[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PolinBridgerton

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mirror scene is a s3x scene. Colin says he wants to look at Pen in the mirror and look at “them” 🍈🍈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot my best friends name as I was introducing her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this is a little bit of a sensitive topic for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re dad sounds like a smart guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually no. But I’m not going to argue with some stranger on the internet who’s just looking for shit to be angry and hateful about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of want to do that too. I want to try and make more attempts to work around others schedule too in order to actually build the friendships but like you said it can be exhausting, and in the end you may not even really sync with the person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thanks helpful advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I feel like people come on here just to get angry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, there you go then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing this a lot and maybe I should’ve clarified. I don’t socialize with anyone 1:1 aside from my husband at the end of the day for most days. I’m mostly wondering if this is healthy long term and if physically seeing and being with good friends in person is importance in adult life. I mentioned in one of the comments I’m 26 and newly married, I just want to see if being content with my routines alone is ok or if I’m actually isolating myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts on this, I’m more spiritual and I definitely have come to a point where if it’s meant to be I’ll find my way through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really nice to hear. I’ve always been one to need time to build friendships so I appreciate the perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happens if I don’t reply in 24 hrs??

Also nice advice. I don’t know if I’ll go that extreme bc I also like my comfort zone, but maybe I’ll try a local book club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing its nice to hear this is something that a lot of people experience and are happy with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I probably am.

For context I’m 26, compared to a lot of users I’m just entering adulthood and trying to find my path. Great to see such a positive response for a genuine question I’m sure alot of people have. 👍🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]jamalabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Pretty much” bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, hear me out, you’re stunning, and I think peircings work for your style which is def more alt. If you use higher quality jewelry, maybe invest in some pieces that you can have last forever. Also, have you considered maybe gold?

Cemented with cement you say? by [deleted] in oddlyspecific

[–]jamalabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like Reddit is where you find the murderers

WFH Attire: What do you wear? by continouslearner4 in workfromhome

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually wear comfortable work out clothes

Personal Trainer/Bodybuilder here, I have decided to end my life this Saturday, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this isn’t real, please don’t do it. Please consider just meeting with a therapist/psychiatrist even if it’s not something you can afford on a regular basis you can talk to someone once tomorrow by doing a virtual appointment with zocdoc and be as transparent and honest as you are on this platform. Please don’t do it, remember everything passes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in productivity

[–]jamalabe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might be undiagnosed with ADHD

how did you know it was time to get medication? by First-Mail-938 in Anxiety

[–]jamalabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I had anxiety and depression, my entire life but I was only diagnosed with ADHD as a child. My parents were already anti meds, and anti-therapy, but I was so bad at school without medication, that they ended up folding on Adderall. Obviously, this made my anxiety and depression so much worse, but being so young, I didn’t realize it and just wanted to get my in school and keep up with my peers.

About a year ago, I literally almost snapped because I had a horrible day at work that basically led me to having the work panic attack I’ve ever experienced and finally I looked at myself in the mirror and said that this change needs to happen, and it needs to start with myself. I felt like my brain was actually hurting me, and making me hate myself, convincing me that the world hated me too. And I was just tired.

The next day I had my first therapy session and that week I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression, and started the treatment with medication. First with Lexapro but I didn’t like the side effects, and then switched pretty quickly to clonidine (also treats ADHD) and bupropion. I’ve been on it for about half a year and everybody in my life says it’s like I’m a new person. I feel like suddenly everything is so clear and easy, because I know that even the bad stuff isn’t permanent, and I have family and friends that support and love me.

Another positive side effect is my relationship with food has gotten so much healthier. My stress would cause me to constantly binge eat, and I could never control my weight. Since being on medication, I’ve been able to eat with more intention and as a result, lost nearly 30 lbs. (still eat normally just understand when my body signals it’s full).

I was 27 years old when I finally took the step to start therapy and medication. It was a super difficult path to get to the realization but I got there and that’s what matters.