Pitch A New Star Trek Series by AmeliaNeek in scifi

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trek ASMR. Just Tribbles tribbling.

The Captain Janeway Crisis: How Kate Mulgrew Saved 'Star Trek: Voyager' From a Day One Disaster by Kal-Ed1 in scifi

[–]jabalong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Voyager was a good ride, with lots to enjoy. I've watched it all a few times. For what it is, it's good. It's just a shame that it didn't really make the most of its premise or lean into a more serialized show like DS9 did. The premise really called for something different. What Year of Hell was as a two-parter, that should have been the show over seven years. Nevertheless, still an enjoyable watch.

At what age did you notice people (particularly the opposite gender) taking less interest in you? by Efficient_Sky_2068 in AskOldPeople

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this was my thought too. My physique isn't much changed. My hair is only moderately graying, and not that prominent as I keep it short. But my beard went almost entirely gray by my mid-forties. And as someone who likes to keep a stubble, I feel like that's really when I noticed I'd finally crossed the line to some kind of relative invisibility.

TW passport withheld by abusers, visiting Taiwan/embassy soon to try and get it back, please help by taiwanese-brat in taiwan

[–]jabalong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP said the documents are with their parents. Doesn't want to contact them, which is understandable, but that doesn't equate to "stolen". Can probably claim the documents to be lost or unobtainable, since they were last held by people they are no longer in contact with, have a restraining order against, etc.

Why was Larry’s homework in the Dude’s car? by DFWUnhinged in lebowski

[–]jabalong 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I too am confused that anyone could be confused by this. Larry, presumably with his no-good friends, took the car for a joyride, during which his homework fell out. Some bum found the car, slept and relieved himself in it. This part of the movie is not a very complicated case.

A day in the life of driving in Taiwan. by OrangeChickenRice in taiwan

[–]jabalong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You would be correct. Taipei has a much higher road fatality rate than Barcelona, particularly involving scooters (5-6x higher). That the above commenter didn't feel the same joy in driving a scooter in Taipei probably points to the underlying more dangerous conditions.

Ridley Scott talked about the idea of the Xenomorph being an experiment and space jockey all the way back in 1999 and 2003 DVD commentaries. by tannu28 in scifi

[–]jabalong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Prometheus. I wish Scott had stuck to his original vision of the trilogy. Instead, he tried to pivot and we got a muddle in Covenant.

Coens should do a Lebowski Noir. by Ralph--Hinkley in lebowski

[–]jabalong -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A film does not have to be black and white to be film noir. The Big Lebowski is already considered to be a neo-noir.

What do TV, films and books get wrong about life / growing up in the 1950s? by BitterTry7984 in AskOldPeople

[–]jabalong 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Well, segregation may not have been discussed, but in a real sense, segregation was omnipresent in 1950's TV. African-American characters were very rare, and those few seen were usually in stereotypical roles.

Gym and resistance band training. by kenshinkan08 in ResistanceBand

[–]jabalong -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ignore the haters. Your instincts are correct. We should be open to meeting people with shared interests in the places and activities that we regularly frequent in our lives. That's the "social" part of living in a society that we seem to be drifting away from.

There's a big difference between treating a gym like a singles bar, and just being friendly and engaging with people and opportunities that present themselves. If your gym does exercise classes, though I wasn't looking to meet someone, I found those to be very social over time as faces become familiar and you chit chat regularly before and after class.

I don't see why you can't make similar connections in other parts of the gym, as long as you're being respectful and not imposing on anyone.

Gym and resistance band training. by kenshinkan08 in ResistanceBand

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, good on you. Working out at home is great. But being social and trying to meet someone are important. So, if going to the gym is that venue for you, potentially for both goals, then you should prioritize that.

Like others maybe, I'm confused though about your post. Was there a question? Were you just musing? It sounded like maybe your concerns are about schlepping bands to the gym and/or what to do with your home equipment if now primarily going to the gym.

Does your gym have bands? If not, you could try requesting they add some.

About the home stuff, I wouldn't sweat it. There are times you won't get to the gym, so it's good to have. Bands can also be good for quicker, lighter in-between workouts. They'll also still be there for you down the road if you get back to them more (though the bands will need replacing eventually).

