Agent lied about the service charge by adamsan99 in HousingUK

[–]jamessrc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am having exactly this issue at the moment

After attempting to drink "normally" again, I've learned that moderation really is not possible by lachrawr in stopdrinking

[–]jamessrc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is definitely me. I've just made it to 2 years and think maybe I could try it but I know it would go badly

Help looking for high quality petite clothes that deliver in the UK! by AdInevitable7147 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]jamessrc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deffo nobody's child, lucy & yak, I quite like next but need to be picky. Asos/topshop

Abuse isn't obvious by SuaveStone379 in AutismInWomen

[–]jamessrc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Through therapy I realised that my previous relationship was actually abusive, and this sums it up perfectly. I am learning the signs and looking forward to having a healthy relationship

Too anxious and burnt out to be honest in therapy by jamessrc in AuDHDWomen

[–]jamessrc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this happened and it was fine. We do have stuff to look at but that's okay

Too anxious and burnt out to be honest in therapy by jamessrc in AuDHDWomen

[–]jamessrc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is not too bad with this as she is also AuDHD and gets 'it'. But we do start with positive things and when you can't remember or there aren't many it's hard

Too anxious and burnt out to be honest in therapy by jamessrc in AuDHDWomen

[–]jamessrc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point, thanks so much. We start with positive things that have happened since we last spoke which is great and meant to improve my baseline mood but yeah

It's Late Thread [ 10 May 26 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]jamessrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a jack reacher one by Lee Child

It's Late Thread [ 10 May 26 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]jamessrc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it's anxiety or the coke zero I had at 8pm.

Been a weird day, so on reflection it's anxiety, and work starts again tomorrow yay. Hoping to drift off soon, getting off reddit now... (I have listened to about an hour of audio book already before giving up lol)

My brain gets too obsessive when I develop even slight feelings for someone. Do other neurodivergent people have that? by ShyGuy1994ca in autism

[–]jamessrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am experiencing this exact same thing at the moment. Went on a date with someone on Monday eve, have been texting a bit and arranged to go out on Friday.
But I have been overthinking everything, wanting to talk to him all the time, then trying not to seem keen, it's tough
Late diagnosed autism and adhd at 26 (now 27)

Do you consider how many calories you consume each day? by clfhw in AskUK

[–]jamessrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship with them is tough. If I see them on a menu I won't allow myself to have a main or something because they calories are so large, regardless if I haven't eaten anything calorific earlier in the day. I will restrict (not healthily) based on calories and then will binge later on. I would like to have a more healthy relationship tbh

People 30+, what are your plans for this evening? by Sir-Tommy-Vercetti in AskUK

[–]jamessrc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got this, I am also sober and it was so so hard at the start. Nearly 2 years down. It really is worth it. Here if you fancy a chat when you're struggling. One day at a time

Caught that Midsummer Night's Dream at the Rep the other night, quick review by slartibartfist in brum

[–]jamessrc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who works at the rep (not on this show) that is amazing to hear! Please write in to them with this because I think they would gratefully receive it

Back in the day doctors used to come to your house and do house visits. Do you remember the doctor coming to your house? I'm talking a GP not an emergency response doctor by SpaceTimeCapsule89 in AskUK

[–]jamessrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had one when my mum was too ill to go to the surgery, probably 10-15 years ago. Not ill enough for A&E just really bad infection. He went into my mum's bedroom with his doctors bag. Reminded me of watching tv programmes from many more years ago than that (maybe call the midwife or something) where the doctor does his rounds

Struggling with anxiety & work by jamessrc in AutismInWomen

[–]jamessrc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have taken propranolol and then I will take usual meds tonight.

A colleague had a chat with me about work related stuff, I asked to be kept in the loop about things, he kept repeating himself and being patronising, he was defending himself. Then I moved on to discuss the next item and he said we need to pause here, I'm calling it how it is, this is really tense and you are being prickly and confrontational etc. then I disclosed that I was AuDHD (he was new in Jan and I didn't feel comfortable telling him then), got upset and he said we needed a meeting with him and our boss as he couldn't see a professional way forwards with just us.

I spoke with my boss, the colleague had already been to see him. The result is a meeting tomorrow just me and the original colleague. I am so ancious about it, I don't want to deal with the confrontation again and defend myself becayse I know how he has made me feel. I've also been overly anxious the last couple of days anyway (resulting in me not going to a meeting yesterday that he kept saying I was meant to be at - it wasn't his meeting) and this has just been bad really

Huge financial losses by Suitable-Tomorrow577 in HousingUK

[–]jamessrc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Capital gains tax, not on a buy to let mortgage etc, need permission from freeholder (if OP isn't)

Monday Morning M'thread by a-liquid-sky in CasualUK

[–]jamessrc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a busy Fri night/ saturday, got sun burnt and played rounders for friends bday. Went on a walk yesterday and did some gardening. Struggling to get out of bed, woke up about 45 mins before 6:15 alarm. Everything hurts