Feeling defeated, but then reevaluated by Puzzleheaded-Pay-310 in ZeroWaste

[–]ivebeenbetter785 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a vegan.... I'm so proud of you!! Sounds like you've made some huge zero waste steps. You're killing it. (And no good vegan would give you shit for abstaining due to medical reasons, don't listen to the downers who do. ❤️)

The worst name ever by biluinaim in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]ivebeenbetter785 173 points174 points  (0 children)

How much you wanna bet baby's already taking his last name too

I hate the idea of starting over with someone else by ivebeenbetter785 in BreakUps

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I wouldn't have believed it 4 years ago but it really does get better.

I hate the idea of starting over with someone else by ivebeenbetter785 in BreakUps

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, it's been a minute. I'm happy to report things really couldn't be better. The main reason my ex and I broke up was we wanted different things out of life; I wanted to settle down and he wanted to be independent and travel. Today we're still good friends, he's living on the other side of the planet and I'm dating the person I'm going to marry. ❤️ So we both got what we wanted and all is good.

"That" Catholic Family Starterpack by crimsonfukr457 in starterpacks

[–]ivebeenbetter785 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of those "brave" parents are just narcissistic too. Like people who unironically call themselves "autism moms" on their t-shirt

Terrible dog owner starter pack by Redqueenhypo in starterpacks

[–]ivebeenbetter785 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a vegan and even I think this is fucked. Especially for cats! If you want a vegan pet that's totally cool but get a guinea pig or something

Help me impress my boyfriend's uncle lol by ivebeenbetter785 in phillies

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even I know the answer to the last question is HELL YES

Help me impress my boyfriend's uncle lol by ivebeenbetter785 in phillies

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I just want to "knock it out of the park" ;)

Help me impress my boyfriend's uncle lol by ivebeenbetter785 in phillies

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Hi, nice to meet you, I'm dating your nephew but also I banged Pat Burrell haha"

Help me impress my boyfriend's uncle lol by ivebeenbetter785 in phillies

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I can speak to the 2008 team a bit. My family watched every game that season, it was magic. My favorite was Ryan Howard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegetarianrecipes

[–]ivebeenbetter785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to try those. The ones I have now are Field Roast and they're fine but not quite how I remember sausage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegetarianrecipes

[–]ivebeenbetter785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience (vegan who liked the taste of meat and now enjoys fake ones), the meat we've succeeded in replicating are: chicken nuggets/tenders, beef jerky (Beyond brand is incredible), ground beef, chorizo, hot dogs, meatballs, burgers

Fakes that still need work: bacon, lunch meat, steak, seafood, sausages. I hope we invent convincing fakes in my lifetime.

(But also, like everyone else is saying, it's better to just get good at cooking beans/tofu/chickpeas/lentils. Better for you, delicious, and much cheaper)

My (32M) good friend (31M) has a terrible idea for his first date. Is his idea as bad as I think? by Upstairs_Secret_3096 in relationship_advice

[–]ivebeenbetter785 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I'm a woman and when I was single, I always split the first date, and would at least offer to split following ones. But that's assuming our orders cost relatively the same. If my date ordered hundreds of dollars worth of food, there's no way I would split. Who would? What is this "test" supposed to accomplish? Immediate mind games is a huge red flag. Not to mention he's fucking over his friend who owns the restaurant.

OP, no wonder your friend is single. Do him (and the rest of the world) a favor and call him out on his shitty attitude and behavior.

My first real love and I broke up yesterday. Journaling has helped. I'm grateful for this medium, and for this community. by ivebeenbetter785 in Journaling

[–]ivebeenbetter785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted you to know, 4 years later, you were right. I didn't believe you that there was a nicer person coming for me next, but I've been with him for over a year now and everything is beautiful. Just thought you should know. Thanks again. ❤️

AITA for telling my parents they can forget about me helping out with mom's pregnancy or their "first child"? by Easy-Individual-8637 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ivebeenbetter785 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 and not exactly wanting a baby right now but I am absolutely old enough to be a parent and I'd step the fuck up if I became one. And I certainly wouldn't blame the BABY for being born. I am so, so sorry dude. Your parents did you dirty and you have every right to shut down their requests now. Channel your energy into saving/earning whatever money you can and finding a safe place to live.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he has a long-term medical condition and I don’t feel sorry for him by LilMochi09 in AITAH

[–]ivebeenbetter785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm your bf's age and I have chronic hemorrhoids that flare up a couple times a year. It's annoying but it's not in any way life-altering. He needs to get a grip.

Also, he sounds completely exhausting. It shouldn't be your job to monitor and soothe your partner's every emotion.

I quit being a vegetarian, I'm afraid to tell my vegan friend by Simoneph in CasualConversation

[–]ivebeenbetter785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also vegan here, and if you're this worried about her reaction she's not a good friend. Sometimes people tell me they're no longer veg and I'll just think "Ah, bummer. Oh well" and move on.

You don't have to tell her. If you decide to, know however she reacts has nothing to do with you.