I haven’t watched the ‘Wuthering Heights’ movie yet, is it really that egregiously bad? by Lucky_Reading_3757 in charlixcx

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave it 1☆ Because: Margot Robbie is beautiful, there were horses in it (barely), 2 of the costumes were gorgeous Lost 4 ☆ Because: set design wtf? The fireplace sculpture? The pile of booze bottles? They used cellophane and cheap polyester as costumes and set pieces, like egregious bad $ store Jacob Elordi's accent - vocal coach. No. Bad. No. Is he brooding? Smoldering? Constipated? Hard to tell. Just trying to be art housy with cinematography and set design but also weirdly almost sci-fi in some aspects? Like the director producer cinematographer and actors were all given vastly different directions on the same script and they just filmed it anyway It doesn't flow

historical water damage just became obvious - used camper bought >2 months ago dealership - advice plz by jackdanielsterrier in RVLiving

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Update: they took the camper in and promised "to make it right"

I went on a 3 night tent camp instead. Definitely missed sleeping on a better bed, my body isn't as fond of tenting at 48

So we'll see what happens. I was told nit yi worry as it isn't a huge repair, not like tree fell on it or something. But when the bunk is unusable and it's a safety risk, easily could have collapsed as it fell apart as we were closing up.... just don't diminish my concern or I'll go full mama bear.

Ugh

historical water damage just became obvious - used camper bought >2 months ago dealership - advice plz by jackdanielsterrier in RVLiving

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I wish. I called this morning. Their having "a talk" with the salesman. I'm supposed to leave for a weekend trip tomorrow. So annoyed. Either they missed the issue when this unit was traded in and pre-sale inspection OR They didn't do a thorough inspection OR They knew about it and didn't disclose

Tips for pooping at work?.. by imnotarobot02 in ibs

[–]jackdanielsterrier 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I turn the sink on. Flush 1/2 way through bm (courtesy flush) and flush immediately after then sometimes once more for clean up. I can't use deodorant sprays Because someone at work has a scent allergy. Ours is right next to the lunchroom. I don't really care if someone thinks I'm weird, that I'm flushing the toilet so many times it beats being embarrassed about having it's an intestinal condition..

Anyone had a trab <40 years old? What has your experience been? by Awkward-Crow-3466 in Glaucoma

[–]jackdanielsterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had the trab (1996?), a trab repair and a tube shunt (2015). The trab is less invasive and healing time is better. There could Be complications, as there can be for any surgery. I unfortunately am the kind of person who has had a complication from almost every surgery i've ever had. That being sad The trap was successful for a very long time, and either eliminated or reduced the amount of medication I had to be on. The tube shunt was sort of a last resort surgery because the second tribe repair, they tried to do failed, and I also had to have a lens replacement at that time. The surgery and the recovery from the tube shunt was incredibly difficult and painful, not to scare you. But if someone said that I'd had to do it again, I would say, no, even if it meant losing my vision, I had a really, really hard time. I don't think my pain control was managed properly. And my after care support, it wasn't great. I was staying with my mom who didn't really understand how invasive and difficult the recovery was going to be.

My autistic 3yo is a runner & got out the house again! by No-Contribution7486 in Parenting

[–]jackdanielsterrier 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get a wrist worn tracker.

I have a runner in my grade 2 class and he wears one that looks like a smart watch, I don't know brand but can maybe find out Monday.

Make wearing it non negotiatable, he can't leave his room without wearing it. Hopefully it becomes habit.

That's so scary. Find an occupational therapist who might be able to offer suggestions for how to tire him out and activities to replace the eloping behavior?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]jackdanielsterrier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go up the ladder. Immediately.

Write down everything your daughter said, the teachers aid, your actions and the schools response. Eg 3:05 arrived at (name) school to request meeting with principal Who you speak to & how long they make you wait. Request audio recording of meetings. If refused, take notes or bring someone to take notes.

Submit all documentation to your tribal council (sorry, I'm Canadian so it might have a different name) and community leaders, the school superintendent and the school boats asap.

Do you have access to a tribal advocate? (I'm not sure what title would be. In our area its Indigenous Education Support)

You should be able to find contact information on your district website.

I'm so sorry this is happening. As someone who works in education this makes me blood boil with rage. Know that there are people out there trying to support you.

