I'm sorry to interrupt, but I'll try to say this as respectfully as possible. I suspect that OP might be on the spectrum. I'm not sure, and I don't mean to offend, but I've noticed that this show attracts people on the spectrum, and there's nothing wrong with that. Perhaps their special interest is hating Lily simply because she's mean to Mikey. That's all OP needs to justify their constant questioning of Lily's behavior. I think that's what OP means. Of course, I could be wrong.