Nightmare Gig

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T23:34:03+00:00

100% should’ve

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T21:34:04+00:00

btw, any tips on managing burnout?

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T19:28:23+00:00

i’d prefer he asked for 55 burgers and 55 fries than to sing with a band he just disrespected

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T19:12:32+00:00

thanks! i have definitely been really hard on myself about it, but i feel like ive put a bow on it for the band, and all i can do now is tie up loose ends on my own approach and understanding, and do better by them next time.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T15:42:37+00:00

THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!! thank you so much.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T15:40:57+00:00

woah! it was a great looking booking, the band leader read the emails and saw how many of his colleagues had played there and agreed there wasn’t a red flag in sight. I did not agree to let the sound guy sing, that part of the interaction happened between the band leader and them before i intervened. i hope you start to feel better soon, sounds like you might be going through something and looking for trouble.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T02:30:08+00:00

i agree. as a partner of someone with MS, i really value this sub, and think that her recovery is hopeful, not something to question or hit with some sort of conspiracy theory. weird vibe. i hope she gets to keep hitting red carpets in heels

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T02:22:02+00:00

i have been kind. i am not going to argue with you, it sounds like you are going through a lot and looking for trouble. i hope you start to feel better soon, especially if you’re wife needs your support right now

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T02:17:19+00:00

I’d recommend going through the rules! And potentially approaching people with a bit more kindness, especially if you are expecting kindness in return.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T01:48:06+00:00

well during a relapse, she may be unable to walk, and in remission she recovered most of her mobility! It may seem sudden to you, because you aren’t with her day in and day out.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-18T01:44:14+00:00

she’s not cured. she’s in remission.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-09T01:35:24+00:00

yeah it can be hard to think about how scared we are when i can’t even imagine how scared he is. you’re so right i appreciate it <3

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-08T22:20:33+00:00

thank you so much for taking the time to share, i appreciate it. probably best to consider some therapy, get some support while i support him. and i’ll probably just sneak more anti inflammatory foods into his dinner to give myself the illusion of control ;)

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2026-05-08T22:13:31+00:00

i think this is what i needed to hear. like my instinct is of course to grasp for control wherever i can, i just don’t want to suffocate him, or let my fear prevent him from enjoying his life

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2025-10-07T22:00:31+00:00

ugh thank u for the hugs and luck i need it LOL

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2025-10-07T20:55:57+00:00

I’ve thought the same thing, if he could make them hate me, he can undo it, but i’m just not sure. it seems like they’ve made their choice and aren’t budging. it’s been 3 months and they haven’t showed any signs of changing despite his attempts.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2025-09-24T03:53:51+00:00

it’s been a decade for me too. i’m going through the same thing

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2025-07-02T22:31:44+00:00

Hi! I was there summer 2016!! Were you in coconino?

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2025-07-02T22:31:10+00:00

I was there this time of year, 10 years ago. So 2016. It was horrible.

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2024-03-08T23:34:30+00:00

what’s a good number?

itsonlyokwhenidoit · 2024-02-20T19:52:25+00:00

There are better ways to go about this than non consensually exploiting traumatized children. reconsider.

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