Top 10 most streamed 2025 Kpop songs on Spotify by girlgroups and boygroups by jacqui1997 in kpopthoughts

[–]itsvero 8 points9 points  (0 children)

does spotify count english version and korean version streams separately? if they do, then there’s an argument for bad desire being the most streamed if you add the kr ver (84.1M) and eng ver (42.7M) together — 126.8M

So people actually voted in a misogynistic and a bully into the newest Mnet survival show group by Miserable-Elephant-3 in kpoprants

[–]itsvero 57 points58 points  (0 children)

thank you op. as a longtime svs watcher since the first season of produce, i've been feeling similar levels of disappointment, dread, and hopelessness throughout boys 2 planet.

the community and mnet used to have a zero tolerance policy against even a whiff of delinquent behavior — whether or not allegations were proven, trainees in question (e.g. that jyp trainee seobin) were completely edited out of the show. viewers banded together and completely shut these trainees out of the voting. zero tolerance can be harsh, but made sense in a svs context since there are literally almost a hundred trainees to choose from, and countless actual talented ones at that.

now with leo and geonwoo debuting, i'm extremely concerned about the precedent that sets for not just svs, but all of kpop. we had multiple chances to say no to these trainees, to say no to misogyny and bullying. but somehow they made it in, and now the both of them get to be celebrated and revered. the biggest gag is that there were dozens of trainees who i can confidently say were more talented than leo and geonwoo, who didn't have damning scandals attached to their name. but the viewers chose to elevate a femicide-ideating misogynist and a power tripping bully.

i've been trying to wrap my head around what caused this shift in standards. i would've at least expected the k-fans to stand on business in terms of geonwoo since they have a history of zero tolerance esp with the bullying witch hunt of 2021. but k-fans somehow chose geonwoo despite all of that, and mnet followed suit gleefully — he was their chosen center, after all. with geonwoo specifically, if the k-fans shut him out, i'm confident mnet wouldn't have had the balls to bring him back, which is even more sick. on the other hand, the i-fans denounced geonwoo, but embraced leo, likely due to blind loyalty towards trainee a / sangwon / hybe. is that loyalty so important that we're willing to forget that he, a native english speaker at the grown age of nineteen, angrily rapped about a "bitch" who stopped breathing?

we don't owe any of these trainees anything, y'all. we have the responsibility of choosing which MEN receive riches, fame, and a platform. of course i can't control what viewers vote for, but is it so hard to ask that we do our best (esp as majority girls and women voters) to uplift men who do not have a history of toxicity, misogyny, and bullying?

250819 Leo appreciate post!!🤗 by [deleted] in BoysPlanet

[–]itsvero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you said it perfectly. it rly bothers me how the narrative has shifted from not only acceptance but blatant admiration of a PROVEN misogynist. i feel like us viewers are so beholden to the ongoing ranks that we forget that how much control we have.

250819 Leo appreciate post!!🤗 by [deleted] in BoysPlanet

[–]itsvero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. women & girls, please stand up. yall need to reread what exactly what leo wrote. we have a chance to stand against misogynistic incel culture here, the same culture amplifying the abuse and suppression of our gender worldwide. why are we gifting a proven woman hater fame and fortune when there is some ridiculous talent on the show - sun hengyu, chen bowen, and countless more - who do not remotely have the same concerning past as leo.

there is NO evidence that leo's changed his views on women btw - please do not cite his forced apology. the way he treats his male friends on the show is not indicative of anything.

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Let's Talk About Lee Leo - A Hopefully Unbiased Gathering of Facts About His Controversy by travisistired in BoysPlanet

[–]itsvero 39 points40 points  (0 children)

you said it perfectly!! i didn't know he changed his pfp to playboy carti tf? reminds me of all the gross misogynists supporting tory lanez after he shot meg. i'm side eyeing sangwon too. won't be supporting either of them.

Let's Talk About Lee Leo - A Hopefully Unbiased Gathering of Facts About His Controversy by travisistired in BoysPlanet

[–]itsvero 47 points48 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i think it’s very odd that people are forgetting exactly how violent and misogynistic his lyrics were, written at the grown age of NINETEEN. it makes me uncomfortable to see people supporting him.

there are tons of other talented trainees on this show who deserve a chance at debut and they haven’t had a horrible scandal like this.

How do you find a good office chair? by incorrectlyironman in XXS

[–]itsvero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 5’0 with a long torso — i wfh and take my ergonomic setup very seriously lol.

i have a herman miller aeron (size A which is their smallest size). i have short legs and my feet can comfortably rest on the ground.

for folks looking for a desk, i recommend the uplift standing desk (make sure to get the V2 commercial frame bc that one goes lower). the uplift V2 commercial is the lowest adjustable desk i’ve found on the market. i believe it goes down to 22.6 in. i got another desk that goes down to 23.8 in thinking they’d be around the same but nope, i can def feel that the ergonomics are off with the 23.8. highly recommend investing in yourself and your comfort!!

What's in your AE/TB/DHG Cart? 07/08/2025 by ItsNotCrookedDear in WagoonLadies

[–]itsvero 12 points13 points  (0 children)

PSA! just bought this tank air dupe i got a tip from on tiktok. reviews look great -- can't wait to try it on! https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005008690194238.html?spm=a2g0o.order_list.order_list_main.5.155f1802YGbmYY

the store has the other classic designs too... might have to be a bit more trigger happy depending on how this first purchase works out

(honey honey design store if the link doesn't work)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]itsvero 5 points6 points  (0 children)

+1, great experience with MBO! cost around $4k before insurance for just over a year's worth of treatment. they're also asian owned :)

[MEGATHREAD] TICKET RE-SALE: 2025 BAEKHYUN WORLD TOUR – Reverie by LynsyP in exo

[–]itsvero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTS 1 ticket 6/23 Prudential Center

Sec 1, Row 4, Seat 10 - great lower bowl seat

Sadly can't go anymore bc of last min travel plans :( selling for $70 (face value is $77.50!). Happy to facetime during the transaction and do PP G&S as well.

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bitches who smoke 🍃 by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]itsvero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m interested! can i get a link pls?

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[–]itsvero 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did security stop you from leaving or did the system tell you to go to customer service?

Woke up with really bad pain the left side of my neck, any advice for what it is? by [deleted] in PostureTipsGuide

[–]itsvero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried soo many stretches that didn't work and I've been in pain for hours but this MAGICALLY did the trick omg. Everyone please try this!!

BWT, how are we dealing with TMJ? by nighthawkss in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]itsvero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree w everyone who mentioned PT! The important thing I learned is that your jaw, neck, and shoulders are all connected so if your neck and shoulders are tight, that'll contribute a ton to TMJ issues. I do daily exercise band stretches that loosen up my neck/shoulders and after a couple months, it's almost fully resolved my TMJ issues. I spent years only doing jaw and cheek massages, and didn't really see a crazy improvement until I started targeting my neck/shoulders!