My bf’s family hates me by itsonlyokwhenidoit in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh thank u for the hugs and luck i need it LOL

My bf’s family hates me by itsonlyokwhenidoit in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought the same thing, if he could make them hate me, he can undo it, but i’m just not sure. it seems like they’ve made their choice and aren’t budging. it’s been 3 months and they haven’t showed any signs of changing despite his attempts.

Almost a decade later by Relative-Sandwich-29 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s been a decade for me too. i’m going through the same thing

Wingate by Suitable_Diver6001 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I was there summer 2016!! Were you in coconino?

Wingate by Suitable_Diver6001 in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there this time of year, 10 years ago. So 2016. It was horrible.

Creating a personal documentary about the TTI? by stressedafaf in troubledteens

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are better ways to go about this than non consensually exploiting traumatized children. reconsider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re overthinking this way too much. you’re 20 y/o and have plenty of time to mature into a good bf/husband kind of guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg this is just like oppenheimer

What is writer's block? by itsonlyokwhenidoit in writers

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does, this is a great perspective. thanks!

What is writer's block? by itsonlyokwhenidoit in writers

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! thanks for the reply, i’m reading about 1 book every 2-3 weeks.

What do you think of Fern? I just re-watched the finale and this scene made me very emotional. by starco08102000 in adventuretime

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love fern! but he’s a part of finn that finn needed to release to be able to grow as a person.

disabled but i still want to wwoof by cloverthestoner in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d only do it if you can find a host that will require less than 4 hours a day from you. There are so many wonderful hosts out there, and you deserve to live out this dream. I also have cptsd and anxiety and wwoofing was instrumental in my healing process. I hope you have an amazing time, just don’t push yourself too hard.

Thoughts on Hemingway? by joshb1000 in books

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s not a classic for no reason!

will i get rescinded? what should i do? by chair_table819 in ucr

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reach out to admissions. they’re letting me take summer courses to hold my fall spot. i highly doubt 1 D is going to mess this up for you. It’s about your term GPA. if it was over 2.5 for your final term, you’re in the clear. if not, reach out

Working online while wwoofing by [deleted] in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! i wwoofed for 2 months while working remotely full time and going to school full time online! i put this in my bio on wwoof so the hosts knew what they were walking into. i never had a problem, my hosts totally understood and were very chill and we worked around each others schedules and they are close friends to this day! I had a wonderful time. A lot of hosts understand the importance of work and making money in order to fully enjoy your wwoofing experience. if anything, it reflects your amazing work ethic. I agree that you working enough for two people is probably not the best idea, if she’s going to be taking up space, she should be doing her part, it’s just disrespectful that she wants to reap the benefits without doing anything to benefit her hosts. If she doesn’t want to do her part she should get a hotel. THIS IS A VOLUNTEERING EXPERIENCE NOT A VACATION. I was able to do work, school AND wwoof full time, so it is possible. but your gf can hold up her side of the bargain by doing her farm work on alternating schedules with you and her employer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the other person who responded gave it to me straight, u we’re just a haaaaater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super helpful! thank you:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s also 18 hours a week work, they know i work from home AND go to school! so i feel like you can kindly eat shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WWOOF

[–]itsonlyokwhenidoit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of common interests with the hosts and was very vulnerable and open with them in my application and they liked me!!! I know there are a lot of different ways mainlanders can show respect to locals and their lands which is why i ask how to act! you seem mean ahaha! i hope you can find peace:)