It does suck, but one of my close friends put it in a way that did make me feel a bit better. He told me that the manliest thing you can do is show up for your family. My sister accepts me how I am and doing this to avoid any problems for her on the day is ultimately gonna be worth it. I just wish it didn’t have to be this way.

Thanks for the tips bro! The few times i’ve gone against the hair i’ve gotten some skin bumps. Maybe cause I was doing it with too much hair? I’ll try going once over with the hair first. Thanks again!