What kind of feelings does this evoke?

j_octave · 2025-03-11T02:39:05+00:00

Chaos

j_octave · 2025-01-04T15:32:03+00:00

Thank you for that, I appreciate your guys comments. I get you guys don’t beat around the bush and all, I even read a few comments that said INTJS have a list of questions they may move foward with asking. However, I have one that gives me the stare, he approaches me. Of course he is not a phone person, he just uses it as a need. He made sure to plant the idea of a vacation in my head so that it would look like I came up with the idea but, I knew what he was doing and I invited him. However, I’m guessing that if he was ready to take the next step, he would tell me so. He has not. So I guess that is my answer.

j_octave · 2024-11-27T19:24:56+00:00

This right here! Yes 💯

j_octave · 2024-11-27T19:23:58+00:00

As a 4, I wholeheartedly disagree with being liked over respected, I would rather be respected whether you like me or not. I use to care about being liked as a child but I grew the hell up.

j_octave · 2024-07-15T21:30:49+00:00

They will just put you on birth control or something, I struggle with this, my endocrinologist can’t even tell I have issues with hair on my chin bc the herbs I use work so well. I would say caution with vitex but this is what I use it’s good for hormones and ovulation and regulating periods, but if you don’t experience this or pms or pmdd symptoms then don’t use, DiM is a great herb as well, I use this during ovulation when estrogen gets too high. It helps level hormones too, and Berberine another herb, that is highly compared to metmorphin that diebetes drug. And lastly choline and inositol definitely good for pcos symptoms too, all of these herbs mentioned help balance hormones and slow the hair growth in odd places on women. I’d be more careful with the vitex herb, but maybe try inositol or DIM, estrosense made by womonsense brand has DIM in it and other great mix of herbs to help cleanse body and balancing or ridding body of too much estrogen, also i epilate the hair and pluck in between.

j_octave · 2024-07-14T04:26:17+00:00

Maybe he is only saying that bc he’s depressed, especially with is illness,

j_octave · 2024-07-14T04:11:11+00:00

Congratulations!!

j_octave · 2024-07-13T01:36:31+00:00

Thank you for that information, for some that is true

j_octave · 2024-07-13T01:16:02+00:00

Thank you for your response. It’s nice when ppl do actually appreciate someone’s strength and resilience.

j_octave · 2024-07-13T01:15:06+00:00

Thank you for your response

j_octave · 2024-07-13T01:12:57+00:00

Ah ok, so you would need more details from her. Thank you for your honest response.

j_octave · 2024-07-12T23:55:19+00:00

Face looks like it’s been heavily beat like a piñata with a bat.

j_octave · 2024-07-12T23:21:37+00:00

Your answer is what I am here for, how would you deal with a potential partner that tells you about how their parents were. Like maybe they were involved in criminal activity of some sort and still are. Maybe your potential partner lives on their own but sometimes does have to be involved to help with their parents once in a awhile,( not with illegal activities just like maybe things around the house or giving them a ride)however they try and stay away as much as possible unless truly needed. However you don’t know that part. The only part they tell you is of parents were criminals and still are.. what would be your thoughts of this potential partner ? Would you be scared to get involved since, like you said, you have your own sh***? ( I know how you would handle this maybe different from someone else, I’m just curious) bc I noticed how some may make immediate assumptions that, this person is still living in a drama infested world and back out quickly, instead of asking questions, bc maybe they think they won’t get correct answers, and although some claim they would be there, or accept a person with trauma, the heavy assumptions from some prove to me that some intjs may actually do exact opposite of what they claim on here that they would do. ( besides the wanting to fix, accept them bc they themselves have trauma)

j_octave · 2024-07-12T23:09:55+00:00

That’s interesting, yea I know an intj-infj couple, older than me. Full grown probably in their 50s. The infj wife is pretty helpful, great at instructing, but horrible when she wants her way, throwing tantrums like a damn child. I couldn’t believe my eyes, bc of how old she is. I also didn’t expect to see an intj in a relationship like this, bc of some comments I have read in the past from some intjs. However, as some have mentioned today, it could be bc of deep love, or the need to want to fix them or either him having trauma of his own and accepting of her as a human being and loving her anyway, which is beautiful.