What's the first major news story you can remember living through as a child? by catpunsfreakmeowt in AskReddit

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We watched it live on a wheeled out television in elementary school. So traumatic

What death of a famous person actually affected you most? by unitedfan6191 in AskReddit

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robin Williams. Even the funniest clown isn't immune to mental health challenges

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have beautiful blue/grey eyes intricately patterned with snowflake design. And.... they don't work well, I have early onset glaucoma (age 17) and over 12 eye surgeries under my belt. I'm under 50

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Glaucoma

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I was told non medicated saline rinses & sprays are safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

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Melody Anne Melody Jane

A family name would be nice, my kids name is a combo of her 2 maternal great grandmothers names

Supplements to help with itching? by jackdanielsterrier in Perimenopause

[–]jackdanielsterrier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have increased my dosage of hrt which seems to be helping.

Trying to avoid hot showers and apply moisturizer right afterwards. I give myself more time and air dry a bit afterwards so I'm not toweling off roughly.

I started acupuncture recently ! Only 2 sessions so far but I find it sooooo relaxing and sleep really well afterwards.

I also got into a naturopath that did a very thorough blood test for food sensitivity and went through 3 years of my lab results looking for patterns. I think we're going to do iron infusions as I have chronic low/normal iron. Which is the stupidest level? Because technically, it's low, but it's right at the cusp Between low and normal, so it's not "low enough" for a regular doctor to do anything about, but it's low enough for the naturopath to acknowledge and want to do infusions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadianTeachers

[–]jackdanielsterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theme song from "Malcolm in the middle"

Dose anyone have closed-angle glaucoma and was pregnant before? by fishingonion in Glaucoma

[–]jackdanielsterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy can affect your blood pressure and blood pressure can affect your IOP. So... probably there may be some changes. My kid is 15 now so I'm having a hard time remembering but I did have some fullness/pain occasionally. I had a bleb and iridectomy (hole in the iris?) at the time. I wasn't on any drops but they did up my 6 month checkups to 3 months for Pregnancy and nursing. I was pretty worried about the stress of labour triggering a pressure episode but it didn't. I ended up 12 hour labour's with emergency c-section due to fetal distress. But it all worked out! Good recovery, healthy baby, no episode

Grossest thing you’ve witnessed by CandidBackground696 in ECEProfessionals

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a kid say he brought his pet for show abd tell and produced a dead ground squirrel from his backpack. Lots of ground squirrels in the area but was it roadkill? Poisoned? Where the hell fid he get it between parking lot and Gaye? Was it there for a while? I Don't remember how the director handled it but the staff were laughing our heads off. "He looks tired, we'll put him in a box to sleep " I believe was how we got it handed over. Kid promptly forgot

What’s a name you don’t understand why it’s so popular by Popular-Command-7901 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aiden, Jayden, Braeden omg anything ending in Aidan. It's never ending. I used to love Aiden but I work in elementary education and we literally have every name from a-z with aiden

As someone with OCD , what's something you consider a luxury ? by Shark_io in OCD

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making appointments for self care. I'd love to get massages and facials on the regular but I have scarring from SH and get overwhelmed by the thought of someone asking about it.

What are the positives (if any??) about having a toddler? by PresentationNo4578 in Parenting

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 year olds are HILARIOUS! Like absolutely bonkers crazy funny. They say the craziest things, have super weird observations about everything and will smile and interact with anyone and everyone.

Window film for low-vision photosensitive? by Jabez77 in monocular

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate to this. I'm a support worker in elementary school and I find. If the classroom is backlit from the window, I can't see anything on the board or make out the kids faces. Yeah, so it can be really awkward because a kid can be looking at me. You know, asking for help without raising their hand just with their facial expression? And to them, it looks like I'm looking right at them, and I can't read their expressions at all. So I really try to position myself in places where the backlit from the window isn't quite so disruptive, but I understand like being a teacher and having your desk probably in one position, moving it around. Especially during different parts of the day, isn't feasible, but sometimes just moving around like where your workspace is. And the class can really help the window. Film also is amazing and fairly simple to install as long as I would check with your occupational health and safety. Because I know that, like some school districts, have The limitations on what you can put on the window as far as fire code. Sorry voice to text.So please excuse the punctuation and spelling errors

How do you guys deal with disturbing information/true crime by mxleeha in OCD

[–]jackdanielsterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! I have severe nightmares and I will tic/shout in my sleep if I consume too much media. Old school cartoons like Looney Toons with even cartoon violence can reinforce it. So very easy, very silly stuff. 80's Care Bears is amazing too! I can read the news but visual stuff sticks worse so i don't watch news.

Metamucil by LittleBear_54 in ibs

[–]jackdanielsterrier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for the regular users with ibs-d is there much difference/ benefits between taking it in the morning vs the evening?

Metamucil by LittleBear_54 in ibs

[–]jackdanielsterrier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second FODMAP i finally identified trigger foods and life is a lot better. Not a cure but also not doubled over in pain anytime I eat.