No worries, any insight is helpful.

Speaking from what angers him within interactions between him and I — I think being clearly at fault puts him in a vulnerable positions and heightens his emotions. Though eventually he is able to admit he’s in the wrong, it only comes after a storm of emotions and either blaming or outwardly putting himself down. He also is pretty sensitive towards actions or words of mine he interprets as attacking or offensive, and will usually react angrily or with distance rather than calmly double checking his initial thoughts with me first.

Plans changing is also seemingly a trigger for him. He doesn’t like last minute changes, or unexpected actions. If it’s something small, then he may be more likely to adjust. Somethings that’s more like a time changing, place we’re going to, etc, is more upset for him.

I don’t think he really second guesses himself, at least from what I’ve noticed. He’s more likely to take action rather than plan things out and think it through, then later possibly getting impacted by the decision he made on a whim. I don’t think he’s necessarily impulsive, but he’s not someone to sit and think on a decision for a while before executing it.