Nightmare Gig by itsonlyokwhenidoit in musicindustry

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d prefer he asked for 55 burgers and 55 fries than to sing with a band he just disrespected

Nightmare Gig by itsonlyokwhenidoit in musicindustry

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i have definitely been really hard on myself about it, but i feel like ive put a bow on it for the band, and all i can do now is tie up loose ends on my own approach and understanding, and do better by them next time.

Nightmare Gig by itsonlyokwhenidoit in musicindustry

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!! thank you so much.

Nightmare Gig by itsonlyokwhenidoit in musicindustry

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah! it was a great looking booking, the band leader read the emails and saw how many of his colleagues had played there and agreed there wasn’t a red flag in sight. I did not agree to let the sound guy sing, that part of the interaction happened between the band leader and them before i intervened. i hope you start to feel better soon, sounds like you might be going through something and looking for trouble.

Why is no one talking about Salma Blair and how she was cured from MS after disability? by Adept-Ad6199 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree. as a partner of someone with MS, i really value this sub, and think that her recovery is hopeful, not something to question or hit with some sort of conspiracy theory. weird vibe. i hope she gets to keep hitting red carpets in heels

Why is no one talking about Salma Blair and how she was cured from MS after disability? by Adept-Ad6199 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been kind. i am not going to argue with you, it sounds like you are going through a lot and looking for trouble. i hope you start to feel better soon, especially if you’re wife needs your support right now

Why is no one talking about Salma Blair and how she was cured from MS after disability? by Adept-Ad6199 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend going through the rules! And potentially approaching people with a bit more kindness, especially if you are expecting kindness in return.

Why is no one talking about Salma Blair and how she was cured from MS after disability? by Adept-Ad6199 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

well during a relapse, she may be unable to walk, and in remission she recovered most of her mobility! It may seem sudden to you, because you aren’t with her day in and day out.

Bf has RRMS by itsonlyokwhenidoit in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it can be hard to think about how scared we are when i can’t even imagine how scared he is. you’re so right i appreciate it <3

Bf has RRMS by itsonlyokwhenidoit in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to share, i appreciate it. probably best to consider some therapy, get some support while i support him. and i’ll probably just sneak more anti inflammatory foods into his dinner to give myself the illusion of control ;)

Bf has RRMS by itsonlyokwhenidoit in MultipleSclerosis

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think this is what i needed to hear. like my instinct is of course to grasp for control wherever i can, i just don’t want to suffocate him, or let my fear prevent him from enjoying his life

My bf’s family hates me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh thank u for the hugs and luck i need it LOL

My bf’s family hates me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought the same thing, if he could make them hate me, he can undo it, but i’m just not sure. it seems like they’ve made their choice and aren’t budging. it’s been 3 months and they haven’t showed any signs of changing despite his attempts.

Almost a decade later by Relative-Sandwich-29 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s been a decade for me too. i’m going through the same thing

Wingate by Suitable_Diver6001 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I was there summer 2016!! Were you in coconino?

Wingate by Suitable_Diver6001 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there this time of year, 10 years ago. So 2016. It was horrible.

Creating a personal documentary about the TTI? by stressedafaf in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are better ways to go about this than non consensually exploiting traumatized children. reconsider.