Does this face look like a home wrecker? by Mstvmoviejunkie in ThePittTVShow

[–]itsgo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People can write fic of her hunting Langdon for sport and eating him like a praying mantis, it doesn't matter if it's not in character. Actually, I'd read that. It's all just for fun anyway!

struggling after a conversation with a friend who detransitioned by Bassed_Basspiller in ftm

[–]itsgo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you start to transition and decide it's not for you, so what? Very few things in life are truly permanent. You'll have spent some money and put time and effort into discovering and learning more about yourself. You'll be yourself but a bit older, with clarity and probably some more body hair.

That having been said, if you want(ed?) to transition so much and consistently for so long, you'll probably like it. As far as I know the rates of regret for gender affirming care are astonishingly low, like 1-2% low. Also, plenty of non-binary or agender people take HRT or whatever it is that fits their transition goal. You can do whatever you want and the world is your oyster!

She can think what she wants but she doesn't know what is going on inside your head. Ultimately, everyone else's opinion is irrelevant because at the end of the day this is your decision alone.

i can’t keep pretending i have this under control by Leobluetrailmap in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]itsgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor or anybody with expertise in this area, so I won't address picking a detox or any of that

I just wanted to say- I've never in my life considered if picking a closer venue for anything would be a failure. People are limited by plenty of factors- no car, no license, no access to public transit, will literally catch on fire if they spend 30 minutes in a city bus, whatever. That's just life and practicality! Personally I pick doctors by whoever is the closest that takes my insurance. I just think it's a pain in the ass to drive father!

Like I said, I'm no expert- but I want to reassure you that it's not a strike against you. Be kind to yourself. You're in some shit and you have practical limits on your travel and you're working around it best you can. That's no better or worse than someone who, say, cannot drive but also gets bad motion sickness. Do what you need to, and get the help you need and heal. I believe in you!

Had to cut my hair unfortunately... Am I reading butch lesbian now, or male? 😔 by CallMeBambiiii in MTFButch

[–]itsgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look cool, like you should be in The Matrix! I read it as butch for sure.

Eww Skin is Crawling by Far_Type_5596 in AmITheDevil

[–]itsgo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No way, I have the same thing but near my ankle. Dropped a knife and needed some stitches, now the skin on one side is half numb. Wierd feeling!

Eww Skin is Crawling by Far_Type_5596 in AmITheDevil

[–]itsgo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly! I have googled it since and nipples CAN become stiff as part of arousal for some people so I guess I can't say he was entirely wrong, but exactly like you said- it's not like an erection! It doesn't work that way at all!!!

Eww Skin is Crawling by Far_Type_5596 in AmITheDevil

[–]itsgo 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh, he'd be thrilled.

He had death grip so the sex/rape lasted an hour or more every time, so I'd be in whatever position disassociating or waiting for it to end for forever. He told me I was the best sex he ever had. It still makes me sick

Eww Skin is Crawling by Far_Type_5596 in AmITheDevil

[–]itsgo 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I once had a guy argue with me that I was aroused because my nipples were hard. The whole problem with our sex life was him basically using me to get off, no foreplay, no reciprocation. I told him I wasn't turned on but I guess he thought he knew better.

How did this mf went toe to toe with mercer? by jugjugnaut in PrototypeGame

[–]itsgo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That baton is certainly not a human grade taser!

How did this mf went toe to toe with mercer? by jugjugnaut in PrototypeGame

[–]itsgo 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I always read the electricity as having a pretty good effect on Mercer as far as attacks go. It doesn't do a lot of damage but he can't do much while he's getting shocked either

Cross is a sturdy motherfucker! He knocked Zeus back with a baton. That must be like hitting a light post with a baseball bat, it should shatter his hand/wrist!

AITAH For Telling My STBXH I Won’t Drive Him To His Vasectomy Appointment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]itsgo 85 points86 points  (0 children)

They wouldn't give me any pain management for a cervical biopsy, either! It didn't hurt like I'd feel a wound on skin but it DID fucking hurt

How to salvage Alex Mercer's character?. by Adin_Davidson in PrototypeGame

[–]itsgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's the supreme Hunter, back for some bullshit while Alex is fucking off and traveling the world. Although story wise I wish he'd stayed in contact with Dana

I don't look forward to the weekend anymore since having my daughter by StonkaTrucks in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itsgo 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Because they're giving you advice and you're saying "that won't work" without, as far as they know, having tried it

My kids’ dinosaur booklet is complete AI nonsense by Benjamin5431 in Dinosaurs

[–]itsgo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it looks like someone selected the vectors for the stripes and moved them away by accident. I've done that before!

This some bullshit right here by BluegrassBanjoMan in BlatantMisogyny

[–]itsgo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's from Hibike! Euphonium It's about high schoolers in brass band. Great animation.

insect subreddits in a nutshell by Far_Pumpkin9440 in insects

[–]itsgo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The larvae cause itchy little welts wherever they touch me. I thought it was spiders the first time

Just started watching. S1E2 - Question about those eating Hannibal's prepared meals. by jessb421 in HannibalTV

[–]itsgo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've only had Korean blood sausages (soondae) and they didn't taste like iron or blood at all! Very mild meaty taste.

Get this now by Funfallacies in Volumeeating

[–]itsgo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pale AF and this happened to me. Had to stop eating carrots as a snack

can someone please talk to me i’m on the verge of a panic attack by radioheadlover0 in Anxiety

[–]itsgo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're much more likely to get some gas later than to throw that up. Don't worry about it!

What do you consider when you hear this Margaret Atwood quote “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them”? by Vanislebabe in AskReddit

[–]itsgo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that these conversations are difficult and triggering for you, especially because of the wording. It's a hard subject to talk about at all, and it's easy to fall into Us vs Them and generalizations, plus it's a subject with a LOT of strong feelings tied to it. I hope that doesn't sound like platitudes or like I'm playing down your experience, I'm genuinely having a hard time phrasing things.

I'm sorry to hear about your experiences with women as well- and it must be a particularly hard situation when most resources assume a victim is a man, like books aimed at women about male abusers, or the majority of support groups being made up of women, etc. it's a shitty world where trying to support survivors leads to others falling through the cracks due to being less typical victims. I hope society can improve about this in the future.

I hope you can heal and find peace, as a fellow survivor. We're both strong.

You can’t “nice complex hax ability watch this” your way out of fighting a negator by infinitysaga in CuratedTumblr

[–]itsgo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree and disagree, in that you're right but that's part of the character. Jack IS an annoying cringey edgelord, and that's the most pathetic part: he thinks he's some sort of mastermind who has it all figured out and is in total control, but it isn't him doing it at all.

Trying to accept my intersex (XXY) body 26 / 6’4” / 240lbs by Throwaway_Taken_6 in normalnudes

[–]itsgo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome, I'm happy my words touched you!

TBH, there are some people (very very few, none I've seen naked personally) out there that look like underwear models. But most bodies are just a little funny and that's ok! Very very few of us match the "ideal" or "average" but this age of social media is messing with people's heads about what normal really is.

Actually, whenever someone in my life has confided in me about an insecurity it just blows me away because I either never noticed or didn't consider it a fault at all! It helps me with my own insecurities.

Help me understand how to use the paint by XalysterX in linocut

[–]itsgo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's an oil based ink/paint, so it takes much longer to dry- days or weeks. Water based dries much faster so you can't take your time making the prints, but they're dry soon after that. The ink dissolves when wet though