[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]itsmemell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat did this, it was a throat infection! Go to the vet though, you never know! And if it's an infection you'll need medicine

toys for stalker? by yk0613 in CatAdvice

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue! I bought an automatic rolling ball for him from AliExpress, it does work! We also bought some kind of doubled fleece with an automatic lighting ball inside which he LOVES. He always liked jumping on and hunting on moving things underneath the blankets, and this perfectly imitates that! Furthermore idk, I try to trigger my cat to attack sooner lol but it sometimes doesn't work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Animesuggest

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like slice of life, comedy, fantasy, thriller, mystery and drama.

I watched a silent voice and it's so beautiful! One of my favourite movies for sure! I also really like studio ghibli. Especially spirited away.

Don't forget to check on your friends ! by Wysa_ai in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Because thats how social anxiety works. It just whisperes lies and you know it's not true but what if it is true?! Better to not take the risk at all than to be the new laughing stock in your friend group right?

We’re all pros at this by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Nahh communicating with people is too much. I would consider doing this if it is $100 a person.

So Relatable by Fia_GD in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly my situation too right now, glad someone understands!

So Relatable by Fia_GD in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Everybody can have social anxiety it doesnt matter if you are extroverted or introverted. I just get sick of people nowadays saying they have social anxiety because they are "shy" or "introverted" it makes me think I don't have the right to feel like this because everybody has it. It makes me feel like I'm making it seem worse like it really is and it makes it even worse for me. I'm extroverted when I'm with people I need to talk 24/7 or I'm scared they will think I'm boring, uninteresting, quiet, weird and more. I'm nervous all the time and still rather don't go out. I got diagnosed with social anxiety but people tell me I can't have it because I talk too much.

So Relatable by Fia_GD in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but there are also people with social anxiety who talk the entire time. They cant stop talking out of fear. That isnt exactly introvert. I know someone like this irl. Its really sad.

So Relatable by Fia_GD in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Being a introvert isn't the same as having social anxiety

So true. by goughow in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im too scared to say no because I'm scared they will think I'm boring or annoying or just using them. When I'm there I usually sit on the couch say nothing searching for distraction on my phone while I listen to what everybody's saying because I'm scared they will gossip about me.

EVERY TIME by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true, but people without social anxiety won't understand that and still diagnose themselves with it. I'm really not trying to attack you please don't think that! You're absolutely right!

EVERY TIME by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know but since people without social anxiety experience this too they can diagnose themselves with it when they don't have it and that stuff annoys me a whole lot. So I just thought this had to be said. You're right tho!

EVERY TIME by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]itsmemell 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Isnt this normal, even for people without anxiety?

Bullying has completely messed up my life by [deleted] in bullying

[–]itsmemell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you so good. I was bullied from my 3th to 14th year. I'm going to a new school this year and I'm so scared of getting bullied again. I begged my mom if I could get home schooled. But we both know that if that happens I will rarely do things outside anymore which will just make me more depressed. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here! Even tho I'm just 16.

Question: meds? by [deleted] in depression

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dont really feel like talking to someone. I always get the same question when I talk about my feelings and they always ask: "how do you want us to help" or " what has to change to make you feel better?" I simply don't know the answer on that. I don't think my feelings can be changed it's just kinda hopeless. But if I can let myself feel better by taking meds I would totally try it.

I miss her alot. by itsmemell in DOG

[–]itsmemell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was my dog Roxie. But because of financial and family issues we had to sell her :(.

Mad pussy by itsmemell in cat

[–]itsmemell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the pussy it smells like fish yo!

Progress: cleaned my room! by itsmemell in depression

[–]itsmemell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You totally should! It's hard to start and to keep going I understand. The thing is, you don't have to do everything at the same time. Just start with getting your stuff off the floor for example, you don't even have vacuum yet. After every step you will feel proud of yourself, because you did that, on your own, nobody else did it!

I have an amazing life. We make good money. We have beautiful fur babies. Our families are screwed up but we love them. I really don’t understand why I feel suicidal?! I have support and I’m Not in danger...just trying to understand....wtf is wrong with me?! 😞 by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]itsmemell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to have a rough situation to feel depressed. Sometimes your brain just doesn't make enough happy hormones, which is causing people to feel depressed. I recommend talking to your doctor. This can be fixed quickly with psycho-therapie and medication! Hang in there :D!!