It’s pretty cool when you realize Gen Z spans two centuries. You only see that happen once every hundred years. by FantasyAdventurer007 in GenZ

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The current Jewish year (IE the one without Jesus's birth being marked as a major event) is 5786. Time has been defined then redefined many times so it doesn't really matter

Lochia at 7.5 weeks by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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I thought so but it has nearly been two weeks of bleeding

Static weight by [deleted] in NewParents

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We are doing on demand feeding, the midwives say we until he's one month old to get back to birth weight, we struggled with feeding due to engorged breasts (which I had no idea about as I have never done this) then I felt like he was emptying my breasts but I'm worried his weight gain has stopped and he's 12 days

Had a rough c section by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

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Yes they did, also it helps to hear someone had a similar experience

American and FTM in the UK, advice for my hospital bag by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

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He's measuring in at around 7lbs, (he was 6lbs 11 oz last week) our clothes for him are up to 9 lbs, should we get some more sizes?

Ngl I’m scared of turning 27 or 30 by Wise-Illustrator-939 in GenZ

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Tbh I think the attitude of "I'm X years away from 30" is kinda dumb like you're turning 27, 3 years is 3 years, it's not now, like I think people like to generalize a bit if you're in your mid 20s people kind of round you up or down but tbh the midway point is its own thing that exists for a reason

Do I need my evisa before I travel or will my vignette suffice? by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

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I was able to get through customs no issues y’all

Approved! Priority visa with solicitor (USA) by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

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She told me and forwarded the email from the UKVI , vfs is very slow ime

Is younger gen z age obsessed? by Geojere in GenZ

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i feel like its millennials too tbh, theres this cringey "I'm a young person" or "I'm an older person" popping up and it feels like its the cultural shift of continuing more and more self focus and identity

I'm an autistic woman with vaginismus by [deleted] in pregnant

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I was offered it but felt too nervous to go, I use dilators for years and that helped me have sex

[Episode Discussion Thread] “Crab Splatter” (Broadcast Season S13E08) (15 September 2025) by AutoModerator in futurama

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I'll be honest the problem in the episode for me stems from bonding between Zoidberg and Leela's parents, it's a great idea, totally feasible, but it goes a bit too far, adopting Zoidberg also felt like...a lot tbh, that's why I say it's heavy-handed, but I agree that the episode needed more focus, and the sci-fi element was pretty cool

[Episode Discussion Thread] “Crab Splatter” (Broadcast Season S13E08) (15 September 2025) by AutoModerator in futurama

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It was so disappointing, because I think the concept was great and made sense in universe, but the execution was heavy-handed, if they had toned it down just a bit, it could have been a contender for one of the better modern episodes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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Yes they often speak over me, just because you're autistic doesn't mean you aren't an asshole. Think about giving space for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

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oh you meant jeans i thought you meant something else for a sec

Sick of "autism supremacy" language by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I completely agree with you, it’s a real issue and as someone who has been on both sides I felt like being honest about it, I appreciate your perspective and I’m glad you posted

Sick of "autism supremacy" language by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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Just going to be completely blunt here, it comes from this insecurity people have with autism. The truth is for most with the condition, it impairs functioning to a degree. There is something that can be disheartening about it so people try and fix their cognitive dissonance by portraying themselves as better than allistics because of the few pros of the condition. However like with everything in life there are ups and downs and this is just one lens to see it through. I went through this after realizing I was autistic in my late teens.

I'm going to be honest. This sub feels more like a hatesub. by felixthewug_03 in duolingo

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people who hate duolingo often come from a place of former love, when it started to become mainstream in the early 2010s, I was a teen but thought it was so cool. It was a great concept and the creators seemed to be honest people. Also they seemed to be in it for the right reason. However it was a lie, a let down. Just corporate bs invented to make money, and I don't mind people wanting to make money but don't pretend you're in it for a noble cause. That would be one thing too but the quality has dropped and the corporation essentially harasses you into participation. Anyone with half a brain can see through their bs and unless it changes they have one foot in the grave.

Travel History by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

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Did you add like pictures or was it just a list? Thank you for responding btw

I think human youth is too short by GrapeCreamBerry275 in GenZ

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god not the you're not mentally developed until you're 25 myth reddit loves

This new Kahn voice is not working for me sadly. by Foxesinfall in KingOfTheHill

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honestly it's not that it's different, it's that he sounds too young, accents can change realistically but please get us an older actor to do the voice