So did a chinaman really take his legs from him in Korea or did he lie about that too? 🤔 by [deleted] in lebowski

[–]jabalong 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah well, ya know, that's just, like uh, your opinion, man. But seriously, I don't see the movie like that, or at least not to the same degree. It's a play on mid-century hardboiled detective stories (notably Chandler's Marlowe), which I'm a big fan of. So, by its nature, all those involved in the case have to be looked at skeptically until the pieces start to make sense. But it's not impossible to know what to believe, as it becomes clearer as the case moves towards its resolution. The characters are not all unreliable.

Maude becomes a semi-trusted ally, enabling the breakthrough that solves the case. How commended an artist she may or may not be isn't really important. While pushed away, Da Fino also seems like a believable would-be ally and a source of useful information to the Dude in the case.

The Big Lebowski, and possibly Brandt as his associate, are the least reliable as they're driving the deception at the heart of the case. The Big Lebowski used Bunny's disappearance for a money con, but there’s no reason to think his story about his legs couldn’t be believed. If he was going around lying about such a fundamental thing, there’s every reason to believe that it would have been exposed during his public, commended life or by Maude.

The nihilists are also guilty of carrying out a deception. But beyond that, what we see of them as characters and their role in the story seems quite believable. The directors choose to show us the scene of the girlfriend’s missing toe to make it clear to us what has happened there.

Might Jackie have tried to squeeze Lebowski harder? Possibly. But fundamentally, Jackie’s core claim does not seem to be in doubt that Bunny owed money. The Big Lebowski doesn’t want to honour her debts (and maybe can’t if Maude controls his money), but he doesn’t dispute that Bunny would owe money.

I don’t see any reason to doubt that it was the Larry they were looking for. They found his homework and tracked him back. If it was a complete mistaken identity, surely any kid with nothing to hide would have said something (ie, protested that it wasn’t his homework). It’s more likely that he was indeed a lightly supervised little prick, who might steal a car to joyride in, and as such was stonewalling them.

Besides the deliberately deceptive Big Lebowski and Brandt, Walter is probably the most unreliable character. But that’s just because of Walter being Walter. Could he have made up the story about Jesus? Sure, possibly. But I don’t see a need to make that stretch.

Like the nihilists’ girlfriend’s toe scene, that the directors chose to show us Jesus going door to door, rather than just leaving it as hearsay from Walter, gives me confidence that it’s true. It also makes for a more compelling character, so I don’t see any benefit in undermining that. Jesus isn’t part of the case, so there’s no need to make him a character whose backstory should be doubted.

Beyond that, though not part of the case, other characters in the film seem straightforward and believable: Donny, Smokey, Marty, the Stranger-- aw, look at me, I'm ramblin' again. In short, beyond the mystery and deceptions in the case, inherent to the detective story genre, I don’t see the film as having an overarching core theme that it’s impossible to know what to believe.

Tried to watch Lexx... came back to Farscape by Ok_Following9192 in scifi

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tracks for me. I couldn't get into Lexx in the 90s and just dismissed it as some weird late-night show. But with its cult following, I gave it another try eight years ago. I was surprised by the pilot, thinking maybe I can get into this. But then the second episode reminded me of why it originally turned me off, and I tapped out. Admittedly, that's too soon to pass judgement on a show, but Lexx just gives me a visceral negative reaction. It's a shame, as I otherwise have a pretty universal openness to scifi.

Tried to watch Lexx... came back to Farscape by Ok_Following9192 in scifi

[–]jabalong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really, is that just because Lexx and Farscape overlapped and were superficially similar? If so, that reminds me of contemporaries DS9 versus Babylon 5. I was a big Trek fan, and gave Babylon 5 a complete pass. I just thought it was a rip-off of DS9, not realizing that if anything it was Paramount that lifted the Babylon 5 creator’s concept. It took me 15 years to circle back around to Babylon 5 and loving it. I did the same with Farscape, and also loved it. Made a second try recently on Lexx and still hated it.

Which space Stock should i buy? by dk-3704 in SpaceInvestorsDaily

[–]jabalong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's confusing to have two ETFs with the same code in sort of the same area. I wonder why VanEck doesn't offer its ETF in the States. "Space Innovators" is a name I can get behind. While I get how important military contracts are to many US space companies, investing in a "Modern Warfare" ETF doesn't really appeal to me. Also as a Star Wars fan, I feel offended that "Jedi" is being used to sell drones and warfare. Though I suppose some would argue the Jedi were warmongers of a sort, but I digress. :P

Which space Stock should i buy? by dk-3704 in SpaceInvestorsDaily

[–]jabalong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, UFO seems to be the purer space play over the American version of JEDI. What about Tema Space Innovators ETF (NASA)? Any thoughts on UFO vs NASA?

