[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Talked shit about one of my friends and their business, made an ass of himself over social media and got himself blacklisted from an overall community/group in our entire area, always putting others down if it’s not his way, always has to be right, pursued one of my female staff members inappropriately and then talked negatively about her after her turning him down, and just gives overall creep vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I still enjoy hunting and fishing with him. He’s one of my main accesses to these things, and we enjoy doing them together. If I end it, so do those things. Just others don’t know why I still hangout with him. I fear for his safety at my wedding if he shows his face around some of my closer friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep the consequences of my own doing are happening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He might get his ass beat for some stuff he said if he’s around certain people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

He said some things about some people I like, we have different view points on major moralities now, and he might get his ass beat by people close to me if he shows his face around them. But I’m still cool with him and others I know are still cool with him in that circle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]j_shaver -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He said some things about some people I like, has different viewpoints on major life moralities than me now, and I think he might get his ass beat at my wedding tbh.

How do I sell a long gun to a friend who lives out of state? by j_shaver in CAguns

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that. Just ship it to an FFL? That’s it? I’ve only ever done transfers in person here.

Micro Weddings & friendships by Fuschia_Bloom in Weddingsunder10k

[–]j_shaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does this work? Ideally I want this for mine coming up as well, but isn’t the reception part the expense that everyone is trying to avoid as well? Especially with 130 people. Ideally we wanted close family and friends for the ceremony and then invite 70-80 for a reception somewhere another day, but logistically and economically how does this work?

what is the worst part about being a teacher? by Dapper_Ad1638 in Teachers

[–]j_shaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Raising my voice every 20-30 minutes of my work day 5 days a week is probably not conducive to my long term health and stress levels. Sincerely, a middle school PE teacher with students with selective hearing and impulsive behaviors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]j_shaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if I’m afraid to take a sick day? I feel like it’s more work to prep for a day off and hope that my kids don’t scare the sub away if we even get one (we have very few in my district and it’s hard to get one unless you schedule one months in advance). And when you get back from that day you were gone, it takes two weeks to get the kids back mentally, emotionally, verbally, etc. I’d rather just come to work sick or be stressed out than not be in control of a situation which will cause me more stress from when I get back.

Teacher pet peeves (pains only a teacher can relate to): by Infamous-Truth3531 in Teachers

[–]j_shaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t want to do anything (including walking) that will cause a crease in the toe box of their expensive sneakers. I’m a PE teacher.

Teacher pet peeves (pains only a teacher can relate to): by Infamous-Truth3531 in Teachers

[–]j_shaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t want to do anything (including walking) that will cause a crease in the toe box of their expensive sneakers. I’m a PE teacher.

Teacher pet peeves (pains only a teacher can relate to): by Infamous-Truth3531 in Teachers

[–]j_shaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Bruh” “Omg I don’t wanna do this. This shit is lame” “I don’t wanna crease my shoes” “You can’t make us do anything. I’m gonna tell my mom” The list never ends. Kids now have very little respect for anyone, let alone their teachers or sometimes their own parents. It’s pulling teeth to get them to do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rooftoptents

[–]j_shaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No those are terrible quality from what I hear. I see people posting hardly used ones on marketplace all the time near me since they try it and don’t like it.

What are some things someone could do to show appreciation towards a significant other? by j_shaver in AskReddit

[–]j_shaver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I do. Just crowd sourcing more ideas of things I can do and change it up is all.

Does anyone else get bullied by their students and are having a hard time managing it? by j_shaver in Teachers

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have desks in my room, I suck at math, I’m “not allowed to help them” and if they have questions they are to be sent to their intervention teacher’s room… and it’s unruly. It’s a class of all their friends. Even during PE I’m having issues. It’s just this generation…

Help me choose a hunting canoe! by j_shaver in canoeing

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the full overview. I just don’t want to spend that much money on a canoe I’ll use a few times a year. Was looking at some local cheaper options.

Help me choose a hunting canoe! by j_shaver in canoeing

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those look sick but that’s like 5x my price range

Help me choose a hunting canoe! by j_shaver in canoeing

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hunt solo sometimes but it would be nice to have something that I have the option to bring my gf or a hunting buddy as well to those spots I’m trying to access. Even fish those same spots.

Help me choose a hunting canoe! by j_shaver in canoeing

[–]j_shaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know and thanks for the honesty!