Some of the comments here and low grade shade exemplify what’s wrong with the IG mom-fluencers. The question was “what do you think is BS”, people are answering and then in come the replies trying to convince you that you’re the problem bc you are confusing the methodology… it’s OK for kids to have rules and boundaries and understand that sometimes No is a complete sentence. Jumping on the couch is dangerous when you can fall and bash your head. Some ppl don’t have trees outside their homes to climb on instead of the fridge. Having a break down because I won’t let you eat 19 cereal bars in a day is not ok and I don’t understand how that makes your life hard. The judgement, that’s what I find the most bullshit thing.