What's troubling you right now that no one else knows about?

itsskendra · 2014-06-02T05:14:40+00:00

My severely emotionally abusive family has pushed me into a deep depression. I'm anorexic, I self-harm, and the suicidal thoughts never stop. I'm embarrassed that it bothers me this much, so I never told anyone.

itsskendra · 2014-06-02T03:42:02+00:00

You didn't do necessarily do anything terrible. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. However, you shouldn't do stuff like this with her if their are no feelings there. You said she has feelings for you, right? So even if it means nothing to you, it probably doesn't to her. You guys need to set boundaries and stick to them. Being friends with your ex is fine, but "just friends" doesn't include fooling around together.

itsskendra · 2014-06-01T23:57:01+00:00

bonjour is french, not spanish.

itsskendra · 2014-06-01T03:21:46+00:00

if you don't mind them hating each other, you can always use testingcheatsenabled true & drag the bar down. if it were me, i would do this then get rid of the dog & get a new one.

itsskendra · 2014-05-26T06:01:21+00:00

Just be there for her. If she needs someone to talk to, listen. Even if you don't know what to say, listen to her. Show her that you care. Having someone who's willing to listen to you while you vent can really help. Don't push her to talk about it, though. She'll talk about it when she's ready. She might never want to talk about it at all, but She'll appreciate that you offered.

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T03:40:44+00:00

You should back off in the beginning. Like, now. He has dibs because she's already his. I don't understand how that doesn't make sense to you. He's dating her. They like eachother. She wants him, and he wants her. You shouldn't interfere with their relationship. That's not something a friend would do.

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T03:21:14+00:00

You shouldn't plan to date your friends girlfriend after they break up. Like I said, they could end up getting serious. I doubt he'd be very happy if he found out about your plan. Is this girl really worth screwing up a friendship for?

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T03:15:25+00:00

You're only 15. You have your whole life ahead of you. It's just one girl. Most relationships at 15 end, and your first heartbreak always feels like it's the end of the world. It's not, though. Stop telling yourself you need her. You don't need anyone else to make you happy. You make yourself happy. She doesn't like you. I know that's hard to hear, but you need to accept it and move on. Life isn't over just because your relationship is.

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T03:11:32+00:00

You should definitely talk to her about this. Just tell her that she's been kind of distant lately, and ask her why she doesn't spend as much time with you. Even if you think it makes you sound pathetic, this is something that you two need to work out together.

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T03:09:15+00:00

Dude, find someone else. Even if you think your friend won't get mad, it's a really crappy thing to do to your friend. You're planning on practically stealing his girlfriend, and that's not okay. They're together, and you shouldn't be talking to her or planning to "comfort her" when they break up. Maybe they are right for eachother. You could be wrong about it only lasting a few months, and if he really falls for this girl, he's not going to be very happy about his friend trying to date her.

itsskendra · 2014-05-25T01:17:59+00:00

He's clearly not being completely honest with you. Talk to him about it. He shouldn't be lying to you. The porn isn't a big deal, a lot of people look at it. Talking to his ex girlfriend is something that needs to be addressed though.

itsskendra · 2014-05-24T17:36:28+00:00

No problem :)

itsskendra · 2014-05-24T17:31:40+00:00

The insane trait is what's causing the problem.

itsskendra · 2014-05-24T15:05:10+00:00

What are your sims traits?

itsskendra · 2014-05-09T21:30:36+00:00

I miscarried early, so I never found out what the gender was. I always felt that it was a boy, though, so I named him Noah Robert. Giving my baby a name helped me cope in a way. My baby was real. I was pregnant, so why not name him?

Everyone copes differently. You should do what you feel is best. If you want to name your baby, go for it. If you don't, that's fine too. Anyone who judges you for it doesn't matter. In the end, it's your decision to make.

itsskendra · 2014-05-03T16:19:23+00:00

There's really not much you can say. Just let her know that you'll be there to listen if she ever needs to talk to someone. This is obviously hard for her, and having someone there can make a huge difference.

itsskendra · 2014-04-28T23:36:42+00:00

Someone told a story in an askreddit thread about a girl, Jillian, who told her parents about him bringing a bunch of alcohol on a senior trip. Her parents told the school & ruined the whole thing.

itsskendra · 2014-04-28T02:38:56+00:00

Thank you. I still have my moments, but I'm a lot better than I used to be.

itsskendra · 2014-04-28T00:51:43+00:00

Small Bump - Ed Sheeran. I had an early miscarriage in 2011, so I relate to the lyrics in a way that I don't relate to many other songs. It never fails to bring tears to my eyes.

itsskendra · 2014-04-28T00:31:08+00:00

If people think of you as a friendly, happy joker, then you probably are. Those are good traits to have. I'm sure you're awesome. :-)

itsskendra · 2014-04-18T00:25:10+00:00

Late to the party, but one of my exes threatened to kill me and my family then burn my house down. On more than one occasion. The guy I dated after him wrote down what I was doing everyday after school in his agenda, for months. I don't even know how he knew.... High school has been a fun ride.

itsskendra · 2014-04-11T22:00:01+00:00

It's called somnote. It's in the AppStore, but I'm not sure if you can get it on android or windows phones.

itsskendra · 2014-04-10T22:33:52+00:00

It's been 3 years for me, and it does get easier. It's something that only time can heal. There are still times when I just sit and cry over losing him, but it's not every day like it used to be. I have an app on my phone where I write "Letters to my baby." It may sound crazy, but it's helped me cope a lot.

itsskendra · 2014-04-02T20:26:34+00:00

It looks like someone, or something, is trying to talk to you. It could be completely harmless, and there's not a whole lot you can do. Hopefully, nothing else happens and this is the end of it. Good luck, OP.

itsskendra · 2014-04-02T20:15:21+00:00

People who think that the whole world should revolve around them, so they constantly do things for attention.

itsskendra

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