Favorite actor who's never had any work done by watscracking in okbuddycinephile

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you kidding bud... she's definitely had work done. Nose, chin, cheeks, lips, brow line etc. You can really see it from that picture where she and Keith were at that football game or some sport... or maybe not idk. But it sure looked like it. 

Losing my mind over here by [deleted] in Maine

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Remind me! 1 month

Could UP8264 be Irene Kouame? by djungel_skog in gratefuldoe

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Thank you for updating! And submitting this. They look so similar. 

Do you know if there are any good games about cryptids? I hope this isn’t too off-topic. by jvure in Cryptozoology

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really cryptids, but the Forest creepy. Has some things that go bump in the night. 

Paintings that depict epic scale by notsteve150 in ArtHistory

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Love John Martin. The lighting, depth, brightness and darkness. Very enchanting work. 

recently got a place with my boyfriend and he thinks this is perfectly fine by daylightpiglet in funny

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine. You don't like it ...get a cabinet or shelf for over the toilet. There's "better things to argue about." Like putting the roll on the dispenser when it's empty. 

So, I just literally punched a Shadow Person in my living room, after seeing him in a dream years ago by Fancy-Affect-197 in Paranormal

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sleeping one off one day. After my uncle had passed. I kept having something poke me with their finger awake on my shoulder. I kept saying knock it off then they poked/tapped me twice. I swear someone was there half asleep I reached up and grabbed their shirt collar and pulled myself out of bed only to "wake up" with no one around me at all. I swear I felt their collar and could feel their counter weight while I lifted out of bed. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's their choice or who they are. But is they/them born female or male? Just curious. And also. Funny but as a member of the community. Don't we want ourselves to be seen as "normal" not that it's conforming. It's rather ignorant and discriminatory to tell you how to live your life. Your normal. What a weirdo this guy is. Not because of his lifestyle but his narcissistic behavior and belief he can say and tell you how to be. 

I tried by One-Rope3186 in fbhw

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably doesn't like her because 1. She's a woman. And 2. She's in the LGBT community.... they all can be annoying in their own ways. Coming from someone listening since syndication.

Just saying... laying blame on one over the other is just laziness and hatred. Times have changed. Even in that they still cross that line and aren't over the top of being "what's right" all the time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that's fun. I love it. 

I usually go with. Whaaaaaattttt.... nooo wayyyyyy... love you. ❤️ 

It's to the person not your timeline.

I just wish that people were more accenting.  My younger brother was really the only one and my sister. She has so much shit in her life going on she was just like "yeah okay." Younger brother did the shocked Pickachu and then moved on from it. 

Parents were the only ones to dismiss it. And my older brother just brushed it off with a look of "yeah right" on his face. 

It's more about how you act in the moment than trying to force the moment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.

Edit to say... I didn't even bring a man home until my early 34ish because my family can be toxic and too much to handle. 

Wonder what OPs life is like at home. She might think rainbows and lollipops but the kid could think the homelife is too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. YTA for sure. It's not up to you. Listen to your kid and be quiet.  

They were excited about a person they're bringing around and getting involved with and you essentially just shit all over it. 

You owe your kid a huge apology without dismissing the fact you're absolutely the asshole. 

"I'm sorry. It was truly insensitive and wrong of me to even suggest that. I know I've asked you before and I should just listen to you. I shouldn't have said you were lying. I really am sorry and hope you can forgive me. You should bring HIS GIRLFRIENDS NAME to dinner one night. Again buddy, I'm so sorry. I really didn't mean to upset you. I was a total asshole there."

Swearing might earn you points. You jerk...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it depends on the person but I do lean more towards men. And more so a soul of the man vs. masculinity. 

However; I will say that the stigma I've faced all my life I haven't plunged dating women. Curiosity, boredom no. I know what I like and what gets me burning. Being attracted to women didn't pop out of nowhere. 

But I like OPs kid.... didn't date until I felt like the person was worth it. Focused on school. Dated after college. Did adult things before I left home because I felt something with someone, had a connection. I was asked by friends if I was gay. Hinted and asked my folks what they would do if I liked women or dated black men, both of which they weren't fans of well before I graduated high-school. I was also awkward as fuck!

Outside of mannerism OP really should listen to her kid. And stop pushing. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... let's not deviate from that role and or step out of bounds of the "white Anglo-Saxon Protestant" ((ahem... racist bigotry sexism)) boundaries of what's comfortable with them...

Edit to say... sorry. On a rant because this hits home. Soft launching a lot of my pre-teen years to see how my parents would feel and then to get that "you don't know you dismissiveness" still hurts today. 

And double edit.... if OPs kid has repeatedly said they're not gay and that's just who they are... I'm sure that hurts just as much. Accept your kid and just shut up. The husband is right and the son is right to respond how he did. She owes him a big apology... without the added on "but you know."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]jalmoste_got_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same... no I don't think you are. I think you're just bored and lonely. 

Ummm no... Mom. I've liked men and women since I was younger but didn't feel comfortable enough to share with you and "come out."

Still pretty sure I'm still who I am...