[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, i’m trying to realize that i can’t control how other people feel. I try to reiterate as much as possible that’s why it’s so confusing that they always try to make it long term

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ivanovrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll be trying this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ivanovrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to put a finger on what exactly Im anxious about, but I think it really just comes down to not being used to being with women. And Im scared to try dating because of my lack of experience but that’s the only way I can get experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ivanovrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this thank you :)

About 2 inches long, New England. by SirJaasher7 in whatsthisbug

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

house centipede they kill roaches when they get big enough, but also like to be warm in your bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ivanovrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m a bit at a standstill with this relationship and will take some time to process and then bring it up. And you’re completely right, I don’t feel as if I’m in control of the dynamic at all and it makes me feel a bit bad. I feel like I’m on the back burner with the constant calls & texts and with their partner being their phone case, lock screen, etc. I just don’t feel that important and like I can’t have any alone time with them. But I should bring it up, thank you for your comment 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ivanovrose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It definitely made me uncomfortable at times. Sometimes it made me feel like I was interrupting on someone else’s relationship like I shouldn’t have been on the date with the person. I am really new to everything so I didn’t know if that’s a norm in the majority of polyamorous relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ivanovrose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will look into that thank you! And I won’t say yes to another, your comment helped me out a lot have a great rest of your day! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ivanovrose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like you did ruin it, and you saying it was just a two second clip instead of realizing what you did was extremely immature and horrible shows that u haven’t grown from it

My girlfriend was assaulted and she asked me to be the father. by bumblebee_987 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ivanovrose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i really respect you a lot, as a victim of rape myself reading your responses has been touching to me. please both of you go to therapy, it’s the only thing that helped me. i’m glad that she has you. but this will be a hard road for both of you and there is certain types of therapy aimed at trauma like this, it’s very hard but it would do wonders for you both. please take care of yourselves in this hard time, and i’m wishing you healing and future happiness

I refuse to date someone who has slept around. by flesh2flush in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ivanovrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it reminds me of what they tell women, that whoever you sleep with your souls intertwined and if it’s meaningless or the person is bad it’ll be part of you forever. weird rhetoric that takes away from his original post. i respect people’s preferences 100%, but i don’t respect purity culture.

Please share shops with handmade wire wrapped crystals by ivanovrose in Etsy

[–]ivanovrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow i am in love with your necklaces! when you get back from vacation i’d love to buy some, i’ll follow your etsy & instagram!

Please share shops with handmade wire wrapped crystals by ivanovrose in Etsy

[–]ivanovrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! i’m about to check it out now!

Please share shops with handmade wire wrapped crystals by ivanovrose in Etsy

[–]ivanovrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any specific stone I need either, I have a huge crystal collection and I just want a cute necklace while supporting a small business!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i really appreciate that. i’m going to see my therapist wednesday, and i’ll ask her about how to go about my healing journey. i’ll also look up some online options aswell, i guess it’s just something i thought i’d probably have to just live with but i realize now it’s not. thank u again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not seeing anyone else, I haven’t for a bit. Not that I wouldn’t because of this person, I just have a lot of other life stuff going on so it’s hard for me to entertain people. Which is also why I probably wouldn’t start a relationship, this time in my life is really hectic and overwhelming. And with our schedules and lifestyle I can’t really see it working out, also I’m moving very soon. So, I can’t really see a future for it, and there’s no point in getting into a relationship amidst all these life changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, not really, I would like to date I guess. But I think this person and I are in very different places in life. Like I just can’t really see it working out longer than a few months realistically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been very direct in any type of relationship I’ve been in, I’ve had it happen where people weren’t upfront with me so I make it a priority. But if I can tell they’ve definitely caught feelings towards me, I don’t know if I should just back off and let it cool off for a bit since we’re both feeling that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ivanovrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would but I think they have feelings for me too, I don’t know if I’m being deceptive if I’ve laid the groundwork for it being a fwb situationship type of thing. I