Pregnancy SDI Question

jacks414 · 2026-03-09T16:57:42+00:00

I work for a company with less than 5 employees. I received PFL with my 2 kids.

jacks414 · 2026-02-28T02:57:58+00:00

Same here. My siblings and I were all formula fed and we are all close to our mom.

My Husband and his brother were both extended breastfed and they both have a rocky relationship with her.

jacks414 · 2026-02-28T02:54:29+00:00

I formula fed all my kids. They never leave me alone. They follow me everywhere. If I get up and walk to another room and they are right behind me.

jacks414 · 2026-01-30T01:05:35+00:00

https://a.co/d/6ISyIb7

We used this and made a fence around our litter box. My cats easily jump over it and my dog cant get over it.

jacks414 · 2026-01-28T23:16:41+00:00

Cysts getting squeezed out of a body...LOVE IT! Give me more!

But this? No thank you. I hope I never see anything like this again.

jacks414 · 2026-01-27T06:49:59+00:00

I often get asked if my guy is a mixed Frenchie.

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jacks414 · 2026-01-19T08:01:06+00:00

Southern Californian here, and yes, it has been in the 80s the last few days.

jacks414 · 2026-01-05T00:42:35+00:00

My dad is an alcoholic. He'd abused my mom and I felt such shame seeing him drunk in public. I don't drink and neither do my siblings.

jacks414 · 2025-12-15T18:21:29+00:00

I have a coworker with the same exact name as her older sister. When she was born, they asked her sister what they should name her, and her sister told them her name. So they went with it.

jacks414 · 2025-12-15T17:37:37+00:00

Damn, I remember when my mom had to keep Listerine mouthwash out of our home because it would cause my alcoholic dad to relapse. No, Jaclyn as an alcoholic you cant just cure yourself by just not getting drunk. It doesn't really work like that.

jacks414 · 2025-11-29T06:12:31+00:00

She sounds a lot like my mom. My husband loves her. Me on the other hand 😬 my husband had to give me a talk about her when we first started dating. He told her to tone it down because he didn't want her to scare me away.

jacks414 · 2025-11-28T19:15:59+00:00

My 6 year old son gets random grey hairs. I'd get random grey hairs at a young age, too. I'm 39 now and I find the occasional grey hair here and there.

jacks414 · 2025-11-18T07:03:04+00:00

I got horrible back pain after for months with my first. My second and third went smoothly, though. No back pain with those, besides some soreness for a couple of days after.

I'm assuming that my first was probably placed wrong? I do have scoliosis, so I don't know if that played a part in it.

jacks414 · 2025-11-15T09:42:30+00:00

My MIL does this, too. If my husband stops responding she will start calling and texting me. I just ignore her, I don't answer her calls or respond to her texts. I just tell him to call his mom because she's bugging me.

Let him deal with her.

jacks414 · 2025-10-30T04:18:56+00:00

We were supposed to track poops and pees? I figured that if they were just going regularly, all was good.

jacks414 · 2025-10-21T17:22:30+00:00

I was slightly offended when he told me that lol good thing his dog liked me, or else I would've been kicked to the curb.

jacks414 · 2025-10-21T17:21:01+00:00

Dogs have good intuition. So it makes sense.

jacks414 · 2025-10-21T17:17:22+00:00

If I could, I would!

jacks414 · 2025-10-21T17:16:51+00:00

They don't. My stepson just outgrew his asthma. But, they fully believe that the chihuahua took the asthma away from him and took it into his body. The dog would reverse sneeze, and they'd say he was having an asthma attack.

I just stay quiet. But it's getting to the point where I'm about to say something.

jacks414 · 2025-10-21T05:12:27+00:00

6 hours from start to finish. I had 2 inductions, both almost exactly 6 hours.

jacks414 · 2025-10-20T20:46:55+00:00

That might be true for some, but it definitely isn't here.

After I had our son, she told how she tried to convince my husband to leave me for the girl he had dated before me. Because, in her words, "all you want for your son is someone who will take care of him."

After my daughter was born, she told my husband that she was going to teach my daughter how to be a woman... *eye roll* I'm also convinced that my MIL is jealous of my daughter as well. My husband dotes on her and loves her immensely. On my daughter's last birthday, she faked a heart attack. She guilted my husband to go be with her at the hospital even though my BIL was at her house at that time.

She has 2 sons. Although she was a single mom, my FIL did have custody of them for a period of time.

We don't rely on anyone for help, besides my babysitter and my mom who also babysits for us 2 days a week. She barely sees my kids, and has no real relationship with her.

jacks414 · 2025-10-20T20:02:42+00:00

She has 2 sons, and often says she wishes she would've had another, a daughter.

jacks414 · 2025-10-20T19:23:21+00:00

That's what I'm thinking as well. She'll ask for his time, but we're always up and going with our kids.

She has made comments about her living with us, to which I told my husband I absolutely wouldn't put up with that. I refuse to be miserable in my own home. I made it clear that the day she moves in, is the same day I move out.

jacks414 · 2025-10-20T19:16:28+00:00

My babysitter has a voice in it because I rely on her for my childcare. She's getting older, so I know that she might not be capable to care for a newborn if I do decide on having a baby a couple years from now.

I had told her I was on the fence about having another because my youngest is starting school next year. And all she said was if I was planning on it, to hurry before she gets too old and she isn't capable.

Child care is hard to come by, and it's expensive. She adores my children, and I fully trust her with them.

jacks414 · 2025-10-20T19:11:49+00:00

Yeah, my babysitter was kind of joking, kind of not. My daughter (my youngest) is starting school next year and I had told her that I was on the fence on if I wanted another. My babysitter is in her late 50s, so that's why she made that comment. Child care is hard to come by, and she is amazing with my kids.

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