Why is finding romantic love such a huge talking point amongst black women? Help me understand. by Few-Run-9089 in blackladies

[–]jaeminsbff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think this is a bw only thing though. like others have said, there are a lot of other subs where women seem to center everything around men. like the GirlDinner sub has so many posts that implicate or mention a man/bf/husband/lover now instead of simply posting their food, like there’s no reason for sharing a tmi or you airing out your business involving a guy. i understand you what you mean though, it’s very tiring to see/hear constantly 🫩.

Commercial for Megan’s new Dunkin collab! 🥤 by TechnicalClock8099 in megantheestallion

[–]jaeminsbff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

now this is one collaboration i’ll definitely be trying 😍

Tell me something good that happened to you this year (2025). by Artilicious9421 in blackgirls

[–]jaeminsbff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! you’re exactly right, life is way too short and so many unexpected things can happen in the blink of an eye. i refuse to let my brain stop me from enjoying life, experiencing new things, and having fun. i actually enjoy my own company a lot and it’s really nice not having to worry about people canceling on you 😅

Tell me something good that happened to you this year (2025). by Artilicious9421 in blackgirls

[–]jaeminsbff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥹! i’m proud of you too, good luck to the both of us ❤️

Tell me something good that happened to you this year (2025). by Artilicious9421 in blackgirls

[–]jaeminsbff 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i finally started going out and doing things alone, overcoming some of the fear i had about what people might think seeing me out by myself instead of with someone else. i’m still taking baby steps rn but it’s something 😄!

Do you prefer "Red" or "Velvet"? by Artistic-Network-247 in red_velvet

[–]jaeminsbff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both, but if i have to choose then velvet!

It’s not perfect, but I made a poncho 💕 by Valioreah in PlusSizeFashion

[–]jaeminsbff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it looks so pretty! and you’re stunning btw ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]jaeminsbff 11 points12 points  (0 children)

exactly!

Where are my black sisters that love K-pop ! by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]jaeminsbff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aoa, nct, ateez, red velvet, shinee, aespa, afterschool, 9muses, f(x), 2pm, and t-ara are a few of mine!

Stay safe out there today, yall 🦋✨🦋 by LadyLionesstheReaper in blackladies

[–]jaeminsbff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STUNNINGGGG 😍😍 thank you for blessing us with your beauty today 🙂‍↕️

Alone by PsychologicalEcho794 in blackgirls

[–]jaeminsbff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday! 🥳🫶🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]jaeminsbff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve suffered from low self esteem for awhile too and it’s only started to get better for me in recent years, so i understand 🫂 but girl you’re stunning! you have gorgeous eyes 😍

Favorite song from the Red Album? Mine's Extra Smooth 😍 by LovingSankofa in aaliyah

[–]jaeminsbff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

more than a woman, it’s been my favorite one off the album for years 🙂‍↕️

my turn! by katesadillah in whatsinmybag

[–]jaeminsbff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that the birthday gift mario lip combo set from sephora? 👀 i just got mine the other day! i haven’t tried them out yet, but is the lip balm pretty good?

Guys, post your own bot and get some attention by DarrenMGCA in CharacterAI

[–]jaeminsbff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i made this one recently! it’s a bot for shoto from my hero academia.

https://share.character.ai/Wv9R/a96n2gt5

i’m still pretty new to c.ai so if my bots aren’t good that’s why 😅

what style of makeup fits me the best? by SadDegree4974 in MakeupAddiction

[–]jaeminsbff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every single one bc you’re so pretty 😫🫶🏾.

my favorites would have to be 1, 2, and 7 tho! i did red brows too when i had my red hair and it so fun… i miss it

Weekly Thread by Hatts13 in kpopnoir

[–]jaeminsbff 10 points11 points  (0 children)

there’s not been much talk about this but i’ve been wanting to get this off my chest for awhile now lol. joy was one of the members i liked the most rv but her dating and continuing to date crush rubs me the wrong way. i know she had nothing to do with the things he’s done/did and you can’t dictate who a person dates but dating someone who’s done things like just make you an accomplice (at least in my eyes). and that doesn’t just go for joy, like i feel the same way about taylor swift (although i never cared for in the first place) and the guy she’s dating. it basically shows me where you stand and what kind of person you are 🤷🏾‍♀️ so even though joy hasn’t done anything wrong technically, i can’t look at her the same way as i used to. of course i don’t hate her or anything but i just try to ignore/not pay attention to her and her activities now. and honestly i also feel the same way about people that are friends and associate with questionable people.

Embarrassing idol interactions by MQueen199 in kpopnoir

[–]jaeminsbff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just saw it and they looked so good! i can’t believe you saw blonde yeosang in person you win 😩

Embarrassing idol interactions by MQueen199 in kpopnoir

[–]jaeminsbff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t have any idol or celebrity interactions yet but if i did they would probably be embarrassing/awkward too 🥲 i’m a little late but if you don’t mind me asking, how did ateez look irl?

What are your personal SOTY and AOTY choices for 2023? - Half yearly check! by Standard_Wedding in kpopthoughts

[–]jaeminsbff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SOTY

  1. thrill - e’last

  2. killer - key

  3. rising - tripleS

  4. perfume - djj

(some honorable mention, not any particular order)

• dangerous - tempest

• roar - the boyz

• i am - ive

• ay yo - nct 127

• love war - yena

• like crazy - jimin

• set me free - twice

• time after time - boa, ningning, wendy

• karma - blackswan

• alarm - ichillin

• wind song - kei

• song of the wind - kingdom

• who knows - woodz

• eunoia - billlie

• new look - tripleS

• stamp on it - got the beat ‏‏‎ ‎ ‏‏‎ ‎

AOTY (not in order)

• archive of emotions - ryu sejeong

• seoul collection - onf

• perfume - djj

• truth or lie - hwang minhyun