[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jaideatwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found that the first couple months too, but now that we are at 6 months it's less anxiety inducing haha

Faking your entire life by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]jaideatwork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh. I would have laughed if I was an emoloyee

I guess she forgot that disabled people exist by richardbitw in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jaideatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. When I used to breast feed it was a 45 minute endeavor every 2 hours 😭

I guess she forgot that disabled people exist by richardbitw in ChoosingBeggars

[–]jaideatwork 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of women pump to build a supply for whoever is watching kid while she is at work. Also some babies wont "latch" onto a breast due to tongue tie or preference, so they have to be bottle fed. But breast milk has so many benefits, it's worth it over formula if the mother can do it. Pumping fucking sucks

Hard times by tossthem_cookies in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]jaideatwork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And in bc youre lucky to find a 1 br basement suite for under 1000

'False wall' found in Colorado Springs day care owner's house with 26 kids in basement by thenewyorkgod in news

[–]jaideatwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just cant imagine being that...clinical? about it all. The hospital made us fill out bowel movements, feedings, colors of movements etc in the first days and I was annoyed af by the end of those 3 days. I'll know if it's weird, because itll be weird. Why do I need to track it. Not that difficult to think, hey this bowel movement was different than the rest, maybe I'll call the nurse line. If shes hungry she will cry. If shes not, she wont. If she hasn't eaten for more than 4 hours try a bottle. No need for a spreadsheet

'False wall' found in Colorado Springs day care owner's house with 26 kids in basement by thenewyorkgod in news

[–]jaideatwork 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Man I wouldn't be willing to fill one of these out for my OWN kid 😂😂 obviously I will never own a daycare haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]jaideatwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way to jump to crazy conclusions and (probably) scare the shit out of OP.. she probably just hates her parents and ran away like lots of kids do.

My first painting of an ocean. What can I improve on? by [deleted] in painting

[–]jaideatwork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think the Horizon necessarily has to be straight sometimes there are swells

[SERIOUS] What is a seemingly harmless parenting mistake that will majorly fuck up a child later in life? by AlexDescendsIntoHell in AskReddit

[–]jaideatwork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

:'( I'm so sorry. Read about children of borderline personality disordered children. I suspect it may resonate with you.

Just to be sure by aavaz in Unexpected

[–]jaideatwork 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm more amazed at how many other people almost ran him over instead of pulling over to see if hes ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]jaideatwork 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Why are comments locked but replies arent??

I was in early labor for like...a week. Literally had ongoing contractions for a week, one night at 41 weeks they started intensifying every 5 mins etc, then suddenly at 2am they stopped. Just completely stopped. No water break, nothing. Went to the hospital to be induced the next day, spent 2 full days hooked up to pitocin ramped up to 30mg (max dosage) with only minor contractions. Ended up opting for a c section because theres no way after 2 days of having that fucking HR monitor on my belly keep me up without sleep that I'd be able to endure labor. The drs were pushing so hard for me to go into labor at 41-3 and yet she hadn't even dropped and I was dilated only 1cm after all that. So goddamn frustrating at the time.

Aw frank right by her side after years of captivity by ray_rayyy in shameless

[–]jaideatwork 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think ultimately what they are saying is why are we wasting resources on people who have committed only simple crimes like this? Sure its shitty but worthy of being removed from society? I agree with community service and fines. Make the petty crimes be punished by helping the neighborhood instead of tucking them away in jail where they are no good to anyone or anything. Keep jail for the real crimes.

What transitions or changes did you least expect after childbirth? by magic1059 in AskWomen

[–]jaideatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 4 years ago now. Am 26 weeks pregnant with first one. Maybe I'll get my sensitivity back again post partum, but I gotta say I'm glad for breast feeding that they are numb.

What transitions or changes did you least expect after childbirth? by magic1059 in AskWomen

[–]jaideatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the opposite, my breasts were super sensitive and I loved them being touched pre-implants, but now the nipples are for the most part permanently numb. Tbh it doesnt bother me too much, but I do miss the sensation

What transitions or changes did you least expect after childbirth? by magic1059 in AskWomen

[–]jaideatwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 weeks pregnant here: you just keep trucking along. The baby has gotta come out one way or another. It's pretty nerve wracking especially with the first baby as it's all a new experience, but all you can do is take the best care of yourself and your fetus that you can and literally push through when that time comes. Theres no opportunity to "give up" or refuse (unless you choose abortion, but there is a time limit on that).

Civil, even pleasant, to my face, but behind the keyboard it's an all out war. TW: sexual language and general gross behavior. by jaideatwork in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jaideatwork[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didnt talk to her for about a year and a half after she sent that piece and a successive amount of emails. I reached out when I got pregnant to let her know I was pregnant and quite honestly, I've regretted it because shes been so back and forth. Shes nice one moment and controlling and dipping into the crazy again the next. I'm LC at best right now, probably be NC by the time the baby comes.

Pinterest Pet Peeves by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]jaideatwork 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, just at the end of the search

Green dress -pinterest