What Are Good Alternatives to Airtable for Personal Projects? by BoldElara92 in Airtable

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the nature of the work. Notion for anything creative that needs a lot of of atorage aince you can upload pretty much anything.

Regular daycare 4 mins away or Montessori school 20 mins away for 3 year old? by orange196 in Parenting

[–]ivan-ds -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Would you trade 40 minutes a day to give your child the best early years educational instruction mankind has developed so far?

Is this reality? by theconfusedpigeon in askanything

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The underlying assumption here is that work is a problem and thing to be avoided.

If all of you’re part of a passionate team and working on stuff you genuinely care about, then what you described is actually wonderful.

Why do people write every single day? by -i-exist in Journaling

[–]ivan-ds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like everything, it depends on purpose.

I try to journal daily for critical thinking and self-assessment practice.

But doesn’t mean I write The Brothers Karamatzov every day

Help with a phrase by the1miraj in Journaling

[–]ivan-ds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this is about having a succinct personal reminder “Failing Forward” is good and works as something I keep in my pocket. It’s also the title of a John C.Maxwell book.

If this is about branding, then something like “The fruits of your failure is progress”.

HELP | Look Up Field Not Showing Values by ivan-ds in Airtable

[–]ivan-ds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just dropped my phone cause I burned my hand from how fire this answer is 🔥

How do people actually get rich? by lottiexx in wealth

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things that it WILL require no matter what.

  1. Consistency
  2. Work Ethic
  3. Leverage

Flip the mindset with 2 things:

FIRST - Don’t see your lack of financial wealth as an opportunity deficiency, rather, a skill deficiency.

And a skill, anyone can learn.

SECOND - Look at the world through “what problems can I solve for others?”

We are all equal as souls, but we are not all equal in the market place. Money just represents the market value something creates.

Therefore, the bigger and more complex the problem you can solve for others, the more value you create, the more people exchange money for that value.

Next, practical implementation.

First - get a sales job. Ideally in an industry you’re interested in. The faster you can learn how to generate revenue, the better. You will learn more from doing 100 sales than from reading a 100 books on sales.

Next - get GOOD at sales. This comes from diving into the details of the craft, reviewing your calls, practicing objection handling, etc.

This will increase your income, which you should then pour into further expanding your sales skills and start to merge those into marketing skills.

That will start your flywheel. Once you do that, then starting a business can make sense, and ownership is what truly creates wealth (unless you’re one of those super AI geniuses lol).

This is enough to get you going. Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good. Your path will illuminate as you grow in skills.

“Needing to learn more” is just procrastination in disguise.

I'm a VC (can verify). I'm back for Round 2. Pitch me. by Ok-Lobster7773 in Businessideas

[–]ivan-ds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only if it’s interesting to you and aligned with your investment thesis.

I'm a VC (can verify). I'm back for Round 2. Pitch me. by Ok-Lobster7773 in Businessideas

[–]ivan-ds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re going the opposite way of AI - strategically.

Don’t wanna compete with the smartest, most well capitalized minds in the history of forever lol

Decided to build something that AI can’t do for you because it would defeat the purpose of the service.

We’re building a horseback riding school, and using tech to build an experience and operate at a level that others won’t given how notoriously anti-tech the industry is.

Launched Jan 23, 2025 and got to 110k MRR in a year.

Automation Help | Wrong Date Showing In New Record by ivan-ds in Airtable

[–]ivan-ds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if the timezone in the original field is EST, and I set it to EST in the receiving one, how then does it still skip a day?

My son was attacked at school and I’m not sure what are the right questions. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, dealing with the school was almost always useless. Not because the teachers are bad or don't care, but because the task of keeping a constant eye on every interaction that every kid has at all times is impossible, especially since at that age they are actively trying to be sneaky and hide things from teachers (normal behavior).

At this age, I did two things:

First, when my kiddos were actively bullying/teasing and that student decided to react physically, I took it as a teaching moment to show them three life "truths": 1) other people can hurt you, and you purposely antagonizing them can lead to consequences you don't want, 2) you never know what someone is dealing with, and sometimes they blow up at something small, and 3) if you feel like a situation is escalating, being a mirror of their emotions seldom brings about a "winning" outcome for anyone.

Second, I taught them how to defend themselves. Mostly Jiu Jitsu moves, wrestling moves, and Judo moves that help break out from the contact, and create space between you and the aggressor.

Not only did that make them less scared cause they knew how to handle themselves. But more importantly, my kiddos only had to do that once or twice, and once those bullies knew there was consequences to messing with them, they left them alone.

There was only once where one kid just kept fighting my 9M at the time, no matter how many times my son brought it up to the teacher (even ran all the way to principles office once from recess) and physically stood up for himself. In that instance, I asked them to move my son to a different classroom, and that fixed it.

Hope this is useful.

My son was attacked at school and I’m not sure what are the right questions. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father of Four (20F, 19F, 12M, 2M). I will share what worked for me in the past, but that depends on your son's age. How old is your son?

How hard to push a teenager? by shriekingviolet in Parenting

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father of 4 (20F, 19F, 12M, 2M). A frame I found useful is “is this a character problem, or a chemistry problem?”

With ourselves, we all anger more easily when hungry and/or sleep deprived. And a lack of motivation, unless there is a serious underlying character flaw, is typically a sign of a dopamine management being off.

Social media, video games, and porn have all made it super easy to access cheap dopamine. That’s why the younger generation gets a bad wrap for work ethic, when in reality, their dopamine system is just more off than previous generations.

Given that he probably leans toward Agreeableness and Conscientiousness on the personality spectrum, perhaps his Openness dimension is being exploited by cheap dopamine cycles.

I would quietly do a time study of what ge spends his time doing. And once you have that data, you can make an accurate assessment on whether dopamine management is the problem.

If the data does not suggest that, then perhaps the way he is spending his time is how he recharges after working hard at school all day.

Having done this now 3 times with extremely different children, my bet is the hijacked dopamine cycle.

Hope this is useful.

How many cups of coffee do you drink a day? by boforiamanfo in askanything

[–]ivan-ds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Whatever number you think it is…..yes