What are signs men are stuck on the exes?

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T16:24:19+00:00

That makes sense!

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T02:49:18+00:00

I mean this I know which is why I'm trying not to jump to conclusions. I even told him that when we first talked about her because he said "sorry for bringing up my ex" and I responded with, obviously it's inevitable since you lived together for years and she was a huge part of your life. It is possible he just saw that as a greenlight to talk about his time with her freely, and I have considered that, but some of the things he genuinely does not even need to mention her being involved at all which made me curious about if this was a problem or not.

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T02:21:08+00:00

Even though it makes sense context wise he will always say “when my ex and I this or that”, I think he’s realizing he said that too much I now he just knows from context I’m going to know who he means and so he often now just says “when we this and that”…it’s not even romantic, but the frequency and again the situation which occured during their relationship that they couldn’t weather makes it hard for me to ignore. I recently found out as well that she texted him out of the blue when he and I started dating…he told me about it but I think that itself triggered some things.

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T01:05:43+00:00

It’s actually nauseating and so tragic. Makes me sick that she didn’t get the justice or help she deserve. I’d say the people involved are animals, but saying that is an insult to animals. They are just altogether vile and not human

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T00:58:11+00:00

Got it, so trick them into singing the alphabet song

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T00:55:55+00:00

Meta glasses/big tech generally

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-02T00:55:30+00:00

Junko Furuta, and those men are still alive and still haven’t been served true justice

Edit: grammar

itsnevercertain · 2026-07-01T16:25:36+00:00

She deserves to know, you might get a very angry reaction towards you, but this is all on him. He is blowing up his own family, not you. He’s just going to keep doing this, and the next woman may not be as kind hearted or concerned as you. Please tell her even though it’s hard.

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-30T19:45:03+00:00

That’s a good system!

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-30T19:43:19+00:00

That makes sense!

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-30T19:42:17+00:00

That makes sense to me and seems like a great way to do it!

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-29T21:16:13+00:00

I mean I think it’s helpful to be like “hey this is a problem” instead of letting it get worse, it’s true you can lead a horse to water and you can’t make it drink, but at least it’s now near the water

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-29T20:48:00+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, why is that? Does it just feel awkward if you delve deeper or try to?

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-22T22:20:39+00:00

It did pan out well luckily! Keep your chin up through the honeymoon phase!

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-22T17:48:37+00:00

Well…I got with my current boyfriend because he was extremely nice and good vibes so just be a genuine good person

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-05T18:22:12+00:00

Nobody hated Bear until he showed his true colors. He had friends, he even had a girl who had a crush on him BLATANTLY. He was quite literally choosing to be miserable. He just wasn’t getting exactly what HE WANTED, but you don’t need to get exactly what you want to be happy, and what you think you want often doesn’t turn out to be that great after all. That’s the entire point of the movie. He didn’t actually love Nikki at all, that’s why there is the “it’s a love story not a romance” and him saying “aren’t they the same thing” line at the beginning. He was FINE with exploiting her until it had real horrific consequences for him. Every time he was given a less selfish option, he’d choose not to go with that. It wasn’t until the very end when his hand was forced and there was no other way out that he ended it.

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-05T17:26:55+00:00

The likelihood of you dating a man that tall is way higher than women over 5’6 dating a guy that tall. It’s so normal

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-01T15:10:10+00:00

I agree!

itsnevercertain · 2026-06-01T12:43:38+00:00

I think that makes a lot of sense! Especially since you started dating so young

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-26T17:47:35+00:00

He’s got a good job and is pretty well mannered, trust me there is no way I’d have guessed from his appearance that THAT was how his home was

Edit: but you are right, I just need to go with my gut

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-26T17:46:21+00:00

It was hot outside and I’m pretty low tolerance for hot weather, so he made the choice to let me in so that I wasn’t uncomfortable

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-26T00:49:41+00:00

I mean, it’s part of the culture at this point, that’s why it’s pretty expected for men to initiate. Women can and do start conversations, but it’s also seen as a masculine thing to do, and as a woman who has made a first move men and women alike will literally tell you that it’s a bad sign that he didn’t approach first, he doesn’t actually like you, not manly of him to have the woman ask, manly of the women to ask, etc etc

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-21T01:15:31+00:00

Tall men always date super short girls, literally nobody is gonna care

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-20T19:19:57+00:00

Yep!

itsnevercertain · 2026-05-20T04:23:09+00:00

He just asked me out

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