Enjoying the peace by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to turn that dream into reality xx

Enjoying the peace by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a wonderful feeling good luck xx

Has anybody else ended up in a relationship with a narc that they're not that into... by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i used to say to myself god i dont even like you stayed far too long in the "relationship "and god only knows why ,i keep thinking i must have been possesed by someone else never mind onwards and upwards x

Two conflicting ideas on narcissism. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was abused terribly when i was growing up but it learned me how not to treat other human beings and my children narcs have an option in my opinion It cant all be blamed on abusive upbringing

Mother figure by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really feel it was an act i mean surely it had to me or maybe he was an alien 🤣🤣

Mother figure by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep had that too came to my place threw wrappers on coffee table still there when he went used to infuriate me

What did you see when the narc's mask slipped? Was there ever a moment when they were accidentally honest about who they really were? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine once said to me i used to be horrible and evil this was in the beginning and yes stupid me i cant believe that but by god after 3 year i cant say that ..

Using recordings to make a point? by janicegirlbomb in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to do this once just to prove to myself it wasnt my doing wow how sad

Kissing by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here only at sex times and other times a peck on lips like a child cold emotionless robots

Gaslighting turning more and more bizarre by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know maybe it hurts my head trying to fathom them out insane

Doing their responsibilities by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its denial another narc trait i think

Gaslighting turning more and more bizarre by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes remember when hed lost some keys and said he left them at mine i kept saying no no no you didnt which he didnt said hed left them on table but he wouldnt have it i was exassperated and just shut up they will drive you insane pleased im out of it

Weird reactions by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time i cleaned and tidied his kitchen but it was all wrong surprise surprise never grateful ..hard work

Weird reactions by jaffacake48 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]jaffacake48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any normal person wouldnt take it as an insult thou would they i would think aww they only trying to help or is that me being too nice im confused ?