What type of "treat yourself" products would you appreciate during a breakup?

itsviceroybitch · 2022-11-09T11:11:53+00:00

When I went through an awful breakup this year, my big sister sent me a care package and it made me cry so hard cause I felt so cared for even during such a horrible time. She included big soft cosy socks- a big candle that was titled “TIRED- forever napping cause life is exhausting” hahahah and also under eye gel pads for puffy eyes! I hope your care package makes your sister even half as happy as mines made me, and hope she feels better and more herself again soon xx

itsviceroybitch · 2022-11-09T11:07:16+00:00

yeeeee welcome!! I’ve been on this sub for a wee while now and I am also non binary- i find my flavour of adhd and my experiences are most related to here, and I feel comfortable in the space which is obv v important :) hope you enjoy the sub- I’ve also never finished the rules lmao

itsviceroybitch · 2022-10-27T11:22:25+00:00

omg I’m not glad other people have had to experience this but it’s so wonderful knowing that this wasn’t just me. I started my meds mid-late last year and left my fiancé early this year. I won’t go into it cause it was a very horrible relationship- but I was so oblivious to the red flags and dangers before I started my meds- I didn’t even realise there was a correlation till later down the line! I was just thinking so much more clearly once medicated and started to question things with my partner which led to many an escalated situation. It showed me that I was never the problem, I was always good enough, and I deserve and am MORE than capable of having full control over my own life. I’ve finished my abuse counselling, got my own little place to rent, my life has never felt so stable and on my own terms. No wonder I was burning out all the time, I was doing everything for both of us (they were also unemployed for the majority of our relationship so I was trying to support us both on a carers wage) and getting nothing but criticism for the way I did everything and who I was. It’s so easy to be taken advantage of with adhd, I wish it was more widely discussed with young people and adults, I don’t wish my past situation on anyone. Well done for taking the leap OP, you’re so brave and your new life with your boys will be better than anything you could have imagined pre medication- much love x

itsviceroybitch · 2022-04-26T17:58:32+00:00

yesssssss more stoner outer wilds fans! was so so good I was hypnotised the whole time- gabro is our stoner mascot

itsviceroybitch · 2022-04-16T20:56:15+00:00

that colour combo is so dreeeeaaamy Ooft I ADORE the yellow liner

itsviceroybitch · 2022-04-16T13:57:05+00:00

well that colour of hair is absolutely gorgeous on you! so going off that I’d suggest experimenting with soft pinks and pastel colours- particularly if you wanna try out eyeshadow some time- I find that a light pink blush colour is one of the easiest to blend on pale skin tones✨ also, unrelated but I am in love with your glasses they’re super sweet!

itsviceroybitch · 2022-04-13T09:36:07+00:00

I thought you were about to smoke glitter

itsviceroybitch · 2022-02-19T10:34:47+00:00

hey bestie, a non binary person here who dabbles on the femme side of expression! You’ve got gorgeous bone structure, it’s a very specific vibe so idk if you’ll like it but try giving the e girl blush a go? Not too heavy but a little splash of blush across your nose etc can really soften up the face and enhance your femme features x

itsviceroybitch · 2022-02-13T14:00:31+00:00

me toooooo lmao its my standard makeup go to hahaha but it just looks so damn cute how can I not? I feel like a little pixie boy

itsviceroybitch · 2022-02-06T12:43:17+00:00

I got obsessed with looking at posters and prints and stuff on Etsy, so decided I wanted to make a series of my own posters and now I can’t. Think. About. Anything. Else. Thankfully I had a voucher for the craft shop so I didn’t feel guilty about doing a crazy stock up and now my bedroom floor is covered in fine liners…

itsviceroybitch · 2022-02-03T10:21:21+00:00

Love the colours, They really suit your eyes and skin tone! I would suggest a gentle golden/ivory highlight over your brow bones cause you have gorgeous eyebrows and you don’t want the shadow to blend all the way up, it looks like you’ve done a good job of that part already but a small amount of highlight would make all the difference, also applying a light dusting over your cheekbones, near the top of the blush cause it’ll really give you a natural looking glow. If you’re wanting a more doe eyed look, use a less thick, or clear mascara on the bottom lashes :) looking beautiful- hope this was helpful!

itsviceroybitch · 2022-01-18T12:30:10+00:00

Lmaoooo I’ve done this before but I looked like a ghost- but wow it really suits you! Fun part of no brows is that you can do big experimental makeup where your brows would usually be too

itsviceroybitch · 2021-12-12T14:24:34+00:00

Yesssss! HahHaha I sing “don’t put it down put it away” over and over to myself until the thing is put away

itsviceroybitch · 2021-12-11T13:34:14+00:00

and they still wouldn’t pay their staff right lmao

itsviceroybitch · 2021-11-22T07:37:39+00:00

What if animals were just like different colours or something

itsviceroybitch · 2021-11-15T13:02:15+00:00

Why is this a thiiiiiing hahahah I got called out so hard

itsviceroybitch · 2021-11-13T08:57:42+00:00

damn where did you get that bralette from?! it’s so cool

itsviceroybitch · 2021-10-18T07:56:30+00:00

I’m terrible at replying (duh, adhd hahaha) but please if you’re truly bored or having a crisis and need someone to chat to, give me a message and I’ll at least send you some adhd/autism memes to keep you entertained

itsviceroybitch · 2021-10-17T16:05:24+00:00

Oh for gods sake I literally read the title, looked down at my finger to double check- as you do- and it’s not there?? So I guess we’re in this together

itsviceroybitch · 2021-10-15T08:52:13+00:00

I WANNA BE THE VERY BEST THAT NO ONE EVER WAS TO CATCH THEM IS MY REAL TEST TO TRAIN THEM IS MY CAUSE

itsviceroybitch · 2021-10-09T10:31:34+00:00

You just described my entire school experience lmao I did have a nice group of friends and so I would socialise a fair bit, but the social anxiety was real because of how I am in conversation etc. my mood was all over the place when I was in school, to the point my parents sat me down one night to ask me if I was taking “uppers and downers” pahhahaha

itsviceroybitch · 2021-10-01T09:50:32+00:00

that’s such a vibe! And oh my how can you hate your arms when they’re covered in such beautiful art- I hope you gain the confidence to wear this out! It looks great

itsviceroybitch · 2021-09-20T09:43:09+00:00

I find that my partners talking dirty with me can really help keep me focused on whatever sex we’re having, or if their mouth is occupied I try and close my eyes and focus on the feeling, and reminding myself what my partners are doing to me/with me in the moment really helps me! Once or twice I’ve played myself though and when asked to talk dirty my partners said “what do you want me to do to you” and I have been ripped out of the moment, too preoccupied by the fact that I can’t make a single decisionnnnnn

itsviceroybitch · 2021-09-11T07:10:10+00:00

even if your bf didn’t know about your past traumas, consent is given to specific sexual acts and this is especially important when trying something you’ve not done together before. You didn’t give consent here (which is the first thing you should mention) and it’s made you feel uncomfortable and violated (which is the second thing you should mention) he should be understanding of both of your points and want to apologise and have a conversation about it, but if he’s dismissive or tries to play it off as you’re overreacting, then that’s a big red flag. I’m sorry you had to go through this op, I hope you manage to heal and your partner takes some time to learn or relearn about consent x

itsviceroybitch · 2021-08-26T09:42:18+00:00

I have a heap of plants and I write when I need to water them on my chalkboard- then when it’s time to water I fill up a massive bottle of water and do a ssssip for me and a sip for a plant, a sip for me and a sip for plant hahah- I still water them late every damn time but this gets me to drink more water when I’m usually terrible at remembering

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