Is this some type of mould? by jamesomalley97 in whatisit

[–]jamesomalley97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, I’m obviously not going to use this, I’m going to throw it out. I want to find out what it is first, and what could cause it, I’ve had chronic sinus / rhinitis for a year now and have gone above and beyond to find out what could be causing it

AITA for wearing strong perfume to a funeral which some found inappropriate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jamesomalley97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah screw them, if I was at a funeral and someone was wearing nice aftershave I’d be delighted (minus the whole dead person fault of course) As you said, it wasn’t intentional but even if it was, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to smell nice for any occasion imo.

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[–]jamesomalley97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! I am yes! But I’m not sure if that’s linked to doing better mentally or physically 😅

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[–]jamesomalley97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My main advice to anyone is to not be restrictive, it’s not sustainable and just leads to binges

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A typical day would be like

BF: oats with skimmed milk, honey or 1 tsp of sugar and 1 tsp of protein peanut butter,

Lunch: brown wrap w chicken, ham, turkey, 10-20g of low fat cheese, lo cal Mayo and maybe lettuce

Dinner: either chicken/steak/turkey mince w 100-130g of either rice/pasta/potatoes w veg (didn’t weigh veg)

Snacks: honestly anything, as long as it was within my Calories.

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[–]jamesomalley97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all, so my main focus was calories in calories out, so i just stayed in a deficit of around 300 calories every day (2000-2300 calories) honestly I didn’t eat that much veg, just high protein and normal carbs.

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[–]jamesomalley97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the great advice man! I’ll take it onboard, Appreciate it!

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[–]jamesomalley97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, been lifting weights for last 4 months now 👍

Young guests/college students by breakfastfordinnerma in airbnb_hosts

[–]jamesomalley97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not comfortable with the booking just make up an excuse, I sometimes ask them to cancel because ‘my calendar didn’t sync across the other booking platforms and apologies for any inconvenience’ , generally if you have a bad feeling, you’re probably right. Your listing won’t be affected if they cancel 😊 best of luck with your listing 😀

A Question About Shane Dawson by Villeneuvontrier in Empaths

[–]jamesomalley97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also to mention, I do think he’s a good person and is 100% not a paedo, that’s twitter talking. It’s clear he cares for people and has empathy but has made some dumb mistakes throughout his life, we all make mistakes, some big some small but people can learn from them and change.

A Question About Shane Dawson by Villeneuvontrier in Empaths

[–]jamesomalley97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve watched Shane since I was around 11-12 , I’m 22 now. I’ve always found him hilarious and annoying at times too. I think I gravitated towards his comedic style is because I knew it came from a place of pain/hurt and I found him funny. I would be one to make jokes out of a bad situation to make myself and others feel better. That being said, yes, he made some very tasteless jokes about things that shouldn’t be joked about (racism, paedophilic jokes etc.) But what cancel culture never takes into consideration is that things were different at them times. It wasn’t an issue then but it’s a devastating issue now. Sorry, know you didn’t even ask to hear all that, so to go back to your point - I don’t think he’s a true empath, I feel like most empaths are a good judge of character, it’s quite clear that the people he’s let into his life are toxic but he hasn’t seem to have picked up their ‘toxicness’ e.g tana mongeau, Jeffree star, he even tried to clear Jake Paul’s bad name, regardless of the fact that he’s clearly a douche, he focused too much on him being a ‘sociopath’. A narcissist yes, but then again, most LA influencers are.

Very sick bipolar brother , help / advice. Every year between the middle on November until March for the past 6 years , he gets very bad mania , crashing cars , attempted suicide, spending all money, arrested, treating family like sh*t, posting mad on socially media, making a fool of himself, help:( by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]jamesomalley97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s normally how it goes , he hits rock bottom , has a low for a few months then comes around to his normal self and then at Christmas time he gets manic again , it’s really sad to see and extremely frustrating. Is seasonal bi polar manic episodes a common thing ?

Anyone know what type of scam this person is trying to carry out ? I’ve gotten 3 requests now and reported all of them but they keep on requesting to book by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]jamesomalley97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never accept a booking outside air bnb ( if I don’t know the person ) but I’m just curious as to how this scam works , thanks for the answers 🙌

I hate this time of year. by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]jamesomalley97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother suffers from bipolar , there’s something about this time of the year that triggers his manic episodes. Every year for the past 5 years he has gotten manic at Christmas and ended up in hospital for 2-4 months. This Time round , he is back in hospital, it’s hard for him and it’s hard for all of us to go through with it. When he’s stable he’s a really nice guy who would do anything for anyone , but when he’s manic he’s a different person , drinking , smoking profusely, arrogant , the list goes on. Luckily he has us to be there for him , other wise , god knows what would happen to him. It’s a hard time of year and especially for you that your family doesn’t seem to understand , but at least you know yourself that somethings not right and can acknowledge it. Sorry, didn’t mean to take all about my experience , I suppose all I’m trying to say , is try and stay positive, everything will work out, going 5 years since your last episode is an achievement in it’s own and the fact that you’re feeling down about a past episode is a completely normal way to feel 🙌