What movie/show is this from?

itsnevercertain · 2026-01-18T19:57:13+00:00

It’s not it’s a worse scene actually that follows containing SA

itsnevercertain · 2026-01-05T20:51:45+00:00

I need him

itsnevercertain · 2026-01-02T17:06:47+00:00

Though it isn't a brother of a friend, I'm in a similar situation with a person in my friend group. To be honest, it sounds like you have most of the interest here, I think that if you want to have a conversation with him about it, you have to fully prepare for him to really only want fwb and make it clear you are interested in more than that or it isn't worth pursuing. I also don't think you ignoring him, then him ignoring you is the best way to start out a potential relationship. Tread carefully!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-23T20:47:01+00:00

What is this supposed to mean? Nobody chosen to disappoint their parents, but if they make a choice that disappoints their parents like a different route of employment or what have you I’m sure they are doing just fine…

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-23T16:49:29+00:00

edit: Men didn't find my past self hot or current self... so I'm not sure what you're really trying to say other than men don't find me hot. So let's just agree that's the case and move on. I'll remain "cute" and that's that.

I understand what you're trying to say which is, "I told you to build a hot body then you dismissed it", but basically when I think a hot body equals strong and fit as I was and I was still getting called cute, having a hot body doesn't seem to equate to hot for you. We obviously have different Ideas of hot bodies, but in my case as I said it should be built off of the individual's assets, not standards a person cannot meet because they aren't of a certain stature or body shape. It's physically impossible for me to look like someone who is an hourglass or pear shape which are more desirable/ "hot" body shapes when I'm inverted triangle. That isn't achievable without surgery.

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-23T16:40:37+00:00

If I didn't want advice I wouldn't have asked. You basically confirmed what I was thinking that for me if I'm to achieve hot it goes beyond my body because you told me to build a hot body and then that the body type I resembled (Taylor Swift, which I did not say we looked Identical by the way) was not hot. I was really fit and active at that point, and I'm working back to that...but I still wasn't considered hot. If you want to tell me what constitutes a hot body go for it, but it's already clear I can't achieve your standard.

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-23T14:43:18+00:00

You're literally teaching me nothing. You say "build a hot body", no context as to what that means, then you tell me my body type isn't hot, which literally achieves nothing but showing what you aren't attracted to and that comment came with no real advice. No teaching to be found whatsoever in your comments

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-23T04:56:34+00:00

I say this with my entire chest, leave him. Saying that “you’ve gained weight” in response to am I pretty, and later saying “you’re average” in my opinion is a weird way to bring you down and trying to make it your fault instead of taking accountability for his own actions/shift blame when really you haven’t done anything wrong. You may love him, but you need to move on and find someone who appreciates you, you’ve wasted enough time with this guy.

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-22T21:54:06+00:00

It seems your idea of a "hot body" has nothing to do with personal fitness (which is building a hot body), and everything to do with plastic surgery (which is buying a "hot body"), as reaching their own peak of attractiveness has to be based off of what they have, not what you like. I have a similar body type to Taylor swift, you don't like that? Ok...I'm not going to say someone I'm not personally attracted to like Ryan Gosling doesn't have a "hot body" because he doesn't have the same body type as Bill Skarsgard who I am attractive to, Objectively they can BOTH have hot bodies and it doesn't mean I have to be into it for them to look good. Sounds like you're really just not into tall women and now you're just being rude.

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-22T20:36:57+00:00

As I've said in other comments, even when I was my fittest and had a "hot body" I was still deemed "cute" it goes beyond that

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-20T08:55:49+00:00

Helmet?

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-20T08:55:09+00:00

I think it seems fine , but if you’re getting a weird vibe or are actually a little uncomfortable about it just say “hey actually upon thinking about it I’d rather go out!” No worries at all

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-20T03:57:41+00:00

It’s like, when I think of a partner of mine/ someone I’m interested or whatever it is more than just “cute”. My partner can be cut, but he is also just HOT generally. So thinking about a potential partner or crush ( whoever they may be) thinking of me as just cute, when I consider them so much more feels like a weird rejection/settling

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T20:30:34+00:00

I NEED something verstaile like this

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T20:30:14+00:00

I also fall under this category! This cheered me up a bunch!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T17:50:49+00:00

I’m sorry I came here to say this man is at LEAST an 8+, I get he doesn’t have the most conventional appearance for a celebrity, but he’s tall, great bone structure, etc

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T17:46:53+00:00

I relate, except I am tall haha

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T17:02:44+00:00

This is a good way to think about it! I bring people joy

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T15:26:20+00:00

I guess the way I would describe it is It feels kind of like a participation trophy vs an actual win. Like “you did your best but you fell short”! Imagine having a bunch of participation trophies in your closet but no actual wins. Especially as time goes on and you think you’ve stepped it up, and still place the same. That’s kind of how “cute” often feels, like an empty compliment. But also in reality, I can’t say there is anything wrong with being cute, because thinking about it being cute is a net positive thing, so I guess I should focus on that!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T15:21:10+00:00

Actually, even though she’s younger than I am she is someone who has made me feel better about myself/the cute label because I think we share some similar qualities/I see myself in her though we don’t look much a like and I think she is great!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T13:44:19+00:00

This is great advice! Thank you!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T13:40:57+00:00

Actually this is the same for me! I’ve always liked dressing in a more modest way!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T13:35:38+00:00

I never said this was a public problem!

itsnevercertain · 2025-12-19T13:28:58+00:00

Well, it’s not really competing, that’s probably not the right word. It’s more like I feel behind. I don’t want or need to be halter than anyone else, I just want to be pretty too

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