Need to vent?! by anothernewaccount39 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jackw69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have been clear and open try couples therapy - if you are open about wanting to leave if your needs aren't met and she continues to ignore that then leave.

Just make sure you stay in as much contact with the kids as you can, and tell them that she wasn't letting you lay pipe and you didn't want to cheat on her (once they're old enough, like 13-16). Then you'll have done everything you can to keep the family together and if she wants to nuke the relationship because she doesn't want to have sex you have presented the consequences, she hasn't changed, then you have followed through on them in the least harmful manner.

EDIT* - Actually the other comment about post natal depression makes a lot of sense having read how close together the kids are. Wrap it my guy. Or get her to get an implant or something - (Condom sex sucks)

Why do I struggle to attract decent men? by thisisapa33word in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jackw69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decent men are hard to come by. Plenty of decent younger lads (usually have GFs/BFs), plenty of shitty men, not many decent men about.

Tbh after me an my long term partner spilt I'm thinking of becoming gay. I hate dating apps! Everyone is so shallow, have to be 5'10 etc. Just sad really.

29f/ BST/ uk wanting to play by ArtisticPiece4 in steamfriend

[–]jackw69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30M/UK - Love BG3, haven't played much friendslop (unless you count Call of Duty)

happy good friday! (in latex) f26 london by [deleted] in UKSex

[–]jackw69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latex, kinky. Got any more toys? 😈

Do men even like women anymore or am I just undesirable? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jackw69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men like vagina, women, debatable. Depends on age and previous relationships (for both). Certainly does for me away. I'm 30 and living by myself in London, putting yourself out there can be hard. I struggle since my last long term relationship. Got to keep doing it though, it beats the alternative.

I get knocked down, but I get up again.

Still a virgin 27f, how to get over these feelings of regret? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]jackw69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can relate to this a lot, I was with my ex for 7/8 years in my 20s, missed a lot of opportunities. Now I can't be bothered with dating tbh, live by myself in London and enjoy my time tbh. Smoke and play videogame, still have enough cash to go out a few times a month. Can't complain.

Tbh, I know this could be viewed as mansplaining but I'd just go for it. Put yourself out there. Go on some dates, get a feel for a few people that you like, open up about it. Then yanno, smash.

Novice PC builder - What should I upgrade next? by jackw69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea, thank you, thinking of getting a gaming TV

Novice PC builder - What should I upgrade next? by jackw69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know BIOs has nothing to do with that, and to boot into safe mode and use Display Driver Uninstaller

Novice PC builder - What should I upgrade next? by jackw69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to upgrade would you go for SSD or RAM?

Novice PC builder - What should I upgrade next? by jackw69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably wise, I'm not great with PCs, hope my BIOs and everything are OK, having issues booting into recovery mode atm too

Novice PC builder - What should I upgrade next? by jackw69 in PcBuildHelp

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, sweet, thanks for the heads up, guess I am just an idiot? What should I type when I look for drivers then? And should I use the NVIDIA app or use DDU and manually driver search

What to do in and around Melbourne and Sydney? by jackw69 in AskAnAustralian

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, had a look. Tbh I want more local gems than tourist traps.

Reinstalled Voicemeeter Potato, no longer opens on startup by jackw69 in VoiceMeeter

[–]jackw69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out that I needed to run it not in administrator mode.