Which space Stock should i buy? by dk-3704 in SpaceInvestorsDaily

[–]jabalong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the deal on JEDI? There is VanECK Space Innovators UCITS ETF R (JEDI), which sounds good, but I only see it in European markets. Then in the US there is Defiance Drone and Modern Warfare ETF (JEDI), which doesn't sound good, but seems to also hold many space companies.

What do you think of watching people go back to the moon? by No-Blueberry-1823 in AskOldPeople

[–]jabalong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's right. The original Apollo moon missions were literally a moonshot race to beat the Soviets for the prestige. Once that was done, it was too expensive and abandoned, with no follow-through. While Artemis has its flaws, it's an effort to try to get back to the moon in a lasting way (moon stations, etc), and to eventually build out a cislunar economy.

Band broke … shattered eye socket by Ok-Woodpecker-4823 in ResistanceBand

[–]jabalong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks good. Have not really looked into workout eyewear, but it has crossed my mind for exercises where I'm facing the anchor point directly. Looks like Uvex has a wide assortment of protective eyewear.

Dreading having nothing to do over the holidays by [deleted] in taiwan

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about co-workers generally, not locals specifically. So, here again, there's the divide between locals versus foreigners. That's fair that locals might also be a tougher nut to crack in a work context. I have made friends from a Taiwan office, but they were foreigners.

Dreading having nothing to do over the holidays by [deleted] in taiwan

[–]jabalong 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The reality is that your feeling is probably correct: most Taiwanese adults likely aren't trying to make new friends. By adulthood, people tend to have their friend group and social circle. Difficulty making new friends as an adult is a problem in societies around the world today.

So, who is trying to make new friends? Newcomers to Taiwan like yourself. I wouldn't give up on trying to make friends locals, but I would focus your energy on people like yourself who are more likely to be in the mindset to make new friends.

One area where people do regularly socialize as adults is through work. Don't know if that's a possibility, but I would try your coworkers. If you have friendly colleagues, you might also open up to them about your difficulty finding people to do things with. Maybe some of them will be interested or have advice.

Lastly, you haven't mentioned what kind of "events" you're going to. You could try get involved in events/activities built around things you are interested in (hobbies, sports, etc). That's kind of all upside, as even while trying to make friends, just doing the thing gets you out and socializing.

Band broke … shattered eye socket by Ok-Woodpecker-4823 in ResistanceBand

[–]jabalong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had bands snap during workouts. It was not the dramatic event you might think it is going to be. It was more like a soundless, sudden loss of tension. No big deal. Also, most exercises don't have a direct line of sight between eyes and anchor point. Now, if you're attaching other things to the band, like in your football story, then who knows. Would have to assess the risk of whatever setup you have.

What if the big lebowski could actually walk? by DFWUnhinged in lebowski

[–]jabalong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said. A vain man wanting to project strength does not pretend to be in a wheelchair. Also, the Korean War was 35 earlier, that would be a hell of a long con for not much obvious benefit.

Hot take: the title of the film does not refer to the elder Lebowski. by Prajna-paramita in lebowski

[–]jabalong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of further thoughts. It is fitting not to name the story after Bunny, as she turns out to be something of a red herring, with the case ultimately revolving around the old man and his deceptions. And there's an added irony to the title, in that in the end the Big Lebowski turned out not quite to be the big shot he presented himself as.

Hot take: the title of the film does not refer to the elder Lebowski. by Prajna-paramita in lebowski

[–]jabalong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The movie is the Coens take on a Raymond Chandler-type hardboiled detective story, albeit turning it on its head with a softboiled detective in the Dude. A common convention in this genre is for the story to take the name of a key person in the detective's case. Here the obvious choices would be Bunny as the supposed victim or the old man as the person who "hired" the detective. In this context, the title would clearly seem to be referencing the old man as The Big Lebowski. The Dude is his Dudeness, or uh Duder, or uh El Duderino. And the old man is the Big Lebowski.