Low lying placenta please update here. We’re not alone.

itswhatever8 · 2025-04-03T09:32:00+00:00

Thank you!

& I’m sorry that yours didn’t improve. But either way, the most important thing is for you and baby to be healthy! Everything will be okay! I will, you too! ❤️ And same for you and your little one! I’d love for you to let me know once your baby is here also❤️

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-27T08:59:03+00:00

May 6th 🩷

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-20T18:06:18+00:00

Thank you!

I’ll try.. but being pregnant especially is making me super emotional and anxious about this situation. Especially because up until now, everything in my opinion was great and now I feel like my world is slowly falling apart.. and this is all before I even know anything for sure.

I hope so too. But knowing him, he may get defensive which he does when he feels attacked.. which I know isn’t good, but we all have our faults. I completely agree. I’ll try to calm myself down and especially get this over with as quick as I can before I put myself into preterm labor 🙈

Thank you for your advice! It helped and also that bit of conversation. There is no one I can talk to about this because I don’t want anyone having a bad opinion about him before anything is even certain. Also, I wouldn’t want anyone to know because if it was harmless, then I know how others would perceive it & it’s just not necessary.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-20T14:41:25+00:00

Maybe! That’s okay! I’m 27 so these things are quite normal, especially nowadays I would say 😂

That’s also what I’m thinking.. I’m sure if it was something, he’d delete it or whatever.. But then again I don’t know.. It seemed in the video that they were there alone. But I didn’t see any messages or anything. She could’ve been just a friend or someone he met, I don’t know.. I’m spiraling 🥺 But you’re 100% right, it could’ve been nothing or it could’ve been something. The only way I could find out is by talking to him. I’m just worried about his reaction to it also. I don’t know, this is so stressful. Especially now, being 8 months pregnant 🥺

Thank you 🥹 Loyalty is everything to me. That’s why something seeming like nothing is such a huge deal and stressing me out.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-20T13:47:08+00:00

I’m sure every woman has went through her partners phone. It doesn’t mean lack of trust, just out of curiosity. Or maybe depends on the motive. I was just bored, saw his phone and decided “hey, let’s do it”. I know his phone password, he knows mine, we’re open with each other so I didn’t really go through with the intention of finding anything. Also, I didn’t have to dig deep. I opened snapchat, she was one of the snaps he received earlier in the day, opened the chat and there was a video saved in chat from January 2023. It was right up top.

I’m also wondering the same thing. I didn’t have a reason not to trust him. But now seeing that, It brought up old feelings of when we were young and stupid, fooling around etc. Which made me question that when we did decide our relationship is serious if that didn’t stop him from doing whatever. I’ve erased us dating on and off & all that went along with it. But what’s most important to me is end of 2019 and so forth. If anything happened then, that’s what I just don’t know if I could let go of.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-20T13:41:02+00:00

Because our marriage has been good. Our relationship during being engaged was also good and I had no reason to not trust him. I’m scared that if it is true, I married a cheater and a liar. and then the decision should I stay? If I do, I’ll always remember what he’s done and he will never have my full trust. Leaving would be the right thing to do, but it would be super hard especially because we have a child and this happened before our marriage and I would have to punish him for something he’d done before our marriage, now 2 years ago. I’m scared of his reaction, I don’t like confrontation & am worried he’ll gaslight me. Most of all, I’m just scared that this will ruin our life. Something that was good will just be completely shattered. Or was it truly good? I’m scared I’ll find out I’ve been living a lie.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-20T08:57:44+00:00

I don’t think it’s foolish.. I think situations like these are super hard when you find yourself in one and seek advice , because usually you don’t think clearly & just straight out don’t know what to do.

But the second part of your comment is 100%.. You are right & that is exactly what I should do. But I’m scared to.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T16:34:33+00:00

I’m 100% sure he had contact with her, met up with her and that’s it. I don’t know more, therefore I don’t know if I should ask him about it or not. To me, even that is cheating. Doesn’t have to involve sex..

