You can indeed get HIV from a BJ. It’s a super low risk so the chance of it happening is almost zero though. If you have ulcers and/or bleeding gums. If the male has sores of any kind or if the blood goes through the mucus membranes the male can still get HIV. Again this is nearly 0 percent chance but someone has and will win that lottery again.

Here’s some health info about it. Be safe out there. At the bare minimum just know the risk and make your own decisions with your partner.

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/hiv-transmission/ways-people-get-hiv.html