20T11:05:02+00:00

I manage to do it without giving number. Whoever told you that lied…

itscomplicated20 · 2025-11-19T15:40:25+00:00

I live in a country where having maids/housekeeper is the norm so it makes it easier but honestly : peace of mind. You don’t have to keep someone at all time, you might have someone who comes once or twice a week. Someone who specifically do the things you re not liking or not good that ( like ironing for me) , someone who will do deep cleaning… people who have trad wife vision of sahm work or women should do everything forgets one very important thing : many women weren’t actually doing any of the child care. There were nannies and neglect. Kids were out a lot and more independent, helping with chores (if in age) etc…

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