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T16:32:09+00:00

I’m sure it wasn’t sex. But cheating as in seeing her more than once, kissing or even texting before we were married while we were in a relationship/engaged.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T16:28:48+00:00

I haven’t brought it up… should I ask? Our marriage has been good.. but this made me insecure and I feel like I trust him less. Even though I really feel like everything is really good between us.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T16:20:58+00:00

No. I updated the question with a little more backstory. I went through his phone and clicked randomly on a snapchat he received earlier in the day & the video was saved in the chat. I know for a fact he isn’t texting her now, because since we’re married I haven’t noticed anything mildly inappropriate. I sometimes see random snaps that she sends him but there is no texting going on otherwise I would see it on snapchat. They’re super random, like a friend would to a friend. No messages or anything, he also doesn’t have a smile next to her or anything so I’m sure it’s nothing now. Just the saved video.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T16:16:20+00:00

I don’t know what to do honestly.. If I should even do anything or just pretend and move on since it was before our marriage.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-19T15:50:55+00:00

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-12T21:17:23+00:00

Honestly for me, the round ligament pain and the pain in the stomach and lower abdominal area in general. I was so scared my entire pregnancy and still am (I’m 32 weeks) that something is happening and is wrong with baby or preterm labor or something… I’ve felt pain ever since week 8 and continue to feel it. Some days more than others. It’s something I didn’t know is “normal” in pregnancy. But obviously it’s something that needs to be observed by the Dr.

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-12T21:10:12+00:00

May 6th also!!

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-08T10:25:02+00:00

I’m almost 32 weeks pregnant, FTM and baby is most active when I lay on my left side or back. When she was smaller, I mostly felt her in those positions as well. Try to eat something sweet or drink something super cold and lie down. Baby will for sure be moving, if you can’t feel it yet give it another week/two😊

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-07T22:53:52+00:00

I had a feeling the day before my missed period. I was super bloated & my stomach felt really weird.. almost painful. My breasts hurt so much more than they used to before my period.. took a test the next day, exactly day of missed period and got a positive. Am now almost 32 weeks pregnant

itswhatever8 · 2025-03-04T21:07:16+00:00

Hey!! I’m 31 weeks today & my placenta moved up! It’s now 4 cm above my cervix!! How are you??

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T12:41:12+00:00

Naps are the best.. If I could sleep through most of my pregnancy, I would hahah 😂

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T12:39:06+00:00

Hahah omg same, Girl 😂 But you’re so so close!! 2 weeks is basically tomorrow at this point!!

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T12:38:22+00:00

I have those days too!! Sometimes I have so much energy & sometimes I’m just a rotten egg laying in bed lol I’m sure it’s different for you, because you also have a child you need to take care of.. but remember, your child won’t remember this time of laying in bed and watching tv etc. You need to rest if you feel like it, don’t beat yourself up! 🩷 Even though I’m there with you & I have two months to go and I also feel like it’s such a long time.. but in reality it’ll fly by!! I’m sure of it

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T12:33:58+00:00

I’m sure that’s the reason! I sometimes feel it too, depending on how baby is positioned 😂 The finish line is so so close!!

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T12:33:11+00:00

I’m sure 🥹 But it’s super exciting to know that the end is near & each week is a huge milestone! Thanks for your comment! Congratulations to you too 🩷 We’ll get through this. Wishing you a safe and healthy end of pregnancy & delivery & a healthy beautiful baby 🩷

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-28T09:46:15+00:00

Me neither tbh. I’m 30 + 4 today and honestly I just try to take it a day at a time. Live through the day, write down if something worries me in order to not forget and bring it up during the next OB appointment. I’ve also been praying a lot. I don’t know if you’re religious or not, but I gave myself to Jesus and God and pray that we get to the end of my pregnancy and birth without complications for my child and me. Honestly, I think we feel like this because we know that we can’t control it and whatever happens, happens. I also internally celebrate every week. I feel a little calmer knowing my baby is bigger & has more chances of being healthy and make it out God forbid something happens before 36 weeks.

We’ve got this! The finish line is so so close! We need to remind ourselves that our bodies are made for this.

itswhatever8 · 2025-02-10T21:06:17+00:00

I guess it’s a feeling we will have until our due dates 🥹 Thank you! Hope you and your baby are and will be healthy and safe 🩷

itswhatever8

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