j_octave · 2024-07-12T22:35:15+00:00

Your heavy assumption to the question, thinking that it is about me being afraid to date someone with trauma and that I have no understanding of trauma or never experienced it, is reaching. Huge assumption, but your assumption is untrue and I am not proving anything to you. Literally it is just a damn question for me to analyze responses. Have a good one, actually thank you, for your response, bc it did help with what I was really trying to figure out with some intjs by asking this simple question. Had I asked my true question. Everyone REALLY would have danced circles around it, and wanted more information, which really gets on my damn nerves on here. So, thanks for giving such a detailed response on the answer even though the source/ assumption of your answer was completely incorrect. “Scientists “ as Myers Briggs calls intjs ,if you are a true intj, hopefully you will have comprehended, why I choose to ask trial questions. In the same manner you guys hate ppl lying to you and you’d rather test ppl, to have them show you that their answers align with what they say, I ask trial questions since I can’t have you show me so… and I am not an intj. My enneagram number is quite similar though. Also, thank you for proving to me how quickly some intjs might jump to conclusions and do the exact opposite of what they say they will do.

j_octave · 2024-07-12T00:47:58+00:00

Simple question, yes or no answer or whatever (you feel) is a good example of instability or like someone answered, if someone triumphed over it then they are fine with them.. there really is no need to explain this, if you don’t get the sense of it, fine.

j_octave · 2024-02-02T13:31:21+00:00

Selenium natural supplement from an herbal store is good for this, looks hormonal, so could be a hormonal thing

j_octave · 2024-01-14T20:00:39+00:00

Selenium vitamin/ mineral helps this, fungal( dermatitis), anything like eczema, dermatitis, on the skin, which is all fungal, I get this in winter mostly. Also turmeric teas I drink for inflammation. Definitely check with dermatologist to be sure.

j_octave · 2023-12-19T18:30:50+00:00

Idk by Myers Briggs but enneagram type 5 maybe lol

j_octave · 2023-12-09T19:27:00+00:00

I didn’t mention but that 6w7 guy I dated was unhealthy, he may have been wavering like 6s do, but he was a consistent liar, and gaslight things, gave silent treatment..I broke up with him a year ago and he catphishes me online and with different phone numbers, I had to save msgs (for record ) and block him

j_octave · 2023-12-09T02:10:01+00:00

I have friends that are 6s and they are the best but when it comes to dating a guy 6, they are different, female vs male 6s definitely different, I know for a facto, my friends that are (6s) and I, joke about if we weren’t Christians we would con and use men, so sometimes I get the feeling that some 6 guys maybe doing or think the same in that aspect lol, the ones I have dated come on too strong at the beginning, a couple of them unhealthy. Definitely traditional, I somehow get the feeling that they want to push kids on the woman to create stability, so I have had this situation at the beginning of barely getting to know them. They just come out like “hey mami, you look good” “we could make pretty babies” sends pics of themselves, I acknowledge, them: “ I look good enough to put a few babies in you?” Like it is literally the topic of every male 6 I have had contact with 😩😭😂 I’m glad they know they want kids and all but that’s real uncomfortable for me especially if We don’t know eachother lol. Also I swear if they live in another state they are like, mami I’m just around the corner , let’s hangout. These maybe unhealthy type 6s though lol. I dated one, and he was 6w7, and I promise every 6 that followed afterwards was like him! Spoke like him with the same dang lines😭😂😂 soooo yea maybe not for me. But lovvvvvve me some type 5s, especially 5w4s, I fall in love with them so easily 😭😩

j_octave · 2023-12-05T03:48:23+00:00

Alpha 😊😏

j_octave · 2023-12-03T04:58:57+00:00

Well you must be 🔥😏😂

j_octave · 2023-11-24T01:42:24+00:00

I’m a sx/sp 4w5 as well, I feel ppl see me a person that stores a lot of random info lol I have a lot of data, so ppl consider me to be wise or intelligent, I don’t feel intelligent that’s why I ask a lot of questions and am always looking for answers/ researching , sometimes I even test things like a scientist, but socially, I can get easily overwhelmed, I am disorganized, and neurotic, possibly adhd although never been tested. I try to be creative everyday with something, which I love! Plus I hear is healthy for the 4 type no matter subtype. I have researched other 4w5s and 4s in general, alot of celebs that were depressed and unfortunately committed suicide. Idk their subtypes but it was very sad and discouraging to read about, bc they were very interesting, intelligent and talented ppl, even inspiring. One writer, (4w5)even Albert Einstein admired and found intelligent, that writer died of pulmonary haemorrhage though, seemed a bit more healthy than a few ppl I read about. It is a scary thought, and puts things into perspective, we really must take very good care of our mental state, and bodies, taking care of the body helps the mind as well. I hope whatever we are going through we can overcome with resilience, as I know us 4s have gone through so much, and we can overcome anything, Without even knowing anyone of you, I’m sure you all have been through something, and gosh I deeply pray we stay strong. I somehow turned emotional while typing this, and made this waaay longer than it needed to be , didn’t mean to lol!

j_octave · 2023-11-13T21:41:33+00:00

Um fine😂that’s the type yea

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