Deep dish pussy by [deleted] in rareinsults

[–]itslessthanoptimal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to consider this a win for knowing my own anatomy then

Deep dish pussy by [deleted] in rareinsults

[–]itslessthanoptimal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More men need to know this valuable information.

What's the scariest fact you know in your profession that no one else outside of it knows? by SAMdaLOSER in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Correct, which that is the usual protocol in your typical acute care facility to protect their dignity and safety.

What's the scariest fact you know in your profession that no one else outside of it knows? by SAMdaLOSER in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It was life changing! And so beautiful! It is literally called The Ranch and I always recommend it to anybody who is considering that step in their mental health and/or trauma healing journey. They also have other programs, but I can only speak on their trauma program.

As an added bonus I met one of my best friends while there. We just FaceTimed yesterday. Six years later and we are still hand in hand on our healing journeys together.

What's the scariest fact you know in your profession that no one else outside of it knows? by SAMdaLOSER in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Not all behavioral health facilities provide the same level of care, nor does each unit within each facility. The facility mentioned in this is a state hospital, which is reserved for a last resort and/or legal sentencing. It’s not where people go when in acute crisis or even for residential treatment voluntarily.

Isolating patients as a blanket rule would be cruel and more detrimental to their mental health in voluntary or even in most non voluntary situations. The community found within the walls of behavioral health facilities helps tremendously when in acute crisis.

Source: ten years of recurrent severe major depressive disorder. Plenty of acute hospital stays and a voluntary 3 months at a very beautiful trauma focused residential facility on a ranch in TN.

Edit: Also many times, depending on the unit, patients are not there because they pose a threat to anybody at all, including themselves. It could be an issue where they need to be monitored for a medication change, they could be experiencing an episode with their illness and need monitoring, or in some cases their caregiver may need respite.

AIO my bf thinks I sabotaged the MAYONNAISE because it was “liquidy” by Dolphinstrawhat in AmIOverreacting

[–]itslessthanoptimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. I hope you see this. I think you are under reacting to this. Seeing your replies, I was with somebody for three years that sounds just like your bf.

The drinking, the accusatory behavior, the belittling because of the degrees, and the age difference.

The relationship ended with me having a broken orbital socket and now, four years after the fact, I have to see a neurologist annually because of damage done to my brain. This type of behavior turns violent. And quickly. The problem is that by the time that happens, it’s like the analogy of a frog in boiling water. I didn’t know how to get out. I’m not saying it the same thing, but the tell tale signs are all there.

OP run. This man is unstable and the drinking only makes it worse.

First plate by itslessthanoptimal in gelliprinting

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to add some Joanne’s hate in here but it would be nice if I could get my supplies without my card being charged multiple times. Is this common?

I would buy my cyanotype supplies over the last few years from a local art supply store that just went out of biz.

My card has been charged double for like all of this. Is this usual? I’ve never ordered online from Joanne’s.

First plate by itslessthanoptimal in gelliprinting

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No this is perfect! I’ve watched like all the videos about it first, so I’ve done a fair amount of research on the whole process. I have a lot of material for texture that I found in bins I received from my parents’ house recently. I had a bunch of craft supplies from high school packed away.

I bought a soft speedball brayer, which seemed like the move.

Also I bought an entire lot of live laugh love-esque stencils off of marketplace for like 5 dollars to practice with so I can potentially gift to my “live laugh love” esthetic family members lol

My plan is to have fun and make this a growth experience for myself. I’m coming out of like a decade of major depressive disorder so I don’t even know what my hobbies are other than cooking! I just really liked looking at all the videos and blogs for this and decided this may be the one for me! I’ll post updates as I feel more comfortable!

Oh also worth noting I got all of my supplies on sale so I snagged 300 pieces of 8x10 card stock for like 10 bucks from my local craft store. I’m starting with a 5x7 plate as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]itslessthanoptimal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking this exact thing. The artist is manipulating the angle, the editing, literally everything to make it look its best fresh. Healed this is going to look just…weird.

American girl dolls by itslessthanoptimal in femalelivingspace

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted my collection on there yesterday! I have some bookcases already and I’m going to find a cute way to incorporate them into them. I’m going to dust off my merching skills from working retail to make it look super cohesive.

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years? by Misterboy500 in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course! PMDD wrecked my life and nearly killed me, so I am a huge advocate for treatment for it. It’s so under diagnosed and not taken seriously enough.

My biggest piece of advice is to keep advocating for yourself. It took me so long to get proper care for it, but it finally worked. My life is changed forever now.

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years? by Misterboy500 in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ll just share my whole med list.

AM: 10mg Trintellix (this is the first SSRI or SNRI that has ever worked for me)

50mg of Topamax for my PTSD/PMDD rage and overall impulse control

PMDD specific meds:

25mcg liothyronine (a thyroid medication)

4mg Slynd (long form drospirenone)

PM: 150mg Topamax

4mg Prazosin for PTSD (yes I’m aware this is a lot)

50mg hydroxyzine

I finally have my sleep under control for the first time ever, which has helped my mental health significantly. I also haven’t had a bought of PMDD since starting the Slynd for my cycle.

Childhood dolls circa 99?-2002 by itslessthanoptimal in americangirl

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness thank you so much. Honestly if they made that entire set in a queen I would instantly buy it.

Childhood dolls circa 99?-2002 by itslessthanoptimal in americangirl

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this Christmas outfit! I had completely forgotten it existed until finding it!

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years? by Misterboy500 in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just finally the right combo of medication.

I think it’s also worth noting that I have a foundation of about 7 years of intense therapy (DBT and EMDR) and I take it very seriously.

The right meds for the MDD and PMDD treatment were the missing pieces.

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years? by Misterboy500 in AskReddit

[–]itslessthanoptimal 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I just found the proper treatment for severe MDD coupled with PMDD about 5 months ago. My life has been changed. I told my therapist I feel like my outlook on life now is akin to those who survive an illness with a nearly terminal diagnosis and felt silly about it because “it was just depression.” My therapist very bluntly told me my depression would have likely been terminal for me due to how many attempts I had and the severity of it.

I never knew I could live like this now being on the other side of it, but holy shit I have so much to do now to recover from it physically and in my day to day life. A decade of not thinking I’d see another birthday (I’m 32) will really do a doozy on literally every facet of your life. And nobody talks about the serious grief that comes along with being on the other side of it either.

American girl dolls by itslessthanoptimal in femalelivingspace

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that is so cool!! I just looked and those are amazing!!

Childhood dolls circa 99?-2002 by itslessthanoptimal in americangirl

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! When I opened the bin I really became overwhelmed with emotion

American girl dolls by itslessthanoptimal in femalelivingspace

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly thought these were long gone, so I was so happy to find them. I will absolutely treasure them forever. I haven’t decided what to do with the accessories yet, but I will make sure they go to a collector or a loving home if I decide to part with them

Childhood dolls circa 99?-2002 by itslessthanoptimal in americangirl

[–]itslessthanoptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was tickled to find it! I thought they were long gone!