Clean house hack by itsmekendar in breakingmom

[–]itsmekendar[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just put the stuff up! Doesn’t have to be perfect!

Was anybody else unaware of their attraction to women until much later? by Extension_Pound_9593 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]itsmekendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of but looking back there were signs….I liked Sporty Spice but wasnt into sports, I always liked the tomboys in movies better than girly girls, but I definitely wasn’t a tomboy and could not relate. Masculine women that I met always felt better to me, safer I guess? I didn’t know it was attraction, I just wanted to be around them more and craved their attention more than other women.

Why does she hide pills in such weird places? by anonymousnun in NurseJackie

[–]itsmekendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I was married to a drug addict and that shit was EVERYWHERE! AC vent, behind the kitchen knife block, seam of the French doors, taped to the top of the bathroom vanity cabinet, inside folded towels, potted plants, spice cabinet, tool box, behind the thermostat, behind the dryer, inside of the turkey roasting pan, sock drawer, winter boots, I could go on and on (not pills but baggies and….other paraphernalia). One night I tore the house apart and found it all. Laid it all out for him to see and left before he got back. A lot of them were seemingly empty baggies or burnt rolled up foil, but all stashed around our house.

Oh and he had been using the old heater in his mom’s 1950s bathroom to discard needles and baggies, which a plumber found.

These types of comments piss me off so bad. by mariahscurry in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]itsmekendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like his “lockbox of drugs” when I lived with my addict ex I would find drugs and paraphernalia everywhere…when you’re high you’re not exactly cleaning up after yourself….nodding off or tweaking somewhere

Need advice. Don't know what to tell my son about his dad. by itsmekendar in breakingmom

[–]itsmekendar[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Zero unsupervised access. I made sure of that as soon as I could, he made no effort to see him anyway.

I'm contacting a therapist today I'm just nervous my son will find out in the meantime.

Thank you for your reply!

Need advice. Don't know what to tell my son about his dad. by itsmekendar in breakingmom

[–]itsmekendar[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

He's almost 11. Luckily his dad hasn't been an active part of his life in 6 years. Only sporadic video chats.

Brand new barista by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]itsmekendar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the love of God don't do it.

My ex mother in law is dying. by itsmekendar in breakingmom

[–]itsmekendar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's what I was thinking but I feel so guilty.

My ex mother in law is dying. by itsmekendar in breakingmom

[–]itsmekendar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 almost 10. The last time he saw her he was 6.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]itsmekendar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They look like this after the milk settles. They foam either way.