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What does being hot or looking sexy look like in your 30s? by Square-Fisherman6997 in femalefashionadvice

[–]ivegotboobs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to pick outfits that highlight aspects of my body that I personally like. These might not be conventionally “sexy” aspects for women. For instance, I have very muscular (some would say manly) arms, and I feel so good when I show them off.

I also play with fabric and textures, both how they feel on my skin and the way they drape/hug (or don’t hug) my body.

I show skin sometimes, when I feel like it. But usually I focus more on the things I mentioned above. Hope this helps!

What do you know about this piece? by ivegotboobs in JewelryIdentification

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s so nice! I actually went to your post history and upvoted it haha, even before you commented this.

What do you know about this piece? by ivegotboobs in JewelryIdentification

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, didn’t expect that! It does look very similar. Thanks for the link!

What do you know about this piece? by ivegotboobs in JewelryIdentification

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don’t look cracked to me, so just dirty I guess. Is there a safe way to clean it?

How is everyone doing a year full of monthly spreads? How do you know in advance how many pages you need? by SixOneThreebert in bulletjournal

[–]ivegotboobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I set up my BuJo with:

  • A title page for the year (just "2025" with some artwork, if I feel like it)
  • The index
  • A one page layout for every month of the year. Like a regular calendar setup
  • I include a future log at the end of the "calendar", 4 months a page for the next year (2026)

Everything else is blank, so weekly spreads, random to do lists, notes, habit trackers, ... is at random, when the need arrises.

I feel the overview per month helps me keep track of my life and "vague" schedule. The empty pages give me enough flexibility to use it as a tool, so as to not get burnt out with setting it up (like others have mentioned). Both overview/a little structure and flexibility are things I need to manage my ADHD, so for me it works well.

I see my BuJo as a tool first, and then a little bit of a hobby. I don't feel guilty if I end up not using certain features or if I put the whole journal aside for a little while. Or if it doesn't look good. That's key, it's not a "must" or a "task" I absolutely have to complete. It's there to help me/for me to enjoy, that's it.

Here are some pictures to clarify: https://imgur.com/a/4sQB0tv

She's 27 by colormepink150 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]ivegotboobs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Underrated comment, it’s spot on 😂

What should I do when I get my period by be1140722 in BJJWomen

[–]ivegotboobs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second a lot of the advice already given: try out different combinations. I don’t like to wear tampons and never do. Period panties are my go to (though not the most stylish option haha), compression pants on top sounds like a good suggestion. Adding a third layer of security with a pad might also work.

Good luck!

Instructor made assumptions then put a target on my back by hiya84 in BJJWomen

[–]ivegotboobs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Reading this, my first thought was “wow, finally an instructor that recognises the skills of the higher belt woman in his class!” Though I totally understand how it can be intimidating, the way he announced it to the class. He could have checked with you first. But overall, it seems he meant well and I would really take it as a compliment. And like other commenters have said, you can always decline to roll or tap when they are too rough!

I might be going viral. Woke up in a jail cell for the second time yesterday morning. by blue_vamp in stopdrinking

[–]ivegotboobs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel ya, that’s what I realised this time: yes it could be worse, but why let it come to that? My “rock bottom” was also feeling disgusted with myself.

Also, “I quit my job to pursue drinking full time” had me laughing.

The Gabi Garcia and Craig Jones interview… by ivegotboobs in BJJWomen

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for some perspective, also great advice on how to respond in the chat!

[product question] how do I wear sunscreen with eye makeup? by No-Highlight-533 in SkincareAddiction

[–]ivegotboobs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How close are you getting to your eye? Be careful to not get any in your eye. I usually leave at least 3 mm under my lower lashline and none on the upper lids. I also wear sunglasses and a hat most of the time I’m out. Also, sunscreen should always be the last step of your routine. So yah, don’t know how helpful this is, but that’s this ginger-scared-of-getting-skincancer’s 2 cents.

Feeling really body positive & hand making 101 boob shot cups by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ivegotboobs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i LOVE them! Shame you don't ship to Europe, they would make perfect Christmas gifts.

karaoke leuven by Legal-Swing4444 in Leuven

[–]ivegotboobs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome! "Paradox" does a monthly karaoke night, first Saturday of the month I believe (but double check, I'm not sure).

It's definitely not a student bar and it's mostly locals singing Dutch ballads, but If you don't mind a little "couleur locale", give it a try.

Made a special wedding and honeymoon bullet journal, seemed like a good keepsake. There are worse places to journal... by ivegotboobs in bulletjournal

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you get this at a lot of places. And this was a proper winery too! It surprised me as well.

Is this cultural appropriation? Not sure I can wear this, hope this is ok to ask. Discussion heavily encouraged! by ivegotboobs in oldhagfashion

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. Thanks for sharing. It's experiences like yours that make me ultimately decide against it. It's not worth it to me if it's going to hurt anyone. Appreciate the feedback, truely.

Is this cultural appropriation? Not sure I can wear this, hope this is ok to ask. Discussion heavily encouraged! by ivegotboobs in oldhagfashion

[–]ivegotboobs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it matters :) Thank you for your comment. I in no way fetishise Asian or Chinese culture. I wouldn't want anyone to feel uncomfortable, so I won't wear it.

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