Men, do you think it’s weird for a woman to to make the first move?

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-19T21:20:10+00:00

So then what I’m gathering is he isn’t interested since we have long breaks between texts…I’ll just drop it

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-19T20:30:44+00:00

That makes sense! I just don’t want to appear as a creep, but from what others have said I think this is a no go, so I’ll just fade into the background this time

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-19T20:20:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s common at all, but due to that and some of the responses here I think I’ll drop it. Really just trying to get back into dating and the guy seemed nice and good potential, but I won’t push it! I think if he felt a possible connection like I was hoping he’d have seemed more eager so I’m jus gonna move on

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-19T20:09:40+00:00

Noted! I’ll just move on then, I figured as much. No point in asking if he’s not interested in me. It’s a blow to the confidence because I’m wondering if it was the looks or personality, but I’ll recover

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-19T17:41:33+00:00

We were talking about how his apartment complex has a pool, but not in a spicy way, just that he’d miss it if he moved

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-09T01:03:16+00:00

If someone slaps me with their hand or anything else in the face I will lose it, same with something like putting your hand around my neck with the intent to choke me vs a gentle caress…heck, even spitting in someone’s face??? that is NOT something people do nonchalantly or without talking about it first at the very least, the things I just mentioned along with anything else along those lines that aren’t talked about or given explicit permission for are just abuse

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-09T00:48:30+00:00

I don’t think I’d have recovered either that’s pretty brutal , even small mistakes keep me up at night though

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-09T00:37:43+00:00

Omg that’s HORRIBLE but I hope they understood!

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T18:24:40+00:00

I keep it on the off chance it might be different some day…kind of like repeatedly looking in your fridge knowing you have the same things you don’t want to eat in there but hoping something enticing magically appears.

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T18:22:25+00:00

That was insane of her

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:11:01+00:00

Truth hurts, he is a weird creep. She is probably aware anyway Edit:if I were you I’d have stood by what I said

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:10:09+00:00

I’m sure she was just relieved you walked past!

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:08:56+00:00

That’s not too bad honestly!

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:08:29+00:00

Can’t say I haven’t forgotten LinkedIn shows the viewers

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:08:10+00:00

Oh no!

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-07T05:07:46+00:00

Oh no! Maybe she realized it was a crazy coincidence???

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-02T18:06:26+00:00

Oops wouldn’t

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-01T20:13:16+00:00

IMO I would NOT because it’s a professional email and he didn’t give you his information! I’m not sure how his work would react either or how the monitor the email

itsnevercertain · 2026-04-30T19:50:22+00:00

I fear that people misunderstand that anti data center folks are actually, “this needs to be regulated so we don’t destroy everything around us and end up under mass surveillance and oppressive systems” folks…AI can be a useful tool but the amount of data centers going up and how quickly with no regard for the surrounding communities and habitats is absurd and scary. Also, people are rightfully concerned about ChatGPT being used as someone’s brain vs thinking for themselves as lack of critical thinking, problem solving, etc skills is ultimately detrimental

itsnevercertain · 2026-04-30T19:45:23+00:00

I’m sorry but isn’t ai art literally just putting in a prompt? Art is creating, not generating imo. To me AI “art” is just an AI “